Aynne88
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My Man has type 11 diabetes. Since we have been together for almost a year, he has lost 45 pounds, been taken off of most of his medications and looks and feels fantastic. His internist absolutely will state that his diabetes was a cause of a lifetime of poor eating habits and being overweight. He used to claim that he controlled his diet, watched what he ate, etc., we have been friends for 20 years, so until we became a couple I didn't know whether or not to believe him. Well, after being together, I saw it differently. Rice, white bread, chips, processed junk....I threw it all away and now I control his meals and it really was the simple. Garbage in garbage out. Most people with Type 2 diabetes would benefit immensely by losing weight and meeting with a nutritionist. John has 15 more pounds to go and his doctor feels that he will no longer need to be on any meds if he continues in this vein. He also goes to the gym with me 3 times a week. I don't care what people say, I am not thin naturally or easily, but I do make the right food choices and exercise. Willpower and getting out of denial go a long way. Also, learn to cook. Healthy can be delicious. I just have a hard time believing that all these people are overweight from thyroid conditions and medications. It doesn't add up. My point exactly, thank you. You are most welcome. I have been reading your posts and I don't see anything insulting or even factually incorrect. I appreciate your well informed links as well as being with a diabetic is new to me and he is proof positive that being over weight can contribute greatly to being diabetic and losing weight and eating right can actually turn it around. He is 58 years old and believe me it wasn't easy to get a guy that loves bacon to love salmon and sauteed spinach, but now he actually requests those things and loves them. One more added bonus, the sex is incredible again. No more tired from being overweight and unhealthy. God the man exhausts me, between torture and sex, I am not kidding. He is like a 30 year old again. I am *not* complaining. .When you feel great and look great, your energy levels go through the roof. We went to the Boston Seafood show two weeks ago and I took him to an upscale men's shop and he bought two new tailored suits and honestly it brought me to tears to see this tall handsome man look so fucking proud of how he looked and felt. That night he thanked me for being so very unsublike in regards to taking care of him. Then he said not to get too used to that, lol. It is so much more than just "being skinny". He won't ever be skinny, but he is now fit, and healthier than he has ever been, I love him to death, and he is 16 years older than me, I want him to be around forever. It's not fair to be selfish and love someone and be unhealthy by choice and have your partner worried about you all the time. I told him before I got into this too deep that if he was serious then I would love to be his, but his health and the kitchen are my domain and if he didn't at least try, that I couldn't do it. I don't want to love someone with all of my heart that doesn't love themselves enough to get healthy for me. Sorry for rambling, but it's something that is really important to me, and he has worked so hard and the payoff is a new life. Worth it, isn't it? .
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As long as people will shed the blood of innocent creatures there can be no peace, no liberty, no harmony between people. Slaughter and justice cannot dwell together. —Isaac Bashevis Singer, writer and Nobel laureate (1902–1991)
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