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The fates were with us - 9/15/2004 11:14:59 AM   
INSIDEYOURMIND


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I had been a CollarMe member for a while, I was getting frustrated with the type of replies I was getting.
I spent 2 months talking to someone that showed real promise, until "she" mentioned that "she" was a he! I have no issue with other people's orientation, just not what I sought, and where was the honesty?
Then I chatted with another sub with real promise, she was in California, I am in Rhode Island, distance was great, but hey, if this was easy, everyone would do it, right? Oops, she left out the part that she was really in Israel, and in a relationship, oops!
I saw a profile that was from a sub local to me, it had all the right words, and I decided to take one last chance, and send her a message.
I checked back later, and I had a message from her. We chatted using the Collarme Messenger, and agreed to throw caution to the wind, and meet!
She is exactly what I was looking for, I want to thank the CollarMe factory for building such a perfect model!
The interesting thing is that her email to me was not a reply to my email, but in fact her seeing my profile and responding.
The moral of this is, DON'T GIVE UP!
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RE: The fates were with us - 9/15/2004 11:44:53 AM   
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Well then there is hope for the rest of us! Congrats may you share a lot together! Roe

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RE: The fates were with us - 9/15/2004 11:48:15 AM   
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Congratulations!! I hope you and she will be very happy.

Sincerely,
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RE: The fates were with us - 9/15/2004 5:30:12 PM   
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i had been a collarme member for less than a day. i was greatly encouraged by the overwelming number of emails i had received ( at least 20-30 within the first few hours ).

After reading about half of the emails, i was then greatly discouraged in discovering that those received were from rude/sick red flag waving types, DomWANNABEs, trolls, and/or those who were not nearly as local to me as i would wish. Of the 50% which i did read ........

(IE: #1. hi, I read ur thing. u send me pic NOW slut. i no u will. i make u fear. #2. i am the Master. You will be my slave. i expect a reply. #3 I read your profile. i have a web cam. Send me your picture to [email protected] )

.......MOST seemed to have an IQ of about a 2.5 yet requiring a 3 just to grunt.
(i deleted the remaining emails... UNOPENED!!)

i decided to browse a few profiles. i found the content of a certain Dom's profile to be pretty much an accurate description of exactly the type of Dom i thought i might be interested in. He seemed too perfect to be true. Having no idea that he had already emailed me & that i had deleted His email after becoming discouraged in reading half of the emails i'd received, i emailed Him. He IS exactly who i'd been dreaming of finding/being found by.

i wish to thank INSIDEYOURMIND for not giving up.
*giggles.. Thank You, Master.*


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RE: The fates were with us - 9/15/2004 6:24:18 PM   
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INSIDEYOURMIND wrote: "The interesting thing is that her email to me was not a reply to my email, but in fact her seeing my profile and responding. "

This is the part I liked best: syncronicity! Both Jung and Joseph Campbell are smiling. Ya gotta love when things go right in the universe. But, then again, I teach Myth. lol Congratulations to you both.

danae

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RE: The fates were with us - 9/16/2004 6:00:40 AM   
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Hello Roe,
quote:

ORIGINAL: theroebabe

Well then there is hope for the rest of us! Congrats may you share a lot together! Roe

Thank you. All that INSIDEYOURMIND and i have shared together has been a purely blissful experience for me thus far. i expect nothing less for O/our future.

Hello ann,
quote:

Congratulations!! I hope you and she will be very happy.

Sincerely,
ann

Thank you. i for O/one am quite happy. INSIDEYOURMIND is a firm yet very caring & sweet Master.

Hello danae,
quote:

This is the part I liked best: syncronicity! Both Jung and Joseph Campbell are smiling. Ya gotta love when things go right in the universe. But, then again, I teach Myth. lol Congratulations to you both.


Thank you. INSIDEYOURMIND is a very attentive Dom. He is always in tune to what is going on with me at all times. Yes, syncronicity is a wonderful thing no doubt!

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RE: The fates were with us - 9/18/2004 2:14:09 AM   
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Congrats you two! May you have many joyous years together!

~ShadeDiva

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RE: The fates were with us reg insideyourmind - 10/8/2004 1:33:21 PM   
Devra


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Hi,

thanks for posting that.. it have met many wantabees and many fakes to date. i have found on line so far to be a great guide and i have met some friends and Masters and slaves who i even called for advice (smiles at stormi and her Master).

So i am thankful to some for their guidence. Collar me is very helpful but one must be careful too.

inside congrats.

devra

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RE: The fates were with us - 10/11/2004 9:02:55 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: ShadeDiva

Congrats you two! May you have many joyous years together!

~ShadeDiva

Thank you, ShadeDiva.


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RE: The fates were with us reg insideyourmind - 10/11/2004 9:04:22 PM   
cynnacent1


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Devra
........................
inside congrats.

devra

Hi ... & Thank you, Devra.

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RE: The fates were with us - 10/13/2004 5:19:26 AM   
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It is wonderful to hear how you two met... i am so happy for Y/you both, seems like Y/your a very happy couple *smiles*

i haven't been in this section in a while but needed some encouragement this morning -- thank Y/you for the wonderful story of how Y/you met and for giving me hope!

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RE: The fates were with us - 10/14/2004 10:16:01 PM   
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[/i]
please, tell me, how you met..........

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RE: The fates were with us - 10/15/2004 7:27:56 AM   
cynnacent1


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(Although the post might seem to be directed at subbiejenn , i'm fairly certain soumisejac is referring to INSIDEYOURMIND and myself .. so .. )

soumisejac:

On June 25, 2004 INSIDEYOURMIND, (having been a member of collarme since January 2004) was feeling discouraged in His search for a female submissive and was concidering closing His account here at collarme as a result. On that same day i registered at collarme.

In my first hours as a registered female submissive at collarme, i was swamped by email from many who saw my profile. Although INSIDEYOURMIND had sent me an email ( i learned that He HAD only after W/we had met) i deleted His email without reading it, along with a ton of email recieved from others (there were just too many, and many were simply vulgar replies, many were ignorant replies, many contained unrequested nude photos etc).

i decided to simply browse a few profiles. i skipped past quite a few profiles which simply did not appeal to me. i happened upon INSIDEYOURMIND's profile and was quite surprised to find that He seemed intelligent, witty, humorous and it seemed He KNEW what He WANTED as well as what He did NOT want. And He is local to me ! And His age suits my preferrence as well ! And i noted He is a 'straight' Dominant male which suits me VERY well ! Most of His interests regarding BDSM actually seemed suited to mine. The bonus to it all, the initial attraction for me, 'his photo'... ( anyone who says looks don't matter ... i say BS! ... to some extent it matters to me ) One of my first thoughts was, "He's a very sexy man".

i was a bit apprehensive, but i literally took a deep breath and immediately emailed Him in reply to His profile. He replied and the email correspondence went back and forth for an hour or so. W/we eventually carried the chatting over to Yahoo Messenger so as to be able to speak online in real time. Then He called me and W/we enjoyed a brief telephone conversation. During the phone conversation W/we agreed that W/we should meet ASAP. Prior to hanging up the phone W/we set up a plan to meet the next day.

i had a date planned for that evening. It was the second date with a man (vanilla) i had met during a very rare night out with the girl's from work. Having shared a bit of correspondence with INSIDEYOURMIND, i was quite intrigued. i was very tempted to call off the date with that other man. The only reason at this point that i was STILL going on that date was simply out of concideration for the man, as i am one who always follows through with plans. i didn't want to be out on a date with that man though, i would have much rather been driving over to Rhode Island to meet INSIDEYOURMIND. i toyed with the idea, and dismissed it and went on the date. The date was 'ok', no major connection but i agreed to go out with the man again on the following Saturday evening just the same.

The next morning i spoke via phone with INSIDEYOURMIND again. We agreed that i'd drive over to His house to meet Him. i was VERY nervous. Many things wandered through my mind during the hour long drive. Would i clam up in shyness and not be able to hold a good conversation? Would He turn out to be a bore Himself, or a weirdo, or a disappointment rather than the type of Dominant i was seeking? Would i find myself sitting with a man i felt no real attraction to? Would He find me to be a bore, or a weirdo, or a disappointment rather than the type of submissive He was seeking? Would He find Himself sitting with a woman who He felt no real attraction to?

My worries went unfounded. He was not a weirdo, FAR from boring, and EXACTLY the type of dominant man i have always dreamed of & i found myself insanely attracted to Him. The attraction was mutual. W/we spent a few hours talking. W/we had SO much to talk about. The conversation was incredible. During the latter part of the conversation, His gaze captured mine and He requested being allowed to kiss me, yet warned me that if i said yes, He'd not ask permission again in the future prior to doing so (i was certain this was His way of seeking my concent and my submission). So, i said yes. That kiss set off feelings deep within me that i had never felt in my entire life. i began to fall in love at that very moment. It was only days later that i was informed by INSIDEYOURMIND that the love felt was quite mutual.

W/we continue to spend as much time together as possible (3 consecutive days a week, and sometimes more). INSIDEYOURMIND has proven to be an amazingly wonderful Dom (very firm, yet very fair.. very imaginative, very in tune with me, --IN as well as OUTSIDE of the realms of BDSM) Although i already wear INSIDEYOURMIND's collar, W/we plan to have a formal type collaring ceremony & W/we have plans to marry ASAP. W/we are currently seeking a place to live together, where W/we will reside together 24/7.

i can't wait. i have never been so happy in my entire life.

P.S. i never went out with the other man. He called a few days after i had met INSIDEYOURMIND, & i explained to the man that i felt no connection between us, thanked Him for the time spent with me, and politely cancelled the date for that following Saturday. At that point it was certain to me that all of my Saturday evenings (and any other evenings possible, for that matter) would be spent with INSIDEYOURMIND.


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RE: The fates were with us - 10/15/2004 8:00:04 AM   
INSIDEYOURMIND


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I feel it is right to add that I was expecting a toad to show up, and instead I was sent a beautiful, innocent swan.
I love this woman with all my heart, and will love and care for her as long as I am able!

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RE: The fates were with us - 10/18/2004 4:41:19 PM   
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WOW!! Congratulations to you both!! this slave hope you share a wonderful and fulfilling life together.


@}PaPa's}slave}--
Every Rose has her Thorns...

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RE: The fates were with us - 11/25/2004 7:36:33 PM   
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Congrats on not giving up, and to you both...
Thanks for inspiring the rest of us.
Wish you many, many years of happiness/love/fun.
Ms M

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RE: The fates were with us - 12/12/2004 6:45:19 PM   
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Thanks for the insight...

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RE: The fates were with us - 5/4/2005 11:05:53 PM   
cynnacent1


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~UPDATE~

"We are pleased to be able to share the announcement of our marriage with all of the members of collarme.com. The ceremony, blessed by the presence of family and friends, was officiated by the Justice of the Peace on April 25, 2005."

~Thank You, collarme.com ! ~

Mr. & mrs. INSIDEYOURMIND




This post will appear to have been edited in that i opened the 'edit' panel to enable the option to copy & paste the code/post. It seems the Mods have a lot on their plates to deal with here at present, in that some of the posts have been waiting for approval in this section of the forum for at least 3 days. For that reason alone i will copy & add this post to the 'Off Topic' section of the forums. Please pardon the duplicated post.-- cynn

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RE: The fates were with us - 5/9/2005 9:14:29 AM   
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Congrats to both of you!

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RE: The fates were with us - 5/9/2005 6:52:50 PM   
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Ialso had the fates be with me.I,recently met with Master Irishuz,he was polite,well,mannered and talented.So it is possible to meet and have a very positive experience here.

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