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RE: I Need a Slave to Love - 2/27/2010 5:38:55 PM

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Dante I suggest you understand the meaning of a word before using it in an attempt to insult people who are merely giviing you very good advice. For your information, a troll is "someone who posts inflammatory, extraneous, or off-topic messages in an online community ..." No one responding to your OP has been a troll.

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RE: I Need a Slave to Love - 2/27/2010 5:45:41 PM

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/slight hijack
lol, had to laugh at your tagline. so appropriate for comments made by the OP
/end hijack

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RE: I Need a Slave to Love - 2/27/2010 6:02:08 PM

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Well, that's very nice of you to say, considering I've been a lameass and not called you back.

*snort*

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RE: I Need a Slave to Love - 2/27/2010 6:19:01 PM

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Thanks, glad you like it. I thought of using it as a response to the OP but would be silly to have it come up twice.

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RE: I Need a Slave to Love - 2/27/2010 6:33:42 PM

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Simply put, I'm an extremely opinionated person who's been through hell, and knows exactly what he wants out of life. I don't expect anything to be handed to me on a silver platter, I've simply posted my desires as honestly as possible.

I find your extremely judgmental negativity to be rather jarring, but I anticipated that there would be people that don't quite get me and would likely be as judgmentally negative as you've proven yourself to be.

As distasteful as you might find me to be, your attacks merely show that you're extremely close-minded. There is someone for everyone, even someone who desires what I desire.

I never asked for your approval and I don't really require it.

You are quite right. You don't need my approval and it's good then that I wasn't giving it to you- we certainly do agree on that. I was commenting on the material you put forth in your posting and in your profile-not approving you or disapproving of you. You think that I find you distasteful...I don't. I find you unrealistic. My opinion is simply a summary of what you wrote. If you find it upsetting that myself and others find you unrealistic then I guess you might want to put something out there that is more down to earth. If you don't care about what we think then go on with your bad self. You're just going to be alone. Since your goal here as stated in the title of your thread is to find a slave to love - you might want to make yourself attractive to this slave so she'll find you. Many of us aged grandparents here have found the love we want, you may want to remember that before you dismiss us as not knowing what we're talking about.

I'm sorry you feel I was extremely judgmental of you and negative, but in all honestly I was once again posting on the material you set forth about yourself and I even took the time to go point by point in order to make it clear that it wasn't an assault on you, it was a response. A direct reflection on what you've given to represent yourself....I didn't make anything up. Let's look at the facts again:

1. You come here looking for a slave girl and after looking at your examples you want the cream of the crop. Ok, nothing wrong with that but I asked you several times and never got an answer....what do you have to offer? Why will the perfect angel pick you? You could have answered that at some point and shown her, if she's reading any of this, why she should contact you,but you instead chose to call everyone here trolls because we didn't tell you what you wanted to hear. Very attractive.
2. The lack of pics is understandable but a serious impairment in your search. After all...you put forth your examples and want a certain type of girl. You want to see her, this is your most important criteria if we go by your posting. She should be your physical 'type'. It still stands however that she can't see you so how does she know if she would even be interested?
3. The visual art you chose for your own depiction does scream juvenile and as RedMagic suggested about your use of textspeak please go ahead and ask others if this is true. Don't take my word for it but honestly the Orc is for kids.
4. The one reason that you did put forth about why you want this woman and why you should have her is that you've had difficulties and we've all had that and it didn't net us a loving partner.
5. You state that you are antisocial-that will be a real hindrance as to why a sought after woman would choose you.
6. Your personal hobbies are definitely ones that show you like to be alone. Once again, that may be a problem.
7. You want the last word and haven't had much luck finding anyone yet who will accept your admittedly difficult personality, this is you putting this information out, not me making an inference.
8. You do have an incredibly long list of things you do NOT like, it will limit you in searching for someone to be with as their list may not match yours when yours has so many things on it. That's just a fact.

I think it bothers you that the grandparents here are amused by your nose in the air attitude and actually wouldn't even want you as partner material. As I pointed out earlier I am so far from your ideal but heck, I wouldn't consider you as potential partner mostly because of your negativity. It's interesting too...even though I am quite elderly I dated 2 men about a year and a half ago only a year older than yourself, and when I was dating I had many gentlemen I was seeing at the same time until I made the choice of which one I wanted to be exclusive with. Even though you are younger, you don't seem to have women beating down the door to get to you. Being aged and infirm hasnt' slowed down the men young and old who pursue me on a regular basis. So at the advanced age that I am I have more prospects than you do. You might want to wonder how that can be.

Go ahead and dismiss this as more 'trolling' if you like because once again it isn't going to fit what you wanted to hear. Your thread states that you need a slave to love, the posters here have tried to tell you that your approach as it stands is unlikely to find this one in a million slave.

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RE: I Need a Slave to Love - 2/28/2010 4:56:51 AM

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Yep, a room full of trolls with a few well meaning souls. Whether you people like it or not, the fact remains, the majority of you are merely trolls. I never asked for anyone to come in here and judge me or post negative feedback.

Negative feedback is counterproductive and doesn't help anyone. Especially in the case of an individual like myself. I am who I am, I'm comfortable with who I am, and if you can't handle that, then it's your own problem.

Negative feedback in the case of someone who knows exactly what he wants and knows exactly who he is, is nothing more than bull-baiting, aka...trolling. Feigning innocence does not make any of you innocent.

Although I'm sure many of you delusionally believe yourselves to be devoid of any wrong-doing and claim to be merely straightforward and honest. There are many instances in which such things are simply trolling...like now.

There are always far more positive ways in which to express opinions without being trolls. Of course this doesn't mean I'm saying everyone here is a troll, but the trolls have come in force. Which really wasn't unanticipated.

Truthfully I realize that my standards seem high and that I'm a difficult person. But my standards seem high because I'm simply refusing to settle for less than what I desire and there is nothing inherently wrong with that.

As for my being difficult, any woman that's with me would have to be just my type, or reasonably close to it, or they just wouldn't get me at all. I'm not expecting perfection, I'm just hoping for my dreams to come true. Which seems to bother many people here.

I'm also very aware that the woman I'm looking for is likely to be one in a billion. But it is THAT one that I'm looking for. Be she here, or elsewhere, she will see me for who I am and find me to be desirable.

I'm not here to appeal to those that would find me unappealing. I'm here to fill a niche for that person that seeks someone like myself. People can despise me all they like, it doesn't bother me. I'm not here to cater to their whims.

On an average day I'm normally pretty laid back. However, the supreme arrogance displayed on this forum and the overall "know-it-all" attitude many people seem to have is very off-putting and not putting me in a good mood.

Simply put...I didn't ask for "advice" and in most instances it wasn't wanted or appreciated. I'm actually rather surprised that people here can be so brazen and expect no backlash. It's actually kind of disturbing.

Perhaps others here are comfortable with the way many of you approach newcomers, but I'm not. I didn't come here for a popularity contest or to see how many women I could nail before the week is through.

I came here to find THE ONE, the one that will redefine me. The one that will help me become better than I am. The one that will heal me. I don't expect her to be here, but it would certainly be nice.

As for the comments of "sucking it up" in regards to my past. That was not only tactless, it was cruel. None of you, absolutely none of you have any idea what I've been through, nor would you likely even believe me if I told you.

Not that I would tell anyone here what I've been through, since it's rather lengthy and personal. I don't know any of you. I have no reason to trust any of you. I have no loyalty to any of you, nor any reason to even contemplate said loyalties.

It is sufficient to say, in regards to my past, that it was fairly bad even in comparison to numerous horror stories I've heard and it's made me sympathetic to those that have had even marginally similar experiences.

As for what I have to offer the angel of my dreams. I can offer unswerving, undying devotion, protection, romance, etc. The list is rather long, but those things are important enough to note.

It isn't as if I would simply expect someone to become mine and then offer them nothing in return. Of course most of what I would offer would depend on the individual. Everyone is different and wants different things.

I would also like to add. For a group of individuals that claim to prefer straight-forward honesty, very few of you seem to like a taste of your own medicine. I'm about as blunt and honest as they come. Most of you don't seem to like that much.

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RE: I Need a Slave to Love - 2/28/2010 5:21:04 AM

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1. We gave you advice, you turned it down. Fair enough. It will simply make your search longer, but since you accept that, cool.

2. "Troll" has a specific meaning, not the one you've chosen for it to mean.

Best of luck to you on the path you will take.

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RE: I Need a Slave to Love - 2/28/2010 5:29:00 AM

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I wish you luck as well.

"In Internet slang, a troll is someone who posts inflammatory, extraneous, or off-topic messages in an online community, such as an online discussion forum, chat room or blog, with the primary intent of provoking other users into an emotional response[1] or of otherwise disrupting normal on-topic discussion.[2]" - Wikipedia

I found many statements made to be inflammatory. Not all trolling need be intentional. This is something that should be kept in mind when posting responses to someones thread. Everyone is different and will be offended by different things.

One would think in a community like this people would remember that. So much for experience.

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RE: I Need a Slave to Love - 2/28/2010 5:44:50 AM

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ORIGINAL: Dante17677
Simply put, I'm an extremely opinionated person who's been through hell, and knows exactly what he wants out of life. I don't expect anything to be handed to me on a silver platter, I've simply posted my desires as honestly as possible.

I find your extremely judgmental negativity to be rather jarring, but I anticipated that there would be people that don't quite get me and would likely be as judgmentally negative as you've proven yourself to be.

As distasteful as you might find me to be, your attacks merely show that you're extremely close-minded. There is someone for everyone, even someone who desires what I desire.

I never asked for your approval and I don't really require it.

Dante, welcome to the club.

Your sin is looking for love and being secure enough in yourself that you don't need others to tell you who to be.

The nerve ...

Stand your ground, be the man your beloved needs you to be and find her.

That's all that really matters.

Good luck with your quest.

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RE: I Need a Slave to Love - 2/28/2010 5:56:31 AM

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Dear Dante,

I think you need to get out of Minot. Seriously.

Your posts and profile reads like the worst combination possible of bOob (aka Bloved) and MichaelofGA. You portray yourself as extremely negative, angry and very unrealistic. You paint yourself to be a victim. Nothing you have presented us with will attract a sane intelligent woman.

To add to the above thoughts, you have presented photos of examples of what you want that are very unrealistic. Those women are all slathered in makeup, surgically altered, photoshopped almost beyond recognition. It is likely that you wouldn't even be happy with them, in their natural state. That is very intimidating to most women.

I've seen nothing in you here, that would entice someone to you. Make yourself a man that a submissive woman would want to submit to.

LaT

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RE: I Need a Slave to Love - 2/28/2010 5:59:44 AM

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Dear Dante,

I think you need to get out of Minot. Seriously.

Your posts and profile reads like the worst combination possible of bOob (aka Bloved) and MichaelofGA. You portray yourself as extremely negative, angry and very unrealistic. You paint yourself to be a victim. Nothing you have presented us with will attract a sane intelligent woman.

To add to the above thoughts, you have presented photos of examples of what you want that are very unrealistic. Those women are all slathered in makeup, surgically altered, photoshopped almost beyond recognition. It is likely that you wouldn't even be happy with them, in their natural state. That is very intimidating to most women.

I've seen nothing in you here, that would entice someone to you. Make yourself a man that a submissive woman would want to submit to.

LaT

And Dante, when you get an opinion from someone who very obviously does not have any of the qualities you seek in a lady (such as maturity), feel free to ignore and move on ... they have nothing of value to contribute to your quest.

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RE: I Need a Slave to Love - 2/28/2010 6:05:41 AM

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Ohhhhhhhhhhh Bob, you really are a scratched record. Good luck with YOUR search..........you will need as much as the OP.........probably more.

Though I am beginning to wonder if you are not the same person.

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RE: I Need a Slave to Love - 2/28/2010 6:09:27 AM

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~smile~ because there needs to be more fake smiles in this thread!

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RE: I Need a Slave to Love - 2/28/2010 6:13:10 AM

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Ohhhhhhhhhhh Bob, you really are a scratched record. Good luck with YOUR search..........you will need as much as the OP.........probably more.

Though I am beginning to wonder if you are not the same person.

~smile~

I appreciate you and your little friends demonstrating the truth of my .sig line once again, LaT.

Attacking yet another D-type because he's looking for love ... starting to look like a pattern.

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RE: I Need a Slave to Love - 2/28/2010 6:17:00 AM

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Roberto, men like us pay these whores no mind.

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RE: I Need a Slave to Love - 2/28/2010 6:17:42 AM

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He is looking for a porn star. If you don't like the playground, find another, or pull on your big boy pants.

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RE: I Need a Slave to Love - 2/28/2010 6:19:35 AM

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He is looking for a porn star.

lol

And you should care what he is looking for because ... ?

Where is all this "tolerance" you and your little friends are allegedly full of?

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RE: I Need a Slave to Love - 2/28/2010 6:20:45 AM

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Ohhhhhhhhhhh Bob, you really are a scratched record. Good luck with YOUR search..........you will need as much as the OP.........probably more.

Though I am beginning to wonder if you are not the same person.

Naw, I don't think they are the same person. I think bob came running over here, because someone else was getting the negative attention he craves. So he had to come over and hijack this thread. I wonder how long before alice shows up?

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RE: I Need a Slave to Love - 2/28/2010 6:22:40 AM

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I do not care, why would I? If someone makes comments and OPs on a message board, that opens up all sorts of invitations for comments. And you would be here because? ~smile~

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RE: I Need a Slave to Love - 2/28/2010 6:23:05 AM

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~smile~ because there needs to be more fake smiles in this thread!

~smile~

I agree Katy

~rictus grins~

Sigh, guess I need more practise...

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