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Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togather? - 6/29/2010 9:31:47 AM

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While I was hanging out with my subbie friend she told me she really did enjoy watching two men together. And it got me think of course us men enjoy watching two women but I never gave it a thought as to what women and Domme would enjoy at the time. I then thought how self centered us men can be. I have had one Domme tell me she liked this and I had to tell her it was a hard limit for me.
So what is it that Dommes really do enjoy on this subject? Is it the humiliation?

RE: Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togather? - 6/29/2010 9:34:54 AM

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they like it when we go to gather some mandals.

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RE: Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togather? - 6/29/2010 9:36:15 AM

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And model the mandals, especially with stylish capris!

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some people like it, some don't. I love gay porn. I love watching two guys entertain me in person.

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RE: Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togather? - 6/29/2010 9:41:46 AM

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Thanks for the input and I think at the time I just find it funny how us males can be so one sided in a way. But like I said that would be a hard limit for me. I would have to be with a Domme for a very long time and then I really do not know if I could do that for her.

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RE: Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togather? - 6/29/2010 9:55:25 AM

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I saw a documentary a while ago that said male-male sex is arousing to women, since it expressed the raw and rough nature of sex (and if it were "gym gays" with a very ripped body, this aroused them even more). But I'm not a woman of course, so I wouldn't know, and it seemed more something for a special kind of woman to enjoy gay sex as a display of raw sex, rather than all women.

I think Dommes have better ways to humiliate their slave that doesn't require them to have sex with another person, but it might depend from Domme to Domme. I couldn't help thinking this seemed more something that happened in bi-curious man's e-literature. But hey, maybe a Domme here could prove me wrong.

On something slightly related, a recent research in the sexual organization of men and women by Chivers in 2006 I think. Straight women can get aroused by both female and male stimuli, but straight men only got aroused by female stimuli) They also included some male to female transexuals and saw that these still exhibited the "male pattern" of arousal, so only one gender arouses them, but I forgot whether they liked female or male stimuli. Should someone be interested I could probably look it up again.

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RE: Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togather? - 6/29/2010 10:02:44 AM

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Yes gedienstig, it very well could be that it hits something in the brain for a women while men are different. I had a Domme tell me she liked it and this got me off guard. I told her that was a hard limit for me and that was that. But yes a Domme could have a different ways to humiliate their subs. Like everything else it depends on the Domme.

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RE: Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togather? - 6/29/2010 10:51:13 AM

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I have exactly zero interest in humiliating anyone. I like watching men entertain me because it's hot.

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RE: Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togather? - 6/29/2010 10:52:36 AM

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I don't particularly like watching two men together in and of itself.
However; I definitely think its hot to have enough control over a straight man that I could get him to do forced bi.
THAT"S HOT!

A few weeks ago, Ladypact and Peon wrote a story about forced bi that had a big fan following amongst the Dommes.

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RE: Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togather? - 6/29/2010 10:59:26 AM

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A few weeks ago, Ladypact and Peon wrote a story about forced bi that had a big fan following amongst the Dommes.

And a few other folks!

http://www.collarchat.com/fb.asp?m=3238469 Just the beginning of what became a wonder-filled thread.

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RE: Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togather? - 6/29/2010 11:04:56 AM

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Lady Cimarron, that is interesting, you really do not like to watch two men but you get hot when someone is forced bi. Maybe its the whole controlling thing that gets the Dommes going and that is a big can of worms. In some ways when I am asking questions here I feel at times I am giving Dommes enough information to well, crucify me, hell.
I still have a lot to learn even after all these years.

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RE: Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togather? - 6/29/2010 11:11:20 AM

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Why does it have to be humiliating? Sure, that can be fun and all, but do you think every male Dominant out there who enjoys watching two females together is only ever going for the humiliation angle? Hell no! They are doing it for every reason under the kinky sun!

I honestly don't believe that there is something different in the brain due to gender. When people start looking at bi-sexuality in a different way because the participants are male, rather than female, they need to recognize the influence that society has had on the matter. Start asking yourself the real questions. Why is bi-sexuality more accepted for females than males? Would you have made the same leap if society hadn't taught you that? Is your own first reaction (that it would be humiliating) because of the fact that you are straight or does it have to do with what you perceive other people would think of you if they found out?

One of the hottest kinks on this planet for Me is m/m cocksucking. I love it for every possible reason just the same as a male might want to watch two females together. I'm certainly not ashamed of it and I don't see any reason why I should be.

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RE: Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togather? - 6/29/2010 11:14:46 AM

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I just like watching hot guys getting it on.

There is a REASON women are excluded from the gay male events. BECAUSE OF THE DROOL FACTOR. And our chick cooties.

I like cocksucking, but full out fucking is my fave. Yepper.

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RE: Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togather? - 6/29/2010 11:24:24 AM

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That's exactly why I like it. It's raw, unbridled, and just amazingly HOT. I just have no other explanation for it. Gay porn is some of my fave porn on the planet. Would love to have that performed right in front of me, but I'd never "force" the issue on anyone that wasn't into it, too. Gay fisting, and I'm losing my marbles. Seriously.

No, it's not an absolute must for me, but it's on my top 3 list as far as all things hot.

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RE: Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togather? - 6/29/2010 11:44:47 AM

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True ladyPact, it is the way we are brought up and from my point of view I just enjoy women, hard to describe except there is something in my brain that when a very good looking women walks by, well I look. But I guess from a sub's point of view if he is bring pleasure to his Domme, then that is a whole another thing, it is a different head space.
But I guess as ReginaMirus it might be more raw because of the male energy.
I was just wondering how some of you had different ideas on this subject.
After reading the older post one thing I noticed was how the sub went outside his body in his head and was looking down at himself and questioning himself, I guess that is a common.
I know the 1st time I was with a Domme I really was thinking I was nuts and what the hell was I doing. After wards my head was, well, very cleared up in a way, its hard to describe.

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RE: Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togather? - 6/29/2010 1:48:42 PM

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Greetings,

I have to add my voice to the 'love watching men have sex (fucking, cock sucking, or otherwise)' camp. As well, I see nothing humiliating about it. I've had a few people assume that I saw it as humiliating and I've had to set them straight on the subject. Frankly, it's just hot to watch m/m sex.

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RE: Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togather? - 6/29/2010 3:02:17 PM

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Two hot guys WITH anal penetration? Oh, YEAH! Because so-called Domme porn is primarily vanilla male/basement unreal fantasy, most Dommes LOVE good gay porn. And the two/three/five dudes laugh and manly bond afterwards: nifty! Very different from the dead-eyed implanted crack whores dressed up as dommes in vanilla porn who can barely bring themselves to touch their targets with a ten-foot strap-on: ew.

Vanilla guys can't believe we think about gay porn the way they do lesbian porn: watch the next time you tell them: it shorts out their brain-peen circuits like a conflicted Star Trek robot.

But if any humiliation involved, or force, faux or real: instant disgust, and goodbye wide-on.

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RE: Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togather? - 6/29/2010 3:04:38 PM

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Gay fisting, and I'm losing my marbles. Seriously.

Lol, me, too! One of my few unfulfilled fantasies is from the movie 'Cruising', with a guy being fisted in a sex sling at a leatherbar.

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RE: Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togather? - 6/29/2010 3:44:32 PM

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I fall on the side of liking it. I don't think I could ever go back to being with a straight man after the experiences I have had with my slave.
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RE: Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togather? - 6/29/2010 3:49:33 PM

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hot hot hhot... not for the humiliation factor either..
have to echo what several of the ladies have said here:)
Song, nice to see you posting again, hugs

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RE: Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togather? - 6/29/2010 3:51:34 PM

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I have different motivations under different circumstances. When with another couple, cuddled with the female other half, we greatly enjoyed watching "the boys" get it on. Watching my mate suck a cock or get fucked is hot because i know what a turn on it is for him. Being able to watch him submit to another guy is awesome. I don't usually get to observe him from that angle when i am participating.

in another instance having a "straight" guy agree to let my mate suck his cock while i was dominating him was very hot. He admitted he got much more out of the scene in general having me standing behind him pulling his body against mine with his head pulled back and me whispering in his ear, while getting sucked. It got him past the "taboo" of the bi experience and gave him something new to really enjoy.

Humiliation is not my thing, i'm not really good at being mean to people and humiliation feels mean to me, where as pain, teasing, a little torture, bondage, etc just feels like fun.

Can't say gay porn does much for me, but then again neither does straight porn. I'm just not wired that way. I need it written or i need to be there.

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