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RE: I Need a Slave to Love - 2/27/2010 1:04:31 PM

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In my early 20's I spent about a year searching the web for what I considered to be the perfect female form.

In my early 20s, I repeatedly disrobed the same beautiful woman, because I was madly in love with her, and I believe I found the perfect female form every time she walked across the room. I think most men would have considered her attractive. She did have stretch marks, from a time in her life before I knew her when she had an eating disorder. Her ears were not the same size, and one poked out more than the other. So she wasn't physically perfect.

She was mentally and emotionally perfect for me, though, for years. I've learned a lot of things from a lot of people, but she might have taught me more than everyone else put together.

You might find that when you base your goals on reality -- what real women look like, act like and think like -- instead of how airbrushed internet caricatures behave -- you'll be more fulfilled. I've dated a couple of those airbrush caricatures at this point, and, amazingly enough, they don't look as good in person as they do on the computer screen. Also amazingly, those women have brains, personalities and life goals of their own. Are those things part of the "female form?" Or are you looking for a three-dimensional photograph?

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RE: I Need a Slave to Love - 2/27/2010 1:04:33 PM

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"I'd feel bad if someone got all excited about me "
worry about that if it happens...... those pornstars won't take "no" for an answer!

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RE: I Need a Slave to Love - 2/27/2010 1:06:35 PM

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- as a slave, canes and crops, whips, fisting and ass play are a regular Saturday night for me.

And I think I am just gonna see a movie tonight........ sighssssssssss

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RE: I Need a Slave to Love - 2/27/2010 1:06:52 PM

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i understand, and maybe instead of the exhaustive list, you could just say in your profile that you're into mental control of your slave, and enjoy more sensual activities.....and have hard limits with anything that causes pain or draws blood (what i'm picking up from your lists). That's a bit easier on the eyes and less overwhelming than the exhaustive lists. As far as things like 80s music and all that, that's just part of getting to know someone and i don't think would be a dealbreaker for most - nobody will ever share ALL the same interests in common.

Just my thoughts.

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RE: I Need a Slave to Love - 2/27/2010 1:07:24 PM

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I'm not so sure anyone was rude -- direct and honest yes, but the only one who seems to be approaching rude right now is you. I wonder, are you projecting?

I'm going to give you a little grandparent wisdom -- you don't know shit, and you don't know this now, but there's a whole lot to be said for all kinds of experience. In the search for a partner of any kind, your best bet is to be as open to possibilities as you can be.

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RE: I Need a Slave to Love - 2/27/2010 1:08:13 PM

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I'm aware they don't look as flawless in real life as they do in their pictures. I was simply using them as generalized examples. I don't expect perfection. I just like people to know the basics of what I'm looking for.

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RE: I Need a Slave to Love - 2/27/2010 1:08:53 PM

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- as a slave, canes and crops, whips, fisting and ass play are a regular Saturday night for me.

And I think I am just gonna see a movie tonight........ sighssssssssss

Well, not every Saturday night. Only when i'm Owned, which i'm not right now.

But i am going out to dinner tonight. Yay!

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RE: I Need a Slave to Love - 2/27/2010 1:10:28 PM

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lulz, I'm not after pornstars, just one curvy, healthy woman that is attractive to me.

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RE: I Need a Slave to Love - 2/27/2010 1:12:16 PM

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That's not bad advice, but I don't want to mislead anyone. Which is my primary concern.

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RE: I Need a Slave to Love - 2/27/2010 1:18:46 PM

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Being open to possibilities is always good, but being open to anything or anyone that you wouldn't desire is just living a lie. I'll repeat...

I know exactly what I want.

And to be perfectly honest. You and your little old-folks home crew have been rather rude. Don't get me wrong, I like the elderly just fine. But people like you kinda give them a bad name by acting like you know everything. If anyone doesn't know shit, it's people like you that try to school everyone that comes along. I didn't ask for your approval and I don't need it.

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RE: I Need a Slave to Love - 2/27/2010 1:20:25 PM

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lulz, I'm not after pornstars, just one curvy, healthy woman that is attractive to me.

That's not what you said in your initial two posts, though. This particular post is much more sensible goal than what you previously stated.

Use of the word "lulz" makes you look like a guy who has never had sex, just so you know how that comes across in an adult forum. It's not likely to impress the chicks with your intimate knowledge of the female form. Purity and virginity are hot, but only when the virgin had the option to do the nasty, and decided to abstain. Virginity due to immaturity is less appealing.

I wonder how much internet porn -- especially how easy and available it is -- has changed virginal men's understanding of women?

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RE: I Need a Slave to Love - 2/27/2010 1:22:14 PM

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Well last thought.....i don't see it as misleading to save some information for when you get to talk. Speak in more general terms about yourself, and give your "angel" an opportunity to be attracted to you.....save some information for the getting to know you phase. Nothing wrong with talking with people and discovering you're not a good match as you talk - i do it all the time.

i just don't see any one woman reading that whole list and checking them all off as a "match." i see more being intimidated by how exhaustive it is.

My best, again.

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RE: I Need a Slave to Love - 2/27/2010 1:22:37 PM

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One thing I know for sure.. you too will be my age at some point.

I'm certain you'll get just what you deserve.

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RE: I Need a Slave to Love - 2/27/2010 1:24:34 PM

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One thing I know for sure.. you too will be my age at some point.

Or maybe not....:)

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RE: I Need a Slave to Love - 2/27/2010 1:24:56 PM

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Sigh, trolls, trolls, trolls, so many trolls. Somehow I'm just not surprised. I'm being told by someone with the name of Horny Net Geek that I must be a virgin because I used the term lulz. Go away troll. I haven't been a virgin for at least 12 years.

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RE: I Need a Slave to Love - 2/27/2010 1:25:20 PM

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damn you

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RE: I Need a Slave to Love - 2/27/2010 1:26:07 PM

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That makes sense. Excellent idea.

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RE: I Need a Slave to Love - 2/27/2010 1:26:30 PM

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I wonder how much internet porn -- especially how easy and available it is -- has changed virginal men's understanding of women?

Slight hijack here, but excellent article about what online porn does to young men:

http://www.guardian.co.uk/world/2003/nov/08/gender.weekend7

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RE: I Need a Slave to Love - 2/27/2010 1:28:17 PM

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I'll probably get what I deserve, but it won't be quite what you're hoping for. I'm also fortunate that people in my family age VERY gracefully. I'll still look like I'm in my 20's when I'm 40. And when I'm 70, I'll look 35 or so.

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RE: I Need a Slave to Love - 2/27/2010 1:30:52 PM

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I know nothing about your sexual history. I only know how your posts come across. It's a fact that "lulz" is juvenile-speak. It's also a fact that the women I know who are in your "goal category" would be immediately put off if you used that term. You can verify (or falsify) my position. Hit on a model and say "lulz" and see what happens.

I asked the Goddesses of CollarMe if they would give me the name "Horny Net Geek" because I thought it was funny, and because I was tired of people who knew nothing about successful online dating ranting on these boards that the site was filled with HNG's, scammers and fakes. You, unfortunately, are falling into that category.

You'll be more likely to attract a woman with options if you talk like a positive, successful, mature adult.

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