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MissAsylum -> ProDommes- what do you find as a reasonable rate? (4/13/2010 3:25:55 PM)

been in a situation recently that has got me wondering(not second guessing- just wondering)- are my rates for ProDomme sessions too high? i'm entering my 3rd year of the art of domination and for certain things, i charge a certain amount. feet- $75/hour, oral on me-$100, strap on- $150/hour, the list goes on, and for combinations of things i combine the prices and take like 15 dollars off. keeping that in mind, a wanna-be client told me that i was charging way too much and he kind find prettier girls for less(that made me laugh to be honest), and tried to hound/pressure me into dropping the price for strap on and to give me oral to 100 for both. so for those who have dabble in ProDomme(ones who are pro and ones who have gone to a pro) what do you think? was he just trying to get his fantasy off for cheap or am i being to pricey?




BoiJen -> RE: ProDommes- what do you find as a reasonable rate? (4/13/2010 3:28:25 PM)

God damn.

I don't see domination listed in the price structure, so can you please change the title of the thread to "Prostitutes-What do you find as a reasonable rate?"

Thank you.

boi

P.S. Prostitution is illegal in Maryland so consider watching how explicitly you advertise.




DianeB269 -> RE: ProDommes- what do you find as a reasonable rate? (4/13/2010 3:31:20 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: MissAsylum

been in a situation recently that has got me wondering(not second guessing- just wondering)- are my rates for ProDomme sessions too high? i'm entering my 3rd year of the art of domination and for certain things, i charge a certain amount. feet- $75/hour, oral on me-$100, strap on- $150/hour, the list goes on, and for combinations of things i combine the prices and take like 15 dollars off. keeping that in mind, a wanna-be client told me that i was charging way too much and he kind find prettier girls for less(that made me laugh to be honest), and tried to hound/pressure me into dropping the price for strap on and to give me oral to 100 for both. so for those who have dabble in ProDomme(ones who are pro and ones who have gone to a pro) what do you think? was he just trying to get his fantasy off for cheap or am i being to pricey?



You're not charging enough for strapon training...Most pros out this way charge $200 to $250/hour...


Diane




CheyenneWolf50x -> RE: ProDommes- what do you find as a reasonable rate? (4/13/2010 3:32:10 PM)

Hi...I wish come see you but you too far away oh shoot be nice for you grab my funds you can grab my ass
smile  nice meet you just wish that all .

I have hard time make friendly with Dommes or Dominant either way reason because I am hearing impaired
run off from me that's who care about my deafness. but enjoy and pleasure its work good I think too much for these
who knew it.




perfectflaw00 -> RE: ProDommes- what do you find as a reasonable rate? (4/13/2010 3:32:33 PM)

I lol'd




domiguy -> RE: ProDommes- what do you find as a reasonable rate? (4/13/2010 3:32:53 PM)

Wow...All of this time I was really joking....I knew it!!! I have been vindicated!

boi, come back here you cute little rascal...I will accept your apology in small bills or blow jobs....lol

I kid cuz I care.

Is boi adorable, or what?





MissAsylum -> RE: ProDommes- what do you find as a reasonable rate? (4/13/2010 3:33:20 PM)

i dont offer sex other than oral, and be advised, you dont know what i know in terms of the terms and conditions of prositution in maryland. i didnt ask that, so if had nothing worthwhile to say, find another forum to talk on.




SylvereApLeanan -> RE: ProDommes- what do you find as a reasonable rate? (4/13/2010 3:35:34 PM)

Although I'm not a pro, I'm acquainted with one or two in the area.  Here, the pros charge a flat rate per hour, rather than by activity.  It's possible that by combining fees per activity, even with a discount, you're charging more than others in your local market.  It's also possible you may need to consider reducing your rates in the current economy.  One of the pros I know has had to do so in order to find new clients.  As far as I know, how much you charge will depend a great deal on what your local market will bear.  The one here is very limited, so pro dommes can't charge as much as someone in NYC or L.A.




MissAsylum -> RE: ProDommes- what do you find as a reasonable rate? (4/13/2010 3:39:59 PM)

Diane: i have often wondered if i was charging too little for my services as well. considering that i do discounts lol




Venatrix -> RE: ProDommes- what do you find as a reasonable rate? (4/13/2010 3:43:00 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MissAsylum

i dont offer sex other than oral, and be advised, you dont know what i know in terms of the terms and conditions of prositution in maryland. i didnt ask that, so if had nothing worthwhile to say, find another forum to talk on.


I just did a search on Google for the price that prostitutes charge (that is what you are, by the way) for oral sex, and it is $20 to $50.  So just because you call yourself a pro-domme probably doesn't justify the extra $50.  Of course, that is the rate for performing oral sex on the client, not the other way round, so perhaps you should only be charging $5 to $15?




BoiJen -> RE: ProDommes- what do you find as a reasonable rate? (4/13/2010 3:44:16 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MissAsylum

i dont offer sex other than oral


Can anybody else see that statement for what it is. No matter what state you're in, strap-on activity is penetration and is considered sex.

Finally, no Pro I know charges by activity. However, some prostitutes I'm fond (everyone of them I know) of do charge by the activity. It's one of the main differences between Pros and whores. Understand that I love sex workers because they're awesome. I don't think being a prostitute is a bad thing. I just wish you would be honest about who you are and what you're doing.

Pros charge by the hour. MsKitty charges $250/hr and refuses to lower Her rates. Any mention of sexual activity (sex of any kind) ends the session or session negotiation immediately because She's not willing to take the legal risk that results in a felony charge.

I'm just pointing out that I think the title of your thread is misleading because it is geared toward prostitutes not Pro Dommes.

In Leather,

boi

Mr. Domi-Man, the rate has not changed and there is no deal on Thursdays. Ma'am thought you should know :-)




BoiJen -> RE: ProDommes- what do you find as a reasonable rate? (4/13/2010 3:45:30 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MissAsylum

i do discounts


Domi, she's calling your name, man.




SylvereApLeanan -> RE: ProDommes- what do you find as a reasonable rate? (4/13/2010 3:46:00 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MissAsylum

i dont offer sex other than oral, and be advised, you dont know what i know in terms of the terms and conditions of prositution in maryland. i didnt ask that, so if had nothing worthwhile to say, find another forum to talk on.


To be clear, you offer two types of sex: oral and anal via strap-on.  Most states define "sex" or "sexual activity" as any type of contact with genitals or anus, so unless the laws of Maryland are far more liberal than the rest of the country, you are a prostitute if you provide sexual services for gifts or financial compensation.  If you choose to prostitute yourself, that's entirely up to you, but at least have the decency to own up to it.  Don't think you can come here and berate those who are comfortable calling a spade a spade just because it hurts your feelings.  It's not our fault you're a whore.




domiguy -> RE: ProDommes- what do you find as a reasonable rate? (4/13/2010 3:51:14 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: BoiJen

quote:

ORIGINAL: MissAsylum

i do discounts


Domi, she's calling your name, man.


Say it!!! Say it!! It's not that tough.....D-d-d-d-o-m-i you were right I was wrong...I am sooo sorry.


Say it!!!! Ms Kitty would be pleased!




BoiJen -> RE: ProDommes- what do you find as a reasonable rate? (4/13/2010 3:52:48 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: domiguy


quote:

ORIGINAL: BoiJen

quote:

ORIGINAL: MissAsylum

i do discounts


Domi, she's calling your name, man.


Say it!!! Say it!! It's not that tough.....D-d-d-d-o-m-i you were right I was wrong...I am sooo sorry.


Say it!!!! Ms Kitty would be pleased!


Just because some poor, misguided soul doesn't understand she's a prostitute and her work is different than that of Pro Dommes doesn't mean you're right.

By the way, MsKitty just got a mental kick from you and She says there's no discounts on Fridays either.

:-)

boi




domiguy -> RE: ProDommes- what do you find as a reasonable rate? (4/13/2010 3:57:15 PM)

I need to talk to Ms Kitty about your insolent behavior...You shall apologize or be used hard!!!

Hey, hows about a free clip...That might make us even. You still might have to blow me.




BoiJen -> RE: ProDommes- what do you find as a reasonable rate? (4/13/2010 3:59:38 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: domiguy

I need to talk to Ms Kitty about your insolent behavior...You shall apologize or be used hard!!!

Hey, hows about a free clip...That might make us even. You still might have to blow me.


Gotta talk to slaveKal about the clip...he's the management on that end of things :-)

I'll inform MsKitty that you recommend She use me hard as "punishment" for the insolent behavior. I'm sure She'll make quick use of the suggestion




domiguy -> RE: ProDommes- what do you find as a reasonable rate? (4/13/2010 4:05:05 PM)

Perhaps it's time to let the little people of CM in on our secret......I am Ms. Kitty.




LadyPact -> RE: ProDommes- what do you find as a reasonable rate? (4/13/2010 4:06:36 PM)

Hmmmmm.

Well, there will be no living with Domi now.  He'll be feasting on this thread for a month.

Quick, somebody tell a Bill Clinton joke so we can at least discuss oral sex.




VaguelyCurious -> RE: ProDommes- what do you find as a reasonable rate? (4/13/2010 4:06:39 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: domiguy

Perhaps it's time to let the little people of CM in on our secret......I am Ms. Kitty.
I have long suspected that the Domidong was made of silicon.




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