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RE: Talking Women - 2/12/2010 5:05:09 AM

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RE: Talking Women - 2/12/2010 5:07:20 AM

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I dont shut up its a great thing that I'm cute

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RE: Talking Women - 2/12/2010 5:15:06 AM

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I dont shut up its a great thing that I'm cute

Yes. I could listen to you all day long, baby.

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RE: Talking Women - 2/12/2010 5:18:12 AM

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Some chicks type a lot.

Luckily they are very fuckable.

i type quickly and softly.
i have a quirky accent.
i have rants about work, but i can be very very quiet. amazing what some people will say just to fill a silence

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RE: Talking Women - 2/12/2010 5:19:56 AM

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Also, I'm not usually a very talkative man, so if a woman is one of those that HAS to have a "dense", continous conversation, she's going to likely be disappointed.

this is why Level is so fond of me......i am on the quiet side too.

wa?

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RE: Talking Women - 2/12/2010 5:21:28 AM

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I dont shut up its a great thing that I'm cute

Yes. I could listen to you all day long, baby.

I could talk to you all day .. too bad you wont hear me because my thighs will be covering your ears ..

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RE: Talking Women - 2/12/2010 5:28:48 AM

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I can't help but wonder how long it will be before that guy finds he is no longer necessary because the women have everything they need without him.

But of course, they still have to buy a fake version of what he already comes with. But then without his money.....hmmmm.

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And the woman he is pretending to listen to will figure it out eventually and the clothes will become glued to her body.

Simple enough solution for that -- show her the door.

Like Tom Leykis says -- "When I want to chat, that's what my friends are for. When I call a woman at 11:30 at night, talking is *not* on the agenda."

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RE: Talking Women - 2/12/2010 5:30:00 AM

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It depends. Sometimes people talk because they need to vent. That is to be expected. However, after hearing ten stories about Helen, that bitch from Hell, who sits next to you at work. I am going to finally tune you out or say, "I get it, She's a total cunt. It is time you tell Helen how you feel and stop yammerin' on to me anymore about this ridiculous situation."

Then we can go fuck.....Yay!!!!

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RE: Talking Women - 2/12/2010 5:34:17 AM

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I could talk to you all day .. too bad you wont hear me because my thighs will be covering your ears ..

*THUD*

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RE: Talking Women - 2/12/2010 5:38:45 AM

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amazing what some people will say just to fill a silence

True. For some, silence can feel like an awkward abyss that has to be filled up. Personally, I think that you know you're in a great relationship when silence isn't awkward and you both can be happy being quiet.

Plus, making love without saying a word can be the most erotic thing in the world :-) .

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RE: Talking Women - 2/12/2010 5:39:48 AM

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It is the need of some women to process every thought through their mouth without analysis or critical thought that annoys and tires me; or that need to complain, without any desire to fix things.

It annoys me when anyone does that. I just have NO patience at all for people like that and avoid them like the plague!

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Then again, maybe we can be a bit more accomodating, and a bit more patient. And maybe you can become a bit more stoic, and suck it up sometimes.

Well said.

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RE: Talking Women - 2/12/2010 5:40:58 AM

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Talk about what, precisely?

People of any gender don't necessarily prefer non-talking in general. Some prefer non-talking about certain topics.

Personally, about the only type of talking I cut short is the sort that is unnecessarily argumentative...but, at the point that such a response would need to happen, it's usually an indication of other likely incompatibilities anyhow.

Otherwise, my partner is likely to have enough interest in mutually interesting topics that talking isn't a bad thing at all.

I find this completely untrue and possibly indicative of one who will not sustain healthy relationships. See, fighting can be a healthy part of a relationship. There is such a thing as a healthy argument. Shutting someone down in their need to express themselves leads to much frustration.

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RE: Talking Women - 2/12/2010 5:44:34 AM

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From the study in Science magazine: "In general, they found that women tend to talk more about relationships. Their everyday conversation is more studded with pronouns. Men tend to talk more about sports and gadgets, and their utterances include more numbers."

*YAWN*!!!

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RE: Talking Women - 2/12/2010 5:45:22 AM

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Plus, making love without saying a word can be the most erotic thing in the world :-) .

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RE: Talking Women - 2/12/2010 5:47:51 AM

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RE: Talking Women - 2/12/2010 5:49:45 AM

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Some people can process inside their own heads. Others need to do it on paper. And still others need to talk it out to process it. If you aren't compatible with those who need to process out loud, then don't get involved with one of those types.

Denigrating them because they process differently than you is just wrong. It would be just as easy for them to put you down saying "he/she never wants to interact, to ask my opinion. He says nothing for hours and then comes out with these pronouncements that have no basis in reality because he didn't get any information from other people, just the fantasy in his/her own head".

Either way is fine as long as you're compatible. And if you aren't compatible yet got into the relationship with them, knowing what their style is like anyway, the fault is yours for not bothering to notice who they really were to begin with.

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RE: Talking Women - 2/12/2010 5:52:03 AM

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What about those people that are silent in others' company, but who have spontaneous bursts of talking to themselves *shudder*!

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RE: Talking Women - 2/12/2010 5:53:22 AM

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It depends. Sometimes people talk because they need to vent. That is to be expected. However, after hearing ten stories about Helen, that bitch from Hell, who sits next to you at work. I am going to finally tune you out or say, "I get it, She's a total cunt. It is time you tell Helen how you feel and stop yammerin' on to me anymore about this ridiculous situation."

Then we can go fuck.....Yay!!!!

What if she does not want to talk about Helen at work, she wants to talk about your feelings towards her?
Not until you have the following "little talk"!
*Do you love me? How much do you love me? Why don't you show me that you love me? Does this mean we are serious? Do you want to get married? Do you want to live together? When can I meet your family? Do you think about me during the day? Why don't you call me more often? Why don't I see you every Friday night? Why do you spend so much time with Jeff? When can I meet your friends and family?
Why don't you tell me what you feel towards me? What are your feelings? Do you love me?

Mz Mia is this sort of talk a no-no? Is there ever a time it is okay or is it better if she/he keeps it zipped and does not ever ask these sorts of q's? Or is it best to leave it to the other to bring it up if they do? Personally I wouldnt want to bring up marriage or living together or many of these things but wondering whether a relationship was serious might be something I would like to know. I do like to hear about how people feel if they care to share.

I think of you during the day MzMia.
What a sweet thing to say.

HC? you ask such wonderful relationship questions.
I look forward to reading a variety of answers.
I will say, HC there are some men, that don't want you to ask some of those questions for years/if ever.
Some men/women accuse a woman of "nagging" if they ask some basic questions.
So what is a woman to do with a man that behaves like that?

I think those questions are important. I have had to kick back a few glasses of liquid courage to have those conversations with a man who hated them. I dreaded them too. But you know, the honest answers tells me whether I should continue or end a relationship that doesn't appear to be going anywhere or evolving.

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RE: Talking Women - 2/12/2010 5:59:30 AM

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What about those people that are silent in others' company, but who have spontaneous bursts of talking to themselves *shudder*!

Accept the fact that they need to hear it out loud in their own voice to process?

Or don't get involved with them if you aren't compatible.

I get so fucking tired of people who say my kink is okay but yours isn't. And this is just a version of that without the kink.

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RE: Talking Women - 2/12/2010 6:02:07 AM

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Good Morning!

I agree with so much of what is being said here and thanks for the input!

For me a guy's voice is tres important. On a vanilla dating site I moved to the phone with a few guys and the minute I heard the voice I knew it was not going to be a match.

Then again some serious 'to be avoided' men have had some lovely voices to listen to, so there is that.

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