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RE: Giving up - 3/6/2010 1:08:36 PM

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Funny ... common courtesy goes a long way with me, online or otherwise.

You sure haven't been giving a whole lot of it here. You get what you give.

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RE: Giving up - 3/6/2010 1:14:53 PM

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So kind!

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RE: Giving up - 3/6/2010 1:37:35 PM

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To answer your question from one wisdom to another..oh yes..........we are...and yes we are:)

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RE: Giving up - 3/6/2010 2:47:31 PM

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I received a CMail from the OP. Apparently she has the erroneous impression that I care what she thinks about my lack of BDSM experience. I am Rule and I do not care.

She obviously had no idea that she was messaging the future ruler of all of mankind.

I hate subs that have not the ability to understand the gravity of the situation at hand.

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RE: Giving up - 3/6/2010 2:56:55 PM

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I'm kinda feeling an E-harmony moment here.

Geez, Troll, you mean you want to throw money off the roof?

It's a lot more fun to use Yahoo Personals, and take the money you save to a casino!

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RE: Giving up - 3/6/2010 3:11:22 PM

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Vaguely ... I wonder how cheerful YOU would be if you went without sex for a year? Try 4 years?! Please .. enlighten me!

I am way, way behind this train wr...uh...thread, but hey! I've gone 5 years, twice, and damn, I was gazing lustfully at married coworkers with kids by the time the dry spells went by. I was after lassoing them and flinging them into the bed of my truck...to be taken off to some secluded place for fornication.

I'd go for vanilla sites and then work in some kinkiness. Bigger candidate pool.

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RE: Giving up - 3/6/2010 3:12:26 PM

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Vaguely ... I wonder how cheerful YOU would be if you went without sex for a year? Try 4 years?! Please .. enlighten me!

There are these inventions called sex toys and masturbation.

Hell, scrub that vajayjay, spritz on some perfume, and go get some dick!

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RE: Giving up - 3/6/2010 3:20:21 PM

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She is just depressed and this is a daaaaangerous place to air that out.

You got some good advice though, warmwoman. You just have to sort out what gives you a sense of hope and what makes you want to curl up and hide. The stuff that makes you feel hopeful is the stuff that's worth absorbing!

You guys are all brilliant in your unique ways. It's a trip to be posting among you... an honor even. Thanks again, Domiguy! xx

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RE: Giving up - 3/6/2010 3:21:14 PM

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I think she is insane ...

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RE: Giving up - 3/6/2010 3:22:46 PM

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Also she once watched a show (dr. Phil?) about young women being kidnapped, sold to sick people who nailed them through their skull to a wall and had sex with them while they died on that nail.

I've been around a lot o' nails in my time, and hammered them too, and I've never seen a nail that long.

Sounds like an urban legend to me

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RE: Giving up - 3/6/2010 3:26:24 PM

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Haven't you trounced me deep enough in the mire?

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geeee .. seems to me you're feeding me more self loathing.

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You are enjoying my angst entirely too much.

You need to get off of any/all adult sites. You are in no way ready to play hardball.

I seriously suggest you find out where Ozzie met Harriet and head in that direction.

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RE: Giving up - 3/6/2010 3:30:33 PM

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Sounds like an urban legend to me

Maybe. I did not watch that show. I only know what she told me.

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RE: Giving up - 3/6/2010 3:34:44 PM

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Also she once watched a show (dr. Phil?) about young women being kidnapped, sold to sick people who nailed them through their skull to a wall and had sex with them while they died on that nail.

I've been around a lot o' nails in my time, and hammered them too, and I've never seen a nail that long.

Sounds like an urban legend to me

Some thought my giant cock was an urban legend....

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RE: Giving up - 3/6/2010 3:38:12 PM

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She was and is trolling for pity and simultaneously snarking at those who perceived her nature. Clearly her deficiencies are not her fault, she does not own up to them; instead she blames those who accurately noted those deficiencies.

No pity here, says I, though, not from me. Only the conclusion that she is beyond all help even professional shrinks can offer.

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RE: Giving up - 3/6/2010 3:45:06 PM

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I received a CMail from the OP. Apparently she has the erroneous impression that I care what she thinks about my lack of BDSM experience. I am Rule and I do not care.

We are now seventeen pages into the thread. It is quite clear to me why she cannot interest a man and why she never will. I rather doubt that a professional headshrinker can help her either.

As far as I am concerned, it is Oblivion for her. That makes 51, if I recall correctly. Or is it 52?

Rule, I'm 51 and am here to tell you that Oblivion is simply a very good single-player video game.

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RE: Giving up - 3/6/2010 3:45:39 PM

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I'm giving up on the search.

After 10 years of seeking and not finding, I have come to the conclusion that what I seek does not exist.

The fact that mere "friendship" is not possible with these people further solidifies my decision. I get so tired of mens' profiles saying 'I'm looking for friends' but still they can't be bothered to respond to my messages. I guess a woman has to be fuckable in order to be friendship material.

How sad.

Like Dark Steven and others on here, I know quite a few women from here. I also know quite a few women in my life outside of here. Are there a lot of them I would like to fuck/play with/dominate in full time? Sure there are...but many of them are not available. Does that mean they cannot be My friend? Hell no...I am still friends with the first girl I ever got to first base with...she and I speak regularly. I am friends with the submissives I have played with in the past on a casual basis where both of us knew it was not going anywhere. Am I friends with all the women from my past or that are in my life now? No...and it is not because I don't want to fuck them or that they don't want to fuck me...it is because we cannot speak for more than 10 minutes before I am bored with her or her with me because we see too many things differently or we have differing interests that do not correlate.

While I do not deny the inherent sexuality of most males and what is probably the most-basic want that drives them, the level that it comes into play is controlled by them. If all the ones you have met want to do is fuck you, then you are choosing the wrong people. Part of the reason I am friends with many on here...male and female...is because I have been posting too long to post B.S.. I post what I think and feel while keeping my mind open to others' views and to having MY own mind changed if someone else's ideas make more sense and DON'T conflict too heavily with where I am comfortable.

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RE: Giving up - 3/6/2010 3:47:31 PM

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I'm giving up on the search.

After 10 years of seeking and not finding, I have come to the conclusion that what I seek does not exist.

The fact that mere "friendship" is not possible with these people further solidifies my decision. I get so tired of mens' profiles saying 'I'm looking for friends' but still they can't be bothered to respond to my messages. I guess a woman has to be fuckable in order to be friendship material.

How sad.

I'm coming in thousands of pages in and haven't read any posts but yours, so I'll just respond to the OP:

It took me years to find what I was looking for (well over ten years), and was just blessed with it just last year...and then like a cruel joke, finally get it, then after two weeks of marriage he got deployed, so now it's been almost a year, here twiddling my ....um..thumbs....lol

Mine came when I was no longer actively looking. I had actually given up, but I didn't start a thread or post on my journal making the big "declaration", I was just here, actually as I am now, for the boards learning and having fun and he found me. If you want it bad enough it will happen..and trust me I know patience is very difficult.

As far as the "friendship" profiles, been there done that. With them they usually contact me and claim to want help or friendship and, well, you can guess what the conversation tries to morph into...lol I know how hard it is.

Hell there was a guy on here "supposedly" selling jewelry, I saw some pieces that I liked and wanted to buy, I sent him a few emails and he didn't respond, point is, if these guys only want to talk to a "certain" kind, then count yourself lucky that you didn't waste any of your time with them and go onward to the next. Trust me, they really don't want to be friends with anyone and when "those" women don't give them their cyber fix they will delete them as well. They don't want a friendship or a relationship. They are just a small group any way...I've made several friends here and we talk on the other side all the time.

Come to the boards, meet people, have fun...and when it's your time it will happen, you're not unique in this.

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RE: Giving up - 3/6/2010 3:51:12 PM

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You just have to sort out what gives you a sense of hope and what makes you want to curl up and hide. The stuff that makes you feel hopeful is the stuff that's worth absorbing!

Your first post/first thread is AWESOME, alhamdullilah. I am so glad you're here. I even sent domiguy a note, telling him I was so happy to see you, I would almost fuck Jeff on dg's behalf.

However, I disagree a bit with what you posted here. I think the things people say that make you want to curl up and hide are often the ones that need to be most closely examined, because they tend to be the closest to the truth.

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RE: Giving up - 3/6/2010 3:56:48 PM

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... except the insane part. I am far from insane.

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RE: Giving up - 3/6/2010 3:57:05 PM

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You got some good advice though, warmwoman. You just have to sort out what gives you a sense of hope and what makes you want to curl up and hide. The stuff that makes you feel hopeful is the stuff that's worth absorbing!

I've got to respectfully disagree with you here. In my experience, the stuff that makes you want to curl up and hide is actually usually what you DO need to listen to and mull over since that is usually closer to the truth and to what you need to hear and do than the hope inspiring fluffy stuff.

It was always the straight up, blunt, non sugarcoated advice that got my ass straightened out. Fluffy and hopeful just let me sink even deeper.

BTW am enjoying your posts so far, welcome aboard!

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