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KittiyKatKisses -> RE: is a switch 50 50 or more one way than the other (9/22/2010 2:58:53 PM)
I think also in order to be a good switch you have to have the right trust too. In my previous relationship I was the D and I didnt like it. But in the relationship now I am not only D but S too and I love it because we have the same respect level. I wouldnt be with him if I didnt trust him being D and S. We both made collars for each other and when making them we thought about ourselves and what the other would want, you have to make that decision if your in control or not. so in other words you arent 50/50 but 100/100. you play both roles you must think both ways in order to do so. (some people may agree and some might not, but that is why its an oppion!)

LadyRian -> RE: is a switch 50 50 or more one way than the other (9/28/2010 7:23:24 AM)
Well, this was a surprise. Sort of. Maybe not... Sadist 100% Dominant 93% Experimental 89% Exhibitionist / Voyeur 75% Bondage 54% Masochist 36% Switch 29% Vanilla 7% Degradation Lover 4% Submissive 0%

BonesFromAsh -> RE: is a switch 50 50 or more one way than the other (9/28/2010 5:59:23 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist Just for giggles, go take the BDSM Quiz. It will supposedly measure your percentage of dominance, submission etc. Cute test. http://quizfarm.com/quiz_repository/new/136192/ Interesting indeed. __________________________________________________ 100% Switch 89% Experimental 68% Sadist 68% Dominant 64% Bondage 43% Exhibitionist / Voyeur 32% Submissive 29% Masochist 25% Vanilla 11% Degradation Lover

daintydimples -> RE: is a switch 50 50 or more one way than the other (9/28/2010 7:04:52 PM)
Sadist 96% Masochist 96% Exhibitionist / Voyeur 93% Experimental 93% Switch 86% Submissive 86% Degradation Lover 86% Dominant 79% Bondage 71% Vanilla 36%

daintydimples -> RE: is a switch 50 50 or more one way than the other (9/28/2010 7:06:37 PM)
Sorry, tried to get that to work. Oh gee, it seems to mean I am a switch.

crazyml -> RE: is a switch 50 50 or more one way than the other (9/29/2010 12:52:23 AM)
LA.. Love your post! I'd always assumed that it must be a continuum, your approach makes so much more sense. thanks. ML

crazyml -> RE: is a switch 50 50 or more one way than the other (9/29/2010 12:55:29 AM)
Dominant 81% Experimental 78% Sadist 71% Exhibitionist / Voyeur 64% Bondage 59% Switch 26% Vanilla 25% Degradation Lover 11% Submissive 6% Masochist 0% Hmm! Doesn't feel right, but perhaps I'm in denial ?

sunshinemiss -> RE: is a switch 50 50 or more one way than the other (9/29/2010 3:20:06 AM)
I got caught up in the Twilight quiz... seems I'm not the doctor.... and that's who I wanted to be. More's the pity. (I didn't follow the rules, so bite me.... ahhhhhhhh vampire humor!)

LuneRune -> RE: is a switch 50 50 or more one way than the other (10/4/2010 4:21:56 PM)
I really think for me it's situational and has everything to do with who I am with at the time. One thing I will say is that I really do not like 'switching' my role - whichever it is - with the same partner. Once the dynamics have been addressed ie who ends up on top - that dynamic stays in place.

Belladonnax -> RE: is a switch 50 50 or more one way than the other (10/5/2010 7:04:27 AM)
LuneRune I have to agree with you. For me it's totally about the person and the chemistry. But once it's established I think it'd be very hard to change it. It just seems to be an organic thing ; there's no preplanning or agenda. I don't tend to meet people as a 'domme', I don't like any sort of dynamic being presupposed. I like to keep an open mind and see where it goes from there.

DarkSteven -> RE: is a switch 50 50 or more one way than the other (10/6/2010 5:46:22 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: bellesoumise quote: ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist Just for giggles, go take the BDSM Quiz. It will supposedly measure your percentage of dominance, submission etc. Cute test. http://quizfarm.com/quiz_repository/new/136192/ Hmmm... I'm a tad low on the Dom juice.... 100% Submissive 100% Switch 79% Bondage 68% Experimental 64% Dominant 57% Masochist 39% Sadist 29% Exhibitionist/Voyeur 25% Degradation Lover 11% Vanilla That's okay. I'll make up for it. Sadist 89% Dominant 82% Experimental 64% Switch 36% Exhibitionist / Voyeur 32% Bondage 29% Vanilla 18% Submissive 14% Degradation Lover 7% Masochist 7%

bellesoumise -> RE: is a switch 50 50 or more one way than the other (10/6/2010 5:52:25 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DarkSteven quote: ORIGINAL: bellesoumise quote: ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist Just for giggles, go take the BDSM Quiz. It will supposedly measure your percentage of dominance, submission etc. Cute test. http://quizfarm.com/quiz_repository/new/136192/ Hmmm... I'm a tad low on the Dom juice.... 100% Submissive 100% Switch 79% Bondage 68% Experimental 64% Dominant 57% Masochist 39% Sadist 29% Exhibitionist/Voyeur 25% Degradation Lover 11% Vanilla That's okay. I'll make up for it. Sadist 89% Dominant 82% Experimental 64% Switch 36% Exhibitionist / Voyeur 32% Bondage 29% Vanilla 18% Submissive 14% Degradation Lover 7% Masochist 7% Feeling a little switchy? I can help you out with that. [8D]

MistressLavinia -> RE: is a switch 50 50 or more one way than the other (10/6/2010 6:34:46 PM)
Thank HEAVENS!!!!! You Scored as Dominant Sex is about power and you like to be powerful. It's nice to be in charge and get what you want. And being in a position where people will do what you say is exciting. Sadist 100% Dominant 100% Exhibitionist / Voyeur 93% Experimental 82% Switch 64% Bondage 43% Masochist 29% Degradation Lover 14% Vanilla 7% Submissive 0% [image]local://upfiles/770888/F53F49B87B3A441B94782D4A26E2E2F1.jpg[/image]

poise -> RE: is a switch 50 50 or more one way than the other (10/6/2010 6:59:02 PM)
Submissive – 93% Bondage – 68% Masochist – 64% Exhibitionist/Voyeur – 57% Degradation Lover – 46% Experimental – 32% Sadist – 21% Dominant – 18% Switch – 18% Vanilla –4%

odysseyIndeed -> RE: is a switch 50 50 or more one way than the other (10/7/2010 9:55:19 AM)
Submissive - 93% Experimental - 75% Masochist - 71% Bondage - 68% Degradation Lover - 64% Switch - 36% Sadist - 25% Vanilla - 18% Exhibitionist / Voyeur - 11% Dominant - 0% I wonder how I can be 36% Switch when I have 0% Dominant tendencies ..

KitchenWench -> RE: is a switch 50 50 or more one way than the other (10/14/2010 10:09:22 PM)
Well, well, well, this was an interesting quiz! Well, well, well.....interesting little quiz, indeed! Guess I'm one perverted but fun-loving sick f#@&! lol Masochist 96% Sadist 93% Bondage 93% Switch 93% Dominant 86% Experimental 86% Degradation Lover 61% Exhibitionist/Voyeur 57% Submissive 54% Vanilla 0%

PrincessOfZeal -> RE: is a switch 50 50 or more one way than the other (10/29/2010 12:07:31 PM)
Myself, I don't choose if I am a Domme or sub. Once I am Domme or sub, I normally switch on the person. I typically stay whatever I happen to end up with them. That isn't always the case though. I tend to be more sub than Domme.

MIsabelah -> RE: is a switch 50 50 or more one way than the other (10/29/2010 3:04:21 PM)
Oh yes, I am a Bonfide 24 karat gold, brown sugar, sticky carmel, voluptuous, divine dendrobium orchid goddess- SWITCH Switch 89% Experimental 79% Dominant 75% Sadist 68% Degradation Lover 64% Bondage 64% Exhibitionist / Voyeur 36% Masochist 29% Submissive 29% Vanilla 18%

allthatjaz -> RE: is a switch 50 50 or more one way than the other (10/30/2010 9:01:57 AM)
Switch 100% Adventurous 100% Dominant 100% Sadist 100% Degradation Lover 100% Exhibitionist / Voyeur 100% Masochist 100% Submissive 25% Vanilla 0% Able to pull away from this world to be amongst vanilla people 100% Madly in love 100% Unlike many on CM, I don't need to be feeling something all of the time but when I do feel something its 100% apart from submission. With submission I can only give a section of me. I don't consider myself vanilla but that doesn't mean I'm not comfortable acting vanilla.

robbieboy -> RE: is a switch 50 50 or more one way than the other (5/4/2011 5:00:55 AM)
Good morning A/all, I took the quiz... I agree with most of it, not so sure about the Switch numbers. Perhaps it has to do with role play. Submissive 100% Experimental 100% Exhibitionist / Voyeur 93% Degradation Lover 79% Switch 57% Bondage 57% Masochist 43% Vanilla 18% Sadist 14% Dominant 0%

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