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came4U -> Arousal Cycles - WOMEN only (3/13/2010 6:27:17 PM)

I'm not talking about menstral (or it could relate).

Is anyone else a walking stream of unknown/unregistered with the lethal weapon of orgasms on a constant basis? I am NOT talking about knowing your man is coming/cuming home in an hour/later/next week/tomorrow. I am talking about...physically, and without forethought?? Just being the average single girl, who holds herself together enough so she doesn't walk around seeming like a horny pile of goo. A pretend kind of self-cunt-rol, or absolutely nothing would get done--ever.

Walking, talking, washing dishes, laundry, shopping...and 'whooomphhhh here it is' and a wush and a mild or major trickle?

I've always been this nutty, seems it is getting worse. Is it pre-menopausal fucking nonsense or what?

Uterus flipping, cervix dialating, wushh for no frickin' apparent reason. Please tell me I am ok. Tell me I can concentrate on reality sometime soon. It lasts probably 4 months as is, then weans n wanes. BUT, not sure if that occurs because I didn't get any, or if it is weather/hormonal again. But then again, it happens whether I am single or not.

I've tried the counting the days pre-menst. cycle. It is fairly non-consistent. Mostly really hot before, during and after., yet, still just only slightly less the other times.

Certain things can set me off. Sounds, smells, make it worse. So it can't be a timeframe thing. The cervix seems to be most of the problem. Nothing but trouble I call it.

Physically, hmm the only way to describe it is the zero gravity experience. Like being on a swing, hitting the top right before you come down. That feeling in the gutt/uterus/cervix almost on a constant basis.

Hate to say it, because it is almost shameful, but even during labour, I orgasm. The cervix again, my curse. my hell. Must be the dialation. Embarassing as hell to have had squirted on the OBGYN's finger as he checked me, and he knew 'that wasn't your water lady!!'.

Is oversensitivity the issue??? (see below on how to rid of that)

Men, pfftt ok, not sure what it feels like to walk around with a constant boner?? but, surely, it can't be this bad.

So forget about them (men), what the fuck is going on, how can I stop it? (yes, am physically fine says the doc--I just haven't informed him of this problem lol). He doesn't know I'm such a cumming-twit and I want to keep it that way. Not that I want to stop it so much as I want to stop it to be able to concentrate on other things in life (which this interferes with obviously).

k k, will keep to topic. Whaaaat is wrong, if anything, and what do you do about it? Any other single (with no particular man or situation on the brain) chickies actually have this issue? If so, what is wrong (if anything)? Is it actually from the weather? hormones? what???

Asking a serious question, and besides the obvious--GO fuck yourself (masturbation) and the quick-fix (which lasts ohhhh until 25 mins later) sorry, that doesn't work either. So what can a gal do? live in bed all day? lol. Get nothing done, tried that. I accomplish nothing that day or that week, walk around in a numb, dumb garble of nonsense.

Anyone else, got this issue? Doc said hormones were fine (except for past 5 yrs of extreme mens. pain/back labour bad pain).

Anyone else over 40 ONLY and a leaky, drippy mess for no apparent reason???

I don't want to do anything radical like asking the doctor to take out my 'parts' but honestly, it does interfere with my concentration so badly that I get little accomplished that I want to at times.

Would a hysterectomy, or even the cervix removed still allow me feel sex as much yet remove these 'pains/pangs'? For those who have had their cervix removed for medical reasons, did you still feel the same??? I realize often some refer others to a sex counsellor of sorts, but could they stop this, I mean, if I can't? With what? finding other things to occupy my mind? It is not my mind that is doing it LOL.

OMG, has this become the longest, hard to understand question ever LOL. Too many questions, not any answers.


***AND no men's opinions please. You just don't have the parts to relate similarly.





DesFIP -> RE: Arousal Cycles - WOMEN only (3/13/2010 6:43:48 PM)

Go get your hormones checked. Talk to your ob/gun. If you're uncomfortable talking to a man, then find a female. But really, it sounds to me like a hormonal problem.



came4U -> RE: Arousal Cycles - WOMEN only (3/13/2010 6:49:33 PM)

Des, telling you. Doc said hormones are fine and in check., which is why I was surprised when he took the blood tests, pap etc. He has been my doc since HS. All is fine n dandy he says lol. If he only knew.

hmm wait a min.

are you saying that the pre-menopausal hormones may seem ok to the doc but in actuality they are wonky? I would have thought this nonsense would have gone away by 30, then 35, then 40....



came4U -> RE: Arousal Cycles - WOMEN only (3/13/2010 7:10:12 PM)

k, my friend told me, as a sub I would/should be beaten to orgasm control. lol BUT, I mean really, if I didn't have this problem, that wouldn't be necessary. Doesn't really help control-wise if I can't really control it mentally or physically, myself, in some way.

Besides, I just really want an explaination of others with the experience and if it was cured or at least subsided by some abstract or otherwise means??



came4U -> RE: Arousal Cycles - WOMEN only (3/13/2010 7:55:07 PM)

I guess this is really a fucking weird question or it is a sat night and people are out on dates LOL. (ok, or both). hmmm



Mercnbeth -> RE: Arousal Cycles - WOMEN only (3/13/2010 8:29:21 PM)

perhaps you are afflicted with this:

quote:

Persistent Genital Arousal Disorder (PGAD), originally called Persistent Sexual Arousal Syndrome (PSAS) and also known as Restless Genital Syndrome (ReGS or RGS), results in a spontaneous and persistent genital arousal, with or without orgasm or genital engorgement, unrelated to any feelings of sexual desire. It was first documented by Dr. Sandra Leiblum in 2001, only recently characterized as a distinct syndrome in medical literature. Some physicians use the term Persistent Sexual Arousal Syndrome to refer to the condition in women; others consider the syndrome of priapism in men to be the same disorder. In particular, it is not related to hypersexuality, sometimes known as nymphomania or satyriasis. In addition to being very rare, the condition is also frequently unreported by sufferers who may consider it shameful or embarrassing.

Physical arousal caused by this syndrome can be very intense and persist for extended periods, days or weeks at a time. Orgasm can sometimes provide temporary relief, but within hours the symptoms return. The symptoms can be debilitating, preventing concentration on mundane tasks. Some situations, such as riding in an automobile or train, vibrations from mobile phones, and even going to the toilet can aggravate the syndrome unbearably. Wiki Article



came4U -> RE: Arousal Cycles - WOMEN only (3/13/2010 8:32:22 PM)

OMG Mercnbeth, gonna check on that.

Would be nice to have a label lol. Mostly I thought I was just fuckn nuts.



Mercnbeth -> RE: Arousal Cycles - WOMEN only (3/13/2010 8:33:20 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: came4U

OMG Mercnbeth, gonna check on that.

Would be nice to have a label lol. Mostly I thought I was just fuckn nuts.


you are not alone...[:)]



came4U -> RE: Arousal Cycles - WOMEN only (3/13/2010 8:37:26 PM)

OMFG Merc, ya weren't kidding.

"Physical arousal caused by this syndrome can be very intense and persist for extended periods, days or weeks at a time. Orgasm can sometimes provide temporary relief, but within hours the symptoms return. The symptoms can be debilitating, preventing concentration on mundane tasks. Some situations, such as riding in an automobile or train, vibrations from mobile phones, and even going to the toilet can aggravate the syndrome unbearably.[7][8"

If a cell vibrate went off in someone else's purse, I'd go nuts like I was deaf and felt it through the floor. Same goes for music, movies, if in stereo and it comes through the chair into me, I can no longer concentrate on the movie lol. All I say is 'whattt happpeeened???" "what did I missss?" Busses, the same, yep, and pee. Certain men's voices, deep monotone, and I'm gone into oblivion. Yep, even the buzzing/harmonics at the meat department flourescent lights. lol...I am hypnotized for some time, can't move, orgasming, at a few points in time,..they thought I was shoplifting by being so suspicious LOLOL

Thaaaaks for info. Not sure what I can do now though. uhhg...or who to tell...or even if I should fix it now or let it be.

Yet, since I prefer to be more of a less-selfish submissive (to punish myself for this constant hell) I prefer to heal from it., so I am less adept to the behaviour. I have a lot to think about, to give up, for my own benefit. It truly is a curse. A very painful curse. Can't say enough to you for / for you looking that up for me, lol, I didn't know quite the right words.



came4U -> RE: Arousal Cycles - WOMEN only (3/13/2010 8:49:45 PM)

'There is not enough known about persistent genital arousal disorder to definitively pinpoint a cause. Medical professionals think it is caused by an irregularity in sensory nerves, and note that the disorder has a tendency to strike post-menopausal women in their 40s and 50s, or those who have undergone hormonal treatment. It can affect a person at any age.'

hmm the age thing, ok. I'd have to find out more about that, because it has effected me since likely (since I noticed) age seven. I am frustrated now because I assumed it would go away by now---longggg away. It seems to get worse by the year.

Thank you so very much MnB. [;)]

because it can truly ruin a life, education, relationships, etc. it is a havok.



came4U -> RE: Arousal Cycles - WOMEN only (3/13/2010 10:08:17 PM)

wow: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vyG6FNjOkWs

ok, that is a serious damage issue. This is getting odder an odder lol

but it seems like hers is clitoral, mine is inner, like I said, cervix and uterus.

http://www.psas-support.com/main/ even better.

'PGAD is an unwanted, intrusive, non-sexual arousal of the clitoris. While male priapism has been known for many years, clitoral priapism has been largely ignored apparently because we are women! There is no known confirmed cause or cure to date. The origin could be physiological such as a neurotransmitter that has back-fired in the brain or it could be caused by holding extreme stress in the muscles of the low back, hip flexors and outer pelvic area. The muscle tightness then presses on a nerve, possibly the pudendal, causing a tingling sensation, similar to when ones arm or leg goes to sleep after pressure has been applied too long. Inflammation of these areas is also involved. The nerve tingles and runs to the clitoris building a crescendo much the same as during sexual intimacy and a need for release via orgasm. Once the release has been given, the crescendo begins again building pressure which can be painful since orgasms cannot be reached constantly while living a normal life (such as at work, school or around friends and family). And just to clarify; women are not having orgasms all day and night as has been exaggerated by the media. Most wait for privacy and hold out as long as they can until they feel like they are losing their minds from the distraction and feelings. Women have tried everything they can to get it to stop, including nerve medications, stop smoking cessations, anti-depressants, anxiety medications, ice packs, and even more desperate measures such as surgery on the pudendal nerve and electric shock treatment to the brain all to little or no avail. Many have thought of suicide because they feel they would be better off dead then living the rest of their life with this ongoing problem.'

hmm different.



came4U -> RE: Arousal Cycles - WOMEN only (3/14/2010 3:04:53 AM)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vyG6FNjOkWs

regarding this.. no, I don't have painful sex. But, then again, I don't have sex far enough lol. Nor is my pain clitoral. It is cervical/cervix and uterus, I believe. I do get the breast swelling, doctors appts are hell. I have to hold off so I don't orgasm all over him. I have to think in a different way. Don't joke, really it is a pain in the arse. I even joke about it, but no one I know thinks I am serious. lol




takemeforyourown -> RE: Arousal Cycles - WOMEN only (3/14/2010 7:58:06 PM)

You're not afflicted, you're normal. I could be fucked ever single day. When I first had kids I didn't want anyone to touch me, but now....jesus.



came4U -> RE: Arousal Cycles - WOMEN only (3/15/2010 12:09:19 PM)

haha takemeforabeer girl *waves.

Yess, hmm but having kids did make it worse, as it did you. But, imagine, in line at grocery store, man reaches for gum behind ya and says 'excuse me' in deep voice while he breaths on ya and whammo, big gush lol. Poor guy wantin his bubblegum, my luck prolly for his toddler and no thanks, not going there again. LOL

Can dress me up but can't take me anywhere.



Mercnbeth -> RE: Arousal Cycles - WOMEN only (3/19/2010 7:05:47 AM)

quote:

You're not afflicted, you're normal.


what the hell is "normal" about a woman being physically sexually aroused 98% of her waking hours...having spontaneous orgasms without mental or external stimulation...and avoiding vibrators like the plague?



DesFIP -> RE: Arousal Cycles - WOMEN only (3/19/2010 8:43:26 AM)

In addition to checking out psas, there is also hypersexuality which appears similar but isn't. In some cases patients diagnosed by that are actually bipolar suffering during the manic or hypermania stage. But these are real problems and having the labels should help the doctor to research it.

Are your hormones the same during the month? Are the levels wildly different the week before menstruation from the week after or did he just check it once. Because even if they're all within normal range, wild swings could be a cause.



came4U -> RE: Arousal Cycles - WOMEN only (3/19/2010 9:02:12 AM)

quote:

In addition to checking out psas, there is also hypersexuality which appears similar but isn't. In some cases patients diagnosed by that are actually bipolar suffering during the manic or hypermania stage. But these are real problems and having the labels should help the doctor to research it.

Are your hormones the same during the month? Are the levels wildly different the week before menstruation from the week after or did he just check it once. Because even if they're all within normal range, wild swings could be a cause.


He checked it quite often, because of the bad cramping that started just in the past few years (like back labour) and that was another reason why I wanted my parts pulled lol. Buttt, like I said, I didn't actually confide in him about my arousal issue. I've known him since highschool, he is like family to me, so I was too embarassed. (not like he doesn't think I've NEVER had sex lol but, I just couldn't blurt out the words).

'hypersexuality', hmm I will have to look into that too. The manic stuff though, no, because it is daily, otherwise manic would imply a down-time. I wish there was a down-time lol, thanks again Des



came4U -> RE: Arousal Cycles - WOMEN only (3/19/2010 10:02:30 AM)

quote:

and avoiding vibrators like the plague?


lol I just noticed that Mercnbeth..lol howwwww did yaaa knoww??

uhhg vibes give me an intense headache...over-stimulation my body cannot handle, they are rather aggrivating, infact uhhhg. I don't mind a small one WITHOUT batteries though. But, if it were 'on' as some others might enjoy, to me, it is beyond painful, it would lead me to ...just stop cumming (from sheer headaches).

You must be psychic or you have the same issue???? because that was dead on.



Mercnbeth -> RE: Arousal Cycles - WOMEN only (3/19/2010 11:13:03 AM)

quote:

You must be psychic or you have the same issue???? because that was dead on.


this slave is most definitely not psychic!![;)]



came4U -> RE: Arousal Cycles - WOMEN only (3/19/2010 12:15:06 PM)

quote:

this slave is most definitely not psychic!!


hahah

well, hell, you sure seem it.

and here I was thinkin' that my issue was because I was just plain PSYCHO. lol



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