Jasmyn
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Hi Artist, get to know the male anatomy and peruse a few gay male dom sites for hints and tips for male anal play and agree with Texas to seduce them... whether that be in a traditional sense or in a more domination sense...getting them to the point of asking, begging, pleading, wanting you to take them.
Secondly I'd look at what is it about the strap-on that is particularly appealing to them? Is it driven from a need to please you, something they wouldnt inherently seek out for themselves, and if they are doing it to please you, how does the idea of been at your mercy and penetrated make them feel...find that energy that core that makes them tick and somehow incorporate it. Playing tricks and mind games can help too, like the scene describe below where a large, like ridicuously large dildo was bandied about ... turn it into a game, send them off to purchase their own dildo to your specifications, while you yourself have actually already purchased a couple of nice slender beginner ones.
Will share a particular scene I did to give you an idea how I work mind games into scenes (sorry the scene was the sadistic bitch thing, so reflects that) ... had done some power play mind games with him before grabbing him by the hair and thrusting his face into the carpet telling him spread em.
I'd let him see a HUGE strap-on dildo before I blindfolded him earlier in the scene and now pushed its girth between his legs and slowly slid it up and down his butt crack using it to liberally apply a coat of lube. He visibly baulked, stammering in his gag how it was too big! please Mistress no...ordering him to shut up I slapped him hard on the rump and demanded he reach back and spread his cheeks.
Tentatively he did so, whimpering when I told him to spread em wider... once again pushing the head of the HUGE dildo against this anus ... but slipped a smaller virgin butt strap-on dildo in behind it, forcing just the tip inside him. Still convinced he was going to be split in half he tensed up and I slapped his buttock telling him to relax his arse and take it like a good little whore boy... almost immediately thrusting the full length of the shaft into him.
He cried out in expectation of extreme pain but as I slowly drew back it dawned on him this wasnt the same dildo I'd teased him with earlier and little by little he relaxed into it.
By the end of the scene I wasn't having to do a thing... ride my cock I'd tell him and he'd fuck away on the pole his hips thrusting away like a mad man ... begging me to fuck him harder and harder...telling me his arse was mine to take.
The latter part, if the experience of getting penetrated by your strap on is humiliating to them as well as a leap of faith in their submission to you, don't be afraid to point out their predicament and/or making them do all the work so to speak... some will enjoy the 'being taken' aspect and want to be in bondage, almost imobilised being forced to feel your strap on in them, while others will enjoy the humiliation of having to actively engage in the act of 'fucking' the dildo ...
In a more lovemaking type traditional moment, take them from behind while they are on their knees, you can reach around and play with their cocks or on their backs with you on top so to speak and look deep in their eyes in the traditional male sense of thrusting into someone.
Good luck, hope you and your boys have an enjoyable time. I love the butt plug training idea ...so much yummy anticipation ;)
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"To learn the art of submission a slave must first give up the desires that drew him to submission in the first place." Mistress Jasmyn Jan 2005.
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