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RE: Giving up - 3/6/2010 9:16:57 AM

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A woman should never really trust a man who doesn't want to bang her.

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RE: Giving up - 3/6/2010 9:17:25 AM

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You ARE Bob's kinda girl!

I am going to petition the mods to let him loose.

No need to thank Me, I am just that kinda guy!

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RE: Giving up - 3/6/2010 9:17:55 AM

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Red Magic... thanks for commenting. The only flaw I see in your comments is that, you are not and thus have not my experiences so how can you condemn me? Just because you know ONE couple who made it to the one year anniversary simply means you have met an exception. The real world is far more heartless and cruel.

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RE: Giving up - 3/6/2010 9:18:45 AM

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Good idea, if you can't catch a fish in the ocean, put your bait into a desert. Yeah - that 'll work.

Or, I hear bob's available - After you've developed love over an extended courtship, lived off the land for a winter in remote Saskatchewan, cleaned up after 9 wild dogs and 6 feral cats; how do you feel about collaring ceremony that includes nails through your tits?

There is always Ron... you know he is a strait up kinda guy. (I stopped right there because I think we all know where Ron will take the "Strait Up" Part.)

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RE: Giving up - 3/6/2010 9:19:32 AM

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hmmm...perhaps it's an alter-ego, created by the disenfranchised Bob, in order to prove his unicorn exists, after all...?

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RE: Giving up - 3/6/2010 9:20:54 AM

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Jeffff ... this bitterness you perceive has come at the cost of 10 years of failure and rejection. I was not always this way, and no matter how many times I pick myself up from yet another rejection, it never bears any fruit.

Case in point? I talked for nearly 2 months with a man I met through collarme and we really seemed to click and I felt the friendship building. Then he blindsides me the other night and says he's not capable of loving anyone ever again because his last love left him for another man. What a crock of BS! He's probably married and realized he was getting in too deep with me so he wussed out!

I ask you ... am I supposed to feel happy and joyous at this turn of events?

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RE: Giving up - 3/6/2010 9:21:39 AM

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Just because you know ONE couple who made it to the one year anniversary simply means you have met an exception. The real world is far more heartless and cruel.

You're right. I know nothing of the real world.

Let's see. To enter the "real world" according to your own example, I should become the "other woman" in a relationship -- something I have never done before. I should also spend time "getting to know men one on one" after they ask me about the size and hygiene of my intimate body parts.

I agree. If I were to enter the real world, it would be probably be heartless and cruel to me as well.

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RE: Giving up - 3/6/2010 9:22:07 AM

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See now you all are just ridiculing me. Thanks... I feel so much better.

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RE: Giving up - 3/6/2010 9:23:12 AM

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warmwoman... I'm going out on a limb... I am sure it is a far stretch of the imagination... completely contrary to anything your posts are indicating... but I suspect... and thats probably just me... that you, very well may be....

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RE: Giving up - 3/6/2010 9:23:27 AM

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And to domiguy again...you still do not address WHY men ignore friendly greetings. They don't even take the time to get to know me to know if I'm fuckable or not! *LOL*

I'm not Domiguy (thank god...) but I think I can hazard a guess.
Your memo might say 'wants to be friends' but your profile screams 'desperate for a relationship'. Men are just as good at seeing through that kind of trick as women are.

If you want friendships then rewrite your profile to make it look like you want friendships. But your profile, as is, is offputtingly negative and prescriptive-you'll not get many friendships with it, IMO.

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RE: Giving up - 3/6/2010 9:23:47 AM

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Tsk tsk ... sarcasm? from you?

I neglected to say that real world means meeting face to face, not just typing back and forth online.

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RE: Giving up - 3/6/2010 9:24:29 AM

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Jeffff ... this bitterness you perceive has come at the cost of 10 years of failure and rejection. I was not always this way, and no matter how many times I pick myself up from yet another rejection, it never bears any fruit.

Case in point? I talked for nearly 2 months with a man I met through collarme and we really seemed to click and I felt the friendship building. Then he blindsides me the other night and says he's not capable of loving anyone ever again because his last love left him for another man. What a crock of BS! He's probably married and realized he was getting in too deep with me so he wussed out!

I ask you ... am I supposed to feel happy and joyous at this turn of events?

How is anyone to feel happy about you?

If you don't like you... why should I?

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RE: Giving up - 3/6/2010 9:26:10 AM

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oh gee I'm sorry .. I thought that's what friendship was about... uplifting someone when they feel down.

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RE: Giving up - 3/6/2010 9:27:14 AM

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vaguely curious... my profile says I want friendship first and then build to more. I really don't think that is such a shocking thing to wish for. Unlike most who think bed olympics come before the emotional connection.

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RE: Giving up - 3/6/2010 9:27:54 AM

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Actually she has to be totally unfuckable or has already been fucked or made it clear that I will never,ever be tapping her fine ass, for her to be considered "friendship" material.

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RE: Giving up - 3/6/2010 9:29:10 AM

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FukinTroll ... you're a fucking troll what do you know? *Laughs I couldn't help it!*

But seriously, doesn't every want to love and be loved? I don't think that's too much to want in this life. And yes I want someone who genuinely wants to be with me. And if I were as needy as you deem me, don't you think I would have settled for less by this time?

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RE: Giving up - 3/6/2010 9:29:13 AM

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sirsholly ... I wish I could find ONE man who doesn't view women as potential pussy.Oh right . . .they're all taken!!

WarmWoman...perhaps you are presenting yourself as suspicious of all males you are in contact with?

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RE: Giving up - 3/6/2010 9:29:32 AM

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Stop the pity wallow.

Pray, and next go out on the street today and get yourself that man today.

Or else make yourself a new profile and name yourself either MistressTough, of SlaveFaithful and prepare yourself for the initial deluge of mails of hundreds of horny men.

And also stop those one on one talks. Do as Merc did: say "If we do not meet within one week, I am not interested."

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RE: Giving up - 3/6/2010 9:30:35 AM

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Actually she has to be totally unfuckable or has already been fucked or made it clear that I will never,ever be tapping her fine ass, for her to be considered "friendship" material.

Let's work on that one and see what happens.

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RE: Giving up - 3/6/2010 9:31:14 AM

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I read once that it takes a guy less than ten seconds the first time he sees you to decide whether or not he'd fuck you. I doubt 'being your friend' occurs anywhere in there. They're thinking either, "Want to Fuck" or "Don't Want to Fuck- ignore". To have a friendship with a guy, you have to get past that part first and then charm him with your wit and sweetness. Above all, if you are looking to fall in love you have to act like you don't really care either way. A needy woman chases men away as fast as an ugly woman. In fact, a cool ugly woman has a better future in the love/friendship department than a gorgeous needy one. I'm not saying YOU are any of those things, just saying.