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MistressJaynie -> Thoughts about fakes & timewasters (5/14/2010 6:20:26 PM)

I will never truly understand the motivations and mentality of the timewaster. This would bother me more if I actually cared about the internal life of this lowest of creatures. My botherment is effectively confined to the annoyance these fakes cause me personally and the corrosive, stifling and antisocial effect they have upon the scene itself. It is because of their childish games that one has to make genuine candidates jump through tedious hoops to authenticate themselves; meaning that, prior to the BDSM activities all genuine people are here for, one has to extend the chatty, vanilla aspects of the interview process in order to establish said candidate is worth one's time and effort. This can often spoil or delay the excitement and devil-may-care aspect that I personally value in BDSM. My ideal preference would be for would-be slaves to come here, yoked, hooded and serving, within a second of their expressed interest to do so; as I find no fascination in on-line exchanges for their own sake whatsoever. The fake who professes an interest in real-time but knows, secretly, that s/he does not have it in her/him presumably gets satisfaction from such things as Yahoo Messenger and email. Such sad cases, I assume, being incapable of anything beyond these methods of contact with real-life scene-people have converted their limitation into some kind of virtue; which might occupy them on some otherwise empty, boring afternoon or late-evening, whilst their vanilla partner is out or is sleeping. This is something like phantom-limb-syndrome, I suppose: not as good as an actual limb, but mildly better than facing up to the fact that there is nothing physically there! The timewaster's frankly desparate and laughably inane deceptions might well kill some time for those lacking imagination and the courage and ability to realise their supposed 'dreams' in actuality. These worms might well even claim for themselves some kind of practical victory, as they string the genuine along - just long enough to gather two or three messages from a real person, perhaps even a ten-minute chatroom encounter. Wank fodder comes in all shapes and sizes, I suppose; and those who have never tasted genuine experiences are likely to be most adept at making do with what others would barely notice. Imagine - One's most treasured scene artifacts, a few emails exchanged here! What memories, eh?! But the wider reality is this: You, timewaster, are as welcome as and as attractive as cancer. On the one hand, you are simply in need of some ruthless, disinterested cure; a piece of clever software to weed you out with a click of the mouse. That would be lovely, I have to say. On the other hand, and until then, we genuine ones can only hope that you suffer many dark, existential moments of dreadful, fatal loneliness and shame; that, when looking in the mirror, you see yourself for the low-life and parasite you really are - in actuality, as an apt judgement on your personal value. For my own part, when I spot a fake or a timewaster, according to my mood, I either immediately block that person or I have some fun myself, stringing that person along in turn if it amuses me. The latter option is simplicity itself given the poor intellectual level of such creatures; and one can quickly tie them in mental knots with the most basic games and playes upon concept; meaning that they leave the fray annoyed and unfulfilled. In each and every case, I circulate her/his name amongst my friends and associates; and we chuckle as we compare notes.




LadySweetOrSour -> RE: Thoughts about fakes & timewasters (5/14/2010 6:27:23 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressJaynie

immediately block that person or I have some fun myself, stringing that person along in turn if it amuses me. The latter option is simplicity itself given the poor intellectual level of such creatures; and one can quickly tie them in mental knots with the most basic games and playes upon concept; meaning that they leave the fray annoyed and unfulfilled. In each and every case, I circulate her/his name amongst my friends and associates; and we chuckle as we compare notes.


Pot. Kettle. Black.




MsLadySue -> RE: Thoughts about fakes & timewasters (5/14/2010 6:34:57 PM)

Welcome to the forums.[sm=welcomewave.gif]

I'm not sure which I find most frustrating ... the subjects of your rant or readng one very long paragraph. Do a search and you will find your rant is one of hundreds on this particular subject. Remember, the block and delete buttons are your friend.




Andalusite -> RE: Thoughts about fakes & timewasters (5/14/2010 6:44:36 PM)

I'm sure there are a lot of different motivations involved, rather than one single cause. Also, sometimes even when both people are completely honest, they simply aren't compatible.




cloudboy -> RE: Thoughts about fakes & timewasters (5/14/2010 6:46:00 PM)


(1) Might I suggest a paragraph format?

(2) A man without a smiling face must not open a shop.

(3) Into every life a little rain must fall.

(4) Never pontificate about the weather, you may be all wet.

(5) Hitch your wagon to a star.




SylvereApLeanan -> RE: Thoughts about fakes & timewasters (5/14/2010 6:48:30 PM)

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DaddysInkedSlut -> RE: Thoughts about fakes & timewasters (5/14/2010 6:59:18 PM)

Wow you do exactly what you complain about. Says alot about you IMO.




LadyPact -> RE: Thoughts about fakes & timewasters (5/14/2010 7:18:11 PM)

Dude...... paragraphs....... seriously.

I do just want to point out to you how to avoid this whole thing.  Only agree to spend time with someone in the event that they can attend the next local munch or event that you plan to attend.  It works wonders.




sweetsub1957 -> RE: Thoughts about fakes & timewasters (5/14/2010 8:04:15 PM)

~Fast Reply~
Now Who exactly really is the time waster here? OP, too bad Your first post had to be one that shows such a scathingly bad outlook on life in general. And paragraphs woulda been nice..... [;)]

~sweetsub~




WyldHrt -> RE: Thoughts about fakes & timewasters (5/14/2010 9:12:15 PM)

OK, I couldn't stand it. Just for you, OP.... paragraphs!
quote:

I will never truly understand the motivations and mentality of the timewaster. This would bother me more if I actually cared about the internal life of this lowest of creatures. My botherment is effectively confined to the annoyance these fakes cause me personally and the corrosive, stifling and antisocial effect they have upon the scene itself.

It is because of their childish games that one has to make genuine candidates jump through tedious hoops to authenticate themselves; meaning that, prior to the BDSM activities all genuine people are here for, one has to extend the chatty, vanilla aspects of the interview process in order to establish said candidate is worth one's time and effort. This can often spoil or delay the excitement and devil-may-care aspect that I personally value in BDSM. My ideal preference would be for would-be slaves to come here, yoked, hooded and serving, within a second of their expressed interest to do so; as I find no fascination in on-line exchanges for their own sake whatsoever.

The fake who professes an interest in real-time but knows, secretly, that s/he does not have it in her/him presumably gets satisfaction from such things as Yahoo Messenger and email. Such sad cases, I assume, being incapable of anything beyond these methods of contact with real-life scene-people have converted their limitation into some kind of virtue; which might occupy them on some otherwise empty, boring afternoon or late-evening, whilst their vanilla partner is out or is sleeping. This is something like phantom-limb-syndrome, I suppose: not as good as an actual limb, but mildly better than facing up to the fact that there is nothing physically there!

The timewaster's frankly desparate and laughably inane deceptions might well kill some time for those lacking imagination and the courage and ability to realise their supposed 'dreams' in actuality. These worms might well even claim for themselves some kind of practical victory, as they string the genuine along - just long enough to gather two or three messages from a real person, perhaps even a ten-minute chatroom encounter. Wank fodder comes in all shapes and sizes, I suppose; and those who have never tasted genuine experiences are likely to be most adept at making do with what others would barely notice. Imagine - One's most treasured scene artifacts, a few emails exchanged here! What memories, eh?!

But the wider reality is this: You, timewaster, are as welcome as and as attractive as cancer. On the one hand, you are simply in need of some ruthless, disinterested cure; a piece of clever software to weed you out with a click of the mouse. That would be lovely, I have to say. On the other hand, and until then, we genuine ones can only hope that you suffer many dark, existential moments of dreadful, fatal loneliness and shame; that, when looking in the mirror, you see yourself for the low-life and parasite you really are - in actuality, as an apt judgement on your personal value.

For my own part, when I spot a fake or a timewaster, according to my mood, I either immediately block that person or I have some fun myself, stringing that person along in turn if it amuses me. The latter option is simplicity itself given the poor intellectual level of such creatures; and one can quickly tie them in mental knots with the most basic games and playes upon concept; meaning that they leave the fray annoyed and unfulfilled. In each and every case, I circulate her/his name amongst my friends and associates; and we chuckle as we compare notes.

Ugh, that was 5 minutes of my life that I will never get back [:'(]





LadyAngelika -> RE: Thoughts about fakes & timewasters (5/14/2010 10:32:10 PM)

WyldHrt, you're such a masochist.

- LA




WyldHrt -> RE: Thoughts about fakes & timewasters (5/14/2010 10:33:30 PM)

That's why you lubs me, LA [:D]




DaddysInkedSlut -> RE: Thoughts about fakes & timewasters (5/14/2010 10:34:56 PM)

Wyld are you the new proof reader of CM ? Should people post their threads to you or simply email them to you on the other side? (smh)




LadyAngelika -> RE: Thoughts about fakes & timewasters (5/14/2010 10:37:29 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: WyldHrt

That's why you lubs me, LA [:D]


Indeed!

- LA




GreedyTop -> RE: Thoughts about fakes & timewasters (5/14/2010 10:41:22 PM)

gawd, even WITH paragraphs (thx, Wyld! *SMOOCH*), that was drivel.




WyldHrt -> RE: Thoughts about fakes & timewasters (5/14/2010 10:42:10 PM)

quote:

Wyld are you the new proof reader of CM ? Should people post their threads to you or simply email them to you on the other side? (smh)

You are evil, SID! I will be forwarding any posts received directly to you, with instructions to the sender that they are to use scorpions if they are not replied to promptly! [:D]




DaddysInkedSlut -> RE: Thoughts about fakes & timewasters (5/14/2010 10:43:36 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: WyldHrt

quote:

Wyld are you the new proof reader of CM ? Should people post their threads to you or simply email them to you on the other side? (smh)

You are evil, SID! I will be forwarding any posts received directly to you, with instructions to the sender that they are to use scorpions if they are not replied to promptly! [:D]



Evil? Me... I take that as a compliment! That is the sweety thing I have been called all day.




WyldHrt -> RE: Thoughts about fakes & timewasters (5/14/2010 10:46:58 PM)

quote:

Evil? Me... I take that as a compliment! That is the sweety thing I have been called all day.

Good thing for you I have to go in to work now, Missy! [:D]




DaddysInkedSlut -> RE: Thoughts about fakes & timewasters (5/14/2010 10:48:22 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: WyldHrt

quote:

Evil? Me... I take that as a compliment! That is the sweety thing I have been called all day.

Good thing for you I have to go in to work now, Missy! [:D]




Aww... well have a good night Wyld!




WyldHrt -> RE: Thoughts about fakes & timewasters (5/14/2010 11:42:35 PM)

LOL, didn't say that I would be at work long [:D]

To the OP- Welcome to the internet. Please find the nearest pair of 'big girl' panties and put them on. That said, here's a clue by four- there are many wonderful male submissives here who have earned the respect of the Dommes by being honest, forthright, and sincere. This thread has effectively guaranteed that these gems will never contact you, and will delete mail from you on sight. Further, many folks on both sides of the kneel check the forums when considering either contacting someone or replying to a cmail received, and those people will read the words you posted here.

If you were looking to narrow the pool of 'real' candidates even further, congratulations... mission accomplished.




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