RubberWitch
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Joined: 7/27/2005 Status: offline
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OK, answers I've personally given on seperate occasions Because we're greedy. we want to have our cake and eat it, because... Whats the point of having a cake and not eating it? I mean topping is fun, subbing is fun, why can't we enjoy both huh? Huh? HUH?!?! Now, be a sweety and get me another coffee Sexuality is defined by what you don't like. Its like a line. If you push down on one end, for example labeled dominant, then you are saying I don't like the responsibilities of power. It looks like the other end goes up, so we say "I like being submissive". If you push down on the other end, you are saying "I don't like to lose control", and we say you are dominant. You push down in the middle, saying I don't like mediocrity, both ends go up. We say. Oh, your one of those people who just likes being kinky, and then navel gazing about it on collarme. In any situation where you create a structure of binary opposites, there will be examples that show characteristics of both extremes. See also manic depression, androgynes, the SDLP, and greenday. J
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