mystiquenz -> RE: Thank you... and worries. Has anyone met their DreamDom online? (5/28/2006 12:02:58 AM)
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Reading this thread made me smile. People are lucky to meet their significant O/other online or in r/t. It is the processing that can be difficult. slavejali, you said about being street wise, and lack of discernment, it's difficult for many, and there are many, who have suffered broken dreams, fragmented by untruths of others, and where trust has been destroyed. I see people write about wannabees, players and timewasters. Maybe those are just harsh words, maybe because the person is not for you, or you for them, that they do not deserve the labels that are cast indiscriminately. For some, LDRs do lead to real time, and happy unions, i know of one local couple where the distance was great. They are my inspiration. But don't rely totally on the internet, get involved locally, although beware, it takes time for you to get know people and for them to get to know you. It may not be for you, as it is not for many. Don't limit your possibilities, but have your ideal checklist, and try to stay on target, otherwise, you will just stray. I have had a mixture of r/t and online, and now I find myself, speaking to One that holds my interest, but at least he is in the same hemisphere as I, and not upside in the world. However, equally, I'm old enough, and mature enough, to know that I need to hold a part of me back, in case when r/t comes, and it does not go how we think it may go, that I am not left holding a shattered dream. Put yourself, your desires first, use your head, and intuition, reserve the heart, until you have found the One you are ready to surrender to.
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