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ORIGINAL: Jeffff

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ORIGINAL: Icarys

I like the guy with the ironic musing.....They say you can tell alot about a person by the company they keep..He keeps good company.


Thanks NZ for topic.

I like to think so.

Jeff

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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

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ORIGINAL: domiguy

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I have to wonder why people even need a word like that to define themselves against...as if that somehow makes them better if they can separate from it. When in truth it may be what some need to embrace inside to get to where they want to be. Definitely not in all cases but maybe in some.

Surely we all can see a few that might fit into a "doormat category" and seem completely ecstatic over it. I don't see the need for the negativity about any of it.

It's the same as all doms being referred to as over controlling, manipulative and abusive assholes. It's a broad stroke that touches on what we do in a rather stereotypical fashion.

Some would have a problem with it. Some might actually fit the description.

That was what I was trying to say on another thread about doormats...

I know some people want to identify like that, and that is fine by me, but to me a doormat is something I wipe my feet on because I do not want to get where I live dirty... its a shit wiper basically. I wouldn't want to be called toilet paper either.

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ORIGINAL: Icarys

I like the guy with the ironic musing.....They say you can tell alot about a person by the company they keep..He keeps good company.


Thanks NZ for the topic.

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ORIGINAL: domiguy

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ORIGINAL: Icarys

I like the guy with the ironic musing.....They say you can tell alot about a person by the company they keep..He keeps good company.


Thanks NZ for the topic.

Interesting....I don't see many people that I get a kick out of proudly displaying their NZ points.

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an ironic musing struck me:

I cannot allow myself to participate in a thread that is based solely upon an ironic musing. Too many bad memories.

It all stems from this nasty little episode.


Jeffff and I were at this dingy little bar, wearing our ascots and partaking in some hoppy beveri when he started to speak.

"Oh, Domiguy, just the other day I must confess that I had the most ironic musing..."

His sentence was cut short by me slamming my pint glass directly into his throat. I then proceeded to grab him by the back of his shirt and slam his forehead into the top of the bar a half dozen times. I then kicked out the barstool from under him and began to jump up and down on his chest.

Totally exhausted, I sat back down on my bar stool and slowly savored my hoppy beer.

Several minutes later, Jeffff regained consciousness and said, "Dude, what the fuck!!!"

I looked down at him and said, "Listen up, fuck stick...No one talks like that. Thank God that most people can go the entirety of their lives without suffering through a single ironic musing. No one wants to hear about your ironic musings, your contradictory contemplations or any of your puzzling paradoxes. Fuck you Jeffff. I hate you. You fucking cunt!!!

After a lengthy recovery, we managed to mend our fences and inevitably we became the hop bonded pair that you see here today!

It was really all for the best.

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ORIGINAL: Jeffff

This comes down to what people WANT to be referred to. What makes them happy or unhappy.

Very few, whether it is personally or professionally want to be thought of as a door mat on a day to day basis.

We all respect that guy we work with who lays down for every one......... don't we.

Jeff

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ORIGINAL: domiguy

I felt so bad for Jeffff. I think he might have actually been kidding. But there are certain things that a man just doesn't joke around about.

I can accept that the dude is a Sox fan. Lives on the South Side.

"ironic musings" Hell to the no!!! Fucker deserved to die as if he had banged lushy.

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ORIGINAL: Jeffff

This comes down to what people WANT to be referred to. What makes them happy or unhappy.

Very few, whether it is personally or professionally want to be thought of as a door mat on a day to day basis.

We all respect that guy we work with who lays down for every one......... don't we.

Jeff

Nah we just pick on them and diminish them as a human being because we think of them as less.......

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ORIGINAL: heartfeltsub

Beth,

Thanks for the reply. i hope that my use of you was not offensive or bothersome, it was not intended to be so. Because you and i are different to some degree on our respective submission, would it be possible to ask you a couple of questions offline so as not to sidetrack this thread?

Also wanted to say that it makes me glad to "watch" Merc and your relationship on here. Thank you both for your openness and honesty.

heartfelt

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ORIGINAL: Whiplashsmile4

I don't see the Doormat Specials advertised much on the menus of the Troll Bar & Grill anyways.