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SusanofO -> RE: Male vs Female Dominants...is it just me? (4/14/2006 7:57:38 PM)
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Never mind. Figured it out how to insert quotes into a reply (and can't believe it was so easy. I've been using too many other different types of PC computers).
I think people should just do what turns them on. I can almost get migraines when I start having to take responsibility for other people's relationships and what everybody else wants to do...(although I can be a real "softie" and try to consider how the way I am acting might affect their situation(s) if my actions are playing out on a personal level in real life.
I mean, if someone is "talking like a Domme" or "sounds "too" sub-like: Suppose it does mean that 's"what they are really like...".
Say that person then: Changes their Id, their on-line nic, and even maybe moves to a city, even where there are "more of their kind" or: Gets into a relationship with the person who told them that's where their proclivities lay most. I really do know I am a submissive, btw, I am just considering what may happen to people to whom these things may be said sometimes.-
They're still gonna have to see if they "click" with a potential partner. They're still going to have to "work at it" and discover eachother. They may be "narrowing the odds" of possible failure(if they are hoping for a relationship, some people are not) but - they just also could be ruling out one of the better experiences they could have in their lives using some imposed and questionably valid criteria that someone fed them who did not consider the questionee's individual situation. There is good advice out there, though. I am not saying anything new I am sure. I am, quite possibly, talking to myself again (it's good for me, too).
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