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Strong Alpha male subs v weak beta sissywimps - 2/19/2010 11:46:46 PM

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So what appeals more to a Mistress.

A strong alpha male who they can break,and becomes her submissive.

or an already beta male who they know they can easily Dominate and would not be a challenge at all.

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RE: Strong Alpha male subs v weak beta sissywimps - 2/19/2010 11:51:32 PM

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Why would you call a slave who is willingly obedient from the outset, weak?

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RE: Strong Alpha male subs v weak beta sissywimps - 2/19/2010 11:53:16 PM

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I'm trying to figure that out too. I thought that whole obedience thing was kinda vital to the dynamic.

Breaking is hot in porn but in the real world a person doesn't switch personality types from alpha to beta cause a hot mistress broke them.

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RE: Strong Alpha male subs v weak beta sissywimps - 2/20/2010 12:11:53 AM

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Who said anything about 'Hot' Mistresses ???

I certainly didnt.

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RE: Strong Alpha male subs v weak beta sissywimps - 2/20/2010 12:41:20 AM

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The either/or you have presented does not exist
being masculine does not in any way define someones ability to submit or obey, and a large amount of sissies I have met have not been weak... some have presented as wimpering and possably passive agressive ... but they are generaly not more obediant (in fact in my own experience they are less interested in obediance and more interested in their fetish ) nor are they better at transferring authority than any other fetish orientated person .... but I am not interested in any one who defines themselves by a kink

I like intelligent charming competant males and I have a preference for masculine looking who desire a D/s relationship with a dominant woman .... which has nothing to do with breaking anyone ... am I interested in someone who does not 'want' to submit

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RE: Strong Alpha male subs v weak beta sissywimps - 2/20/2010 3:32:54 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: softsissy

Who said anything about 'Hot' Mistresses ???

I certainly didnt.

All Mistresses are hot. ( Waits for cookies )

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RE: Strong Alpha male subs v weak beta sissywimps - 2/20/2010 5:03:43 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Politesub53

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ORIGINAL: softsissy

Who said anything about 'Hot' Mistresses ???

I certainly didnt.

All Mistresses are hot. ( Waits for cookies )

What he said. (Also wants cookies)

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RE: Strong Alpha male subs v weak beta sissywimps - 2/20/2010 5:28:16 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: softsissy

So what appeals more to a Mistress.

A strong alpha male who they can break,and becomes her submissive.

or an already beta male who they know they can easily Dominate and would not be a challenge at all.

Traits I look for in a man....integrity, respect, courage, honor,compassion, honesty, a sense of duty, intelligence,creativity and humor.

Are those seen as alpha or beta traits or are they simply labels?

Why would I want to "break" a man? "If you let people break your spirit and detour you from your path, then you have not been true to yourself or those you're here to touch, those who believe in you." I want a man who is true to himself and to his nature...whatever that nature is. That's more attractive than any "broken" man...alpha or otherwise.

That being said...OP, how did you come to the conclusion that alpha males are "strong" and beta males are "weak sissywimps"?

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RE: Strong Alpha male subs v weak beta sissywimps - 2/20/2010 6:20:26 AM

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OP, I'm not a Mistress, but I'll try to address your question.

You seem to feel that the Domme's aim is someone weak enough to submit to her, and the question is, does she enjoy the process of remaking him to be a submissive, or does she want someone who wants to submit to her from the get-go?

I would suspect that they would rather someone submit because it's their nature to do so, and that it would not be due to weakness. The image of the snarling Dominatrix and the whimpering, groveling man is from porn, not genuine relationships (although it could be a nice roleplay scene).

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RE: Strong Alpha male subs v weak beta sissywimps - 2/20/2010 6:51:04 AM

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ORIGINAL: softsissy

So what appeals more to a Mistress.

A strong alpha male who they can break,and becomes her submissive.

or an already beta male who they know they can easily Dominate and would not be a challenge at all.

Wow, i feel really left out of the options that you provide above. Would you please add an option C to your two options?:

C. A strong alpha-male who is seeking power exchange, and who will gladly submit to your leadership.

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RE: Strong Alpha male subs v weak beta sissywimps - 2/20/2010 8:14:53 AM

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C. A strong alpha-male who is seeking power exchange, and who will gladly submit to your leadership.

THIS. This is what I want.

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RE: Strong Alpha male subs v weak beta sissywimps - 2/20/2010 8:29:41 AM

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Ma'am wants the "c." option too.

Just sayin...

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RE: Strong Alpha male subs v weak beta sissywimps - 2/20/2010 2:31:36 PM

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Put me down for Option C, too. I like the "gallant knight who bends the knee for his queen" archetype best.

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RE: Strong Alpha male subs v weak beta sissywimps - 2/20/2010 3:07:46 PM

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Hello everyone,

Add me to the option C fanlist as well.

Breaking someone doesn't appeal to me in the slightest, and having someone who is "weak" doesn't appeal to me either. I've had submissives that fall within both categories over the years, and neither situation makes me happy.

I wish you well.

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RE: Strong Alpha male subs v weak beta sissywimps - 2/20/2010 3:24:12 PM

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I vote option C

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RE: Strong Alpha male subs v weak beta sissywimps - 2/20/2010 3:30:56 PM

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*hands out macadamia and chocolate chip cookies to PoliteSub and Aqua .... * I will take C ... *grins*

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RE: Strong Alpha male subs v weak beta sissywimps - 2/20/2010 3:31:49 PM

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Mmm... cookies. *nibbles happily*

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RE: Strong Alpha male subs v weak beta sissywimps - 2/20/2010 3:34:04 PM

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Option C (i) for me:
An alpha- or strong beta-male who will gladly submit to your leadership.

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RE: Strong Alpha male subs v weak beta sissywimps - 2/20/2010 3:37:51 PM

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*takes an extra helping of C for herself and shares slices of chilled fresh mango, and dark belgian hazelnut ganach chocolate with Aqua*

hmmm I wonder what treats would bring all those 'C's out to play?

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RE: Strong Alpha male subs v weak beta sissywimps - 2/20/2010 3:41:31 PM

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Streak. I find that good man traps, regardless of it you are hunting subs or doms, should be baited with steak.

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