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ORIGINAL: domiguy

Bob is a dinosaur....Jesus once walked with Bob.

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ORIGINAL: CalifChick


The people that are dangerous, IMO, are the ones unable to feel sympathy, empathy, or compassion for other people.  They are unable to see, or do not care about, what their actions will do to someone else.  Generally these people are referred to as sociopaths. 

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Bob is a dinosaur....Jesus once walked with Bob.

Which is the one time Jesus actually lost his cool and committed a violent act.....true story!

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ORIGINAL: allthatjaz

When I brought up the concern of sociopaths within this lifestyle (about 8 months ago on here) I got slaughtered by the masses. I had people jumping up and down at their keyboards claiming to be sociopaths, know some really caring sociopaths or have cured a sociopath! and that I should have a little more sympathy.

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ORIGINAL: domiguy

Bob is a dinosaur....Jesus once walked with Bob.

Which is the one time Jesus actually lost his cool and committed a violent act.....true story!

I believe it is referred to as the "temple tantrum" in the bible.

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ORIGINAL: zephyroftheNorth

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ORIGINAL: domiguy

Bob is a dinosaur....Jesus once walked with Bob.

Which is the one time Jesus actually lost his cool and committed a violent act.....true story!

I believe it is referred to as the "temple tantrum" in the bible.

No no, it's not in the bible, remember Jesus is supposed to be a perfect, non-violent dude. Putting something like that in the bible would fuck with his image. However, I know someone who has video proof....true story

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ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance

http://www.collarchat.com/m_2579188/mpage_1/tm.htm I think this is the one she was referring to, but I could be wrong.

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It is in the bible - well sorta...there wasn't ACTUALLY any mention of bob!
Matthew 21:12-17
John 2:14-16

If there was mention of Bob, it was probably when Jesus said, "Get thee behind me..."

Just saying

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ORIGINAL: CalifChick


The people that are dangerous, IMO, are the ones unable to feel sympathy, empathy, or compassion for other people.  They are unable to see, or do not care about, what their actions will do to someone else.  Generally these people are referred to as sociopaths. 

I nearly fell off my chair when I read this!
When I brought up the concern of sociopaths within this lifestyle (about 8 months ago on here) I got slaughtered by the masses. I had people jumping up and down at their keyboards claiming to be sociopaths, know some really caring sociopaths or have cured a sociopath! and that I should have a little more sympathy.

Thank you CalifChick

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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub
I didn't ask if they can have sex. I said "are they capable of consenting to vanilla sex?".

My point being that if we are willing to regard them as capable of consenting to the "basic" sex acts, then I don't think we can pick and choose what else they are able to consent to.

So how 'crazy' does someone have to be before you say "No, I won't share vanilla sex with you"?

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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub
I didn't ask if they can have sex. I said "are they capable of consenting to vanilla sex?".

My point being that if we are willing to regard them as capable of consenting to the "basic" sex acts, then I don't think we can pick and choose what else they are able to consent to.

So how 'crazy' does someone have to be before you say "No, I won't share vanilla sex with you"?

Me personally or in general?

For me, as in "I, Aqua, choose not to have sex with you because I think you are too crazy", I don't have a measuring stick. If I feel that they are dangerously unstable, I will not become romantically or sexually involved with them for my own safety and it really doesn't matter how many assurences I get otherwise. I have to feel comfortable. If they don't have a firm grasp on reality, I won't have sex with them because I don't want to be involved in that.

Now if they are capable of consenting to sex is an entirely different matter than if I choose to have sex with them. I am not trained to determine a person's capability to consent and have to use my own best judgement combined with what I am and am not willing to get involved with.