LanceHughes
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Gay man's perspective: Tease it (his submission) out of him (as suggested above.)
General comments: Physical control is for cops and the military. Being submissive is near-to-ones heart. He might be a true sub who was trained to be physically dominant because he needed those skills to stay alive. Now that he is in a safe situation, he can let his true submissive feelings loose.
So, the REAL question is how do you get him to say "Yes, ma'am"? My idea would be to "go" with the military training and build on that. Get a quickie class/book/advice on close order drill. The U.S.Army book is FM 22-5 which is pronounced "eff em" (for Field Manual) 22 "dash" 5. Step by step instructions on what is expected of your commands. Practice a command voice. (There's a few pages on how to "give" orders-better yet, try youtube.)
So, you set him up by:
A) Asking him to train you how to use handcuffs - SEPARATE from your "scheduled" session. Should only take a few minutes.
B) Have cuffs and riding crop visible when "ready to go."
C) "Subbie, Fall In." - First word is the type of "group" Must be 2 syallables - platoon, company, detail, etc. - AHhhh... that's it. He has been "detailed" to serve you. "Detailed" as in his written orders have been detailed as to place, time, duties, etc.... you could get a copy and then "make" a facsimile, but "Orders" are ...... rare. Mostly used to detail re-assignments. Details as to new post location, when to be there, mode of transport, etc. I digress, but thanks for the idea about written orders.... I know JUST the person to use that on. LOL!
So we have:
C) Detail - Fall in. (should be at attention.)
D) Detail - Present Arms. (Should salute - I bet he's smiling - to which you say---- "Mister, wipe that smile off your face.")
E) Detail - Order Arms. (This is where YOU can make or break the scene. Practice, practice, practice with a military friend - either gender - doesn't matter. What matters is tone of voice, rythym, breath and pronuciation. Try youtube - search "close order drill".) He's now back at attention.
And now you get to dom him. Inspect him..... total authority in your voice as you go over every ounce of his uniform.... DAMN! Just had a great idea! At end of hand-cuff training, tell him to wear his best dress uniform - and be sure to tell him that you will NOT destroy or harm it - anymore than you would harm him. That's a GREAT idea, because as he polishes his shoes, he WILL be thinking about his service to you.....
Back to our regularly scheduled inspection. Fine tooth comb - hair outta place, buttons not aligned vertically - each get one "gig" point. Pile 'em on... I'm sure you can find something, anything.... lots of them. He won't have to be told that "gig" points = punishment strokes. DO NOT tell him that - his mind will race. Look up "gig line" - vertical shirt opening MUST line up vertically with pants opening. You can start play here - "Mister. What the fuck? Your gig line is outta place. (regardless.) That's 5 points and you fucking know it. But this time, I'll be nice as your mamma and straighten it for you, but I'd better never see it that way again!" You get to play with front of pants wedgie - kinda thing, leaving him in-line. If he winces, moves or anything - gig points with some verbal "What kinda pussy are you, Mister? Can't take a little help getting that gig line in place?" He'd better be silent. Then you can bark "Mister, I asked you a question. What kinda pussy ARE you?" His answer should be "Ma'am, I'm your pussy, Ma'am." Your face looking dead onto his face. His eyes MUST be straight forward, not seeing yors. If he glances at you--- "Mister, wht the fuck are you looking at?" He'd better not answer. That's 5 gig points for deriliction of duty.... You keep your eye on the ball, Mister, or I'll have you court-martialed and they'll cut OFF your balls, you son-of-a-bitch. I might just do that to save all them Generals the time." Do you get me, mister? - He MUST answer: Ma'am, yes, maa'am!
Lather, rinse, repeat....
When you are getting tired.....(go to next step well before your voice shows that you are getting tired.)
Mister, I want to see just how fucked up that hair is. You snap to attention -oops forgot to say ALL your caommands are to be delivered facing him, about 3 paces away - you MUST be at attention. You say about hair into his ear, just slightly louder than normal voice, kinda as if something caught your attention about his hair.
Dead silence, return to your command post..... Order "Detail - Uncover" He'll be confused for a moment. (since not an FM-22-5 command.) He'll know you are talking about his hat (cover) but won't know what to do with it. Best guess - he'll put in under his arm, tucked and hold it there. Order "Detail - Cover to ground." He'll do it and come back all smiling and shit as he figires out he's sprung a woodie - and you get to "wipe that smile, etc." OOooo. I'd throw in "You think this is a game, Mister? Well it's not." He'll snap-to.
"Detail - Un-button shirt." Smile, etc.....
Oh, that woodie could be talked about as "WTF, Mister. You think I'm here to have sex with you?" Silence & get it out of him. When he answers... "I know that's what you think. Let's just see how far that crap will get you." Riding crop gently to balls. "Mister, I'm telling you - dereliction of duty is on my mind. It should be on yours too. I ain't givin' up my ass until you've earned it."
Detail - Unflounce shirt.
Detail - At ease
Mister - Ground that shirt - better fucking better be neat as a pin and under your cover.
Detail - Ten'shut
Walk over and examine "neat as a pin." No matter how bad, let it go -stay silent- because he'll think "Whew, she didn't see...." and you've got something planned in the next minute.
Go back to your command post:
Detail - Loosen belt.
Detail - Sit at ease.
Mister: ground those pants.
Shoes? Let him figure it out. As he folds pants and WAY before he's done -
Detail - attention.
Walk up to him and berate with - Mister, when I want you outta your pants, I want you outta them fast. Do I make myself clear?"
Continue.... Leave his shoes and socks on - weird for a man....off balance - right where you want him.
Senario A: He's at attention.....Get right into his face. "Whose pussy are you, Mister?" "Who has a pussy, Mister?" "Who has a wet pussy, Mister?" and this is THE most important thing right now - you absolutely MUST go back to your command post for this order:
Detail - knell.
Walk up to him slappping crop in hand. Lean down and get right into his ear.
Alternate A.1. In the most fem terms, sweetest voice - eat me, boy.... or lick me, Jim... or some such.
Alternate A.2. No change in command voice "How many gig points, Mister?" PANIC, PANIC, Panic...... You say,
"Mister, I'm SURE I've given you at least 50. Isn't that right, Mister?" Make him say "Ma'am, yas, Ma'am." You: "Good,
fuck-head. Now don't make that mistake again." Have him count 'em down or up or a mixtuer - oh how I enjoy THAT
game.... too much for this post.... just go up or down.. Beginners should count up so that when you're tired - or he needs a
break, back to your command post,
Detail ten'shut
He might have trouble making it proper. Do NOT let him get away with anything. <side bar: Yep. Being a dom is hard!>
In his face: "Mister, I've decided that you ARE a pussy." "whose pussy are you?" etc.... BACK to your command post,
Detail - kneel (he's thinking he's gonna get more strokes. But you surprise him with option A.1!!!
At any point, you can get both of you a "real" break by:
Detail - Ten'shun (if not already there.)
Detail - Break for water.
Talk to him - normal - ONLY if he needs it - silence otherwise 'cause if you talk to him, basically the scene is over.
Detail - Fall in
Alternate B (here's where the hand cuffs can come into play.....)
Instead of Detail. Kneel,
You can command:
Detail - Parade Rest
This is a modified attention - legs spread, hands behind back!! Ah HA! Cuffs - he dare not move.... I'll bet he doesn't want
to (move). This hand-cuffed hunk is not only restrained, but he exchanged power with you. Isn't that what we do?
Excuse me, please.... I have to go take care of some personal business. <pant, pant, pant......>
< Message edited by LanceHughes -- 3/3/2010 8:43:23 AM >
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