thetammyjo
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I think one of the most difficult things many women face in F/m dynamics is letting go of their trained need to do everything either as a sign of independence or a sign of them taking care of others. Learning to delegate, indeed, learning to relax is a very hard thing for many of us to do. When we are expected to cater to another person's fantasy, either explicitly or implicitly, we are may resist or simply fall in line. Learning to do what you want, how you want, and when you want first and foremost is one of the most important lessons we can learn. That said, like the OP, I consider my slave's job to be of making my life easier and that means I do expect him to learn my desires and needs and to actively serve at all times. You can call it delegation but it was part of the training program we followed for many, many months and one which constantly evolves.
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