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RE: professional submission - 4/21/2006 3:48:59 PM

DallasDiva

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I have worked as a pro-submissive .... This was awhile back but I am sure times are no different and just as dangerous. When I would go on a "visit" I would always have someone with me (oh goodness if some of these people knew then that I had someone with me...my popularity might have gone way down...LOL). I had about 4 different people who were well quilified to "save" me and were not shy about doing so. Each were licensed to carry a gun and did so. I never had to have any of them save me, thank god. I was very good at pre screening and getting a LOT of info on the person before I agreed to the "visit". All of this was checked and the "Dom" knew I was doing this background check. I was well established in this "scene" and I guess they trusted me with this info. I would not go off with anyone!!! I was very strict on what hotel I would visit, if it was to be in a hotel. Most of the valets and conceiges knew me, anyway (escort business perk...plus they remeber a big tipper

). I made sure people knew where I was going (dont be shy but also dont make a scene and tell everyone what you are doing when you get there...if you are respectful and do not "out" yourself...hotel staff are cool...they want their guests happy and to return). There was more to insuring my safety...but you get the idea...I tried not to leave no stone unturned... But still things can go bad and OH!!! so wrong. Lucky for me they never did. I would have probably made much more money if I was unsafe and submitted to anything...but I did not and I will never complain. I did very well as it was. Oh yess.... I was also very strict in what I would and would not do....and never got into a "bind" I could not escape from.

I ran a successful higher end (very low key) referal "date" service (more than the typical escort service because we had high minimum hours and did not go out for a quickie LOL we catered to those who wanted to wine and dine before...well you know...) . I had ladies that JUST did sub work and they were happy and safe. I do not know if I could do it ever again.... I am a bit more nervous in my old age of 33. But I was just as careful as a Pro Domme.... anytime you are with a stranger or someone you do not trust... you have to be careful. Tables can turn on a Domme and she could find herself in the stocks....

Good luck to anyone who chooses to do this. It is not safe...really...even though I neer had a problem...it is not safe. I know of a few ladies in my area who went on a submission call and got really hurt.... one lucky to be alive if rumors are true. Who knows how many others that just never told anyone. When I first got into the business a lady I knew warned me about it.... she went on a call where the man kept her tied in the closet all night after beating her and more..... she got out after he passed out drunk and high.... She is why I alway took the pre cautions that I did. The precausions are expensive but I am worth it.

Good luck and be careful. No matter what anyone says there are some that will still do it....

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RE: professional submission - 4/21/2006 6:02:31 PM

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Could you please tell me where to get the book? It sounds like an interesting read, that's all.

I was given my copy, as a gift, by a dominant American friend. I can't suggest anything in your location, naturally, but I'm sure if you do a net search you will be able to buy it online.

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RE: professional submission - 4/21/2006 6:10:13 PM

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ORIGINAL: Slavebitch11

Once my Master had driven off, I had no safeguards should my safeword be ignored.
You need to put a lot of trust in someone you know next to nothing about.
I've gotten through the first session unscathed, flirted with danger and made some money for my Master......no regrets.
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I hate to be rude, but I just have trouble understanding how anyone who calls themselves a master can care more about money for toys, than about the safety of their slave.

Perhaps that is not how it is, but you did say this money is for buying toys and such.

What would he do if someone did decide to ignore your safeword?

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RE: professional submission - 4/21/2006 9:05:17 PM

MrDiscipline44

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ORIGINAL: Slavebitch11

Was my first rental today as a pro-sub. I was delivered in the trunk of my Masters car wrist and ankle cuffed, ball gagged, butt plugged and blindfolded, wearing just stockings and a short coat and transferred to another car driven by the guy who was renting me. Money changed hands and I was led on a lead from one car to the other, like a slave being bought and sold. Little scared but excited at the same time.......
The session was fine but it could have been different. Once my Master had driven off, I had no safeguards should my safeword be ignored.
You need to put a lot of trust in someone you know next to nothing about.
I've gotten through the first session unscathed, flirted with danger and made some money for my Master......no regrets.
I

This is the most ignorant thing I've ever read. How can you even call that man Master if he didn't even take the simplest of precautions for your safety? Both of you need to be fuckin slapped.

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