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kitastrophe33 -> RE: Dommes Posting in "Ask A Master" (7/11/2010 11:44:30 AM)
That's what I always thought. I find it interesting/helpful to read from another perspective. Sometimes I ask questions so I understand where people are coming from. Occasionally, being a reasonably intelligent human being I have things to contribute to a topic. Oh damn, there I go posting on "Ask a Master" when I'm neither a male nor a dom. quote: In my non-gentlemanly opinion, you're taking the subforum titles too literally. To me, "Ask A Master" is just a catchy way to say "This is the forum to discuss things related to maledom relationship."

ModTwentyOne -> RE: Dommes Posting in "Ask A Master" (7/11/2010 11:51:53 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: aldompdx NOTICE AND REQUEST TO ALL PERSONS NOT PERSONALLY IDENTIFIED AS A MASTER (except the original poster) -- Pursuant to TOS 7.3.6 and 7.3.7, which incorporate the forum and section guidelines, I hereby request that you refrain from directing communication towards me in this thread, or by e-mail in response thereto, by reason of insult. Anyone may post on this thread, or any thread in any forum. If you don't wish to see responses, feel free to use the HIDE button. ModeratorTwentyOne

sweetsub1957 -> RE: Dommes Posting in "Ask A Master" (7/11/2010 12:00:18 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lockit quote: ORIGINAL: sweetsub1957 ~Fast Reply~ i guess i'm just rude and obnoxious. lol i go all over this site and post everywhere, regardless of which forum it's in. At first it bothered me, but not anymore. [:D] You should be spanked you naughty girl! Hugs! brings paddle and bends over for spanking [:D]

myotherself -> RE: Dommes Posting in "Ask A Master" (7/11/2010 12:41:42 PM)
If I feel I have valid input, then I post to that thread. I rarely note which section the thread originates from - a thread is a thread is a thread. I think the only place I haven't posted is in the Gorean section, but that's simply because there's never been a thread in there that interests me or is relevant to me. But then again, what do I know? I'm just a simple sub...[:D]

ElanSubdued -> RE: Dommes Posting in "Ask A Master" (7/11/2010 12:54:16 PM)
MistressDarkArt, quote: Gentlemen, seeing frequent posts from Dommes in this category has me wondering... how do you feel about female dominants inserting their opinions in your Ask A Master forum? I'm of the opinion that anyone can post anywhere as long as they do so respectfully and within the spirit of the particular forum at hand. This is reflected in what I've seen from CM moderators. A domme may well be a master so I see no inconrguence. Also, the word "master", in this case, is a euphamism for owner, dominant, master, top, etc. Thus, once again, I see no incongruence as a domme may be any and all of these things, or something else that, none-the-less, is within the spirit of the "Ask A Master" forum. Mind you... MarcEsadrian's comment did cause me to chuckle, quite a bit! :-) Seriously though, there is a humanity at play here that transcends gender and, at the same time, I enjoy reading replies from both genders on matters of the "top side of things". I suppose one could say there is a slight unfairness because it would seem odd if a lot of male dominants started using the "Ask A Mistress" forum as a base for male dominant focused questions. Ah, but isn't that just life! Some things are never quite fair and that's fine. [;)] Elan.

Musicmystery -> RE: Dommes Posting in "Ask A Master" (7/11/2010 12:58:25 PM)
And again, she wanted to see how how the gentlemen feel about this. She found out instead how subs and dommes feel about it. That she knew already--they are hardly a reticent lot. Not a question of unfairness. Just silly pointlessness. And yeah, that's life. People are people.

myotherself -> RE: Dommes Posting in "Ask A Master" (7/11/2010 1:18:34 PM)
She DID hear how some Doms feel about it. They don't seem to have a problem with it. Her question was asked and answered. In addition, she got some input from others explaining why they posted in other fora. Think of it as adding detail to the answer. All in all she got a pretty robust, rounded answer. Hardly pointless.

Musicmystery -> RE: Dommes Posting in "Ask A Master" (7/11/2010 1:26:24 PM)
Perhaps redundant would have been a more accurate choice. Dommes/subs who are already posting already have clear feelings about the matter. If you want to know how the men think, ask the girls, right? The OP asked how the men feel about that posting. How the women feel about it is indeed pointless (off the subject)--it precedes the situation setting up the OP. Not that it matters. The result was predictable. As well as the defensiveness against attacks that didn't really happen. All been played out here before. Yup, pointless. She asked how the men feel. That's how I feel--it's pointless.

myotherself -> RE: Dommes Posting in "Ask A Master" (7/11/2010 1:30:08 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Musicmystery If you want to know how the men think, ask the girls, right? Sigh - that sentence says a whole lot about the underlying issues. Chickie, I haven't been a 'girl' since I started menstruating, aged 11.

Musicmystery -> RE: Dommes Posting in "Ask A Master" (7/11/2010 1:31:35 PM)
Now it's a semantics debate? It's a pretty common use of the term. So is girlfriend/boyfriend, incidentally, denoting adult relationships, just like "girls night out/boys night out." This has been fun. Let's not do it again, speaking of pointless.

AQuietSimpleMan -> RE: Dommes Posting in "Ask A Master" (7/11/2010 1:34:50 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: myotherself quote: ORIGINAL: Musicmystery If you want to know how the men think, ask the girls, right? Sigh - that sentence says a whole lot about the underlying issues. Chickie, I haven't been a 'girl' since I started menstruating, aged 11. This bothers me... you know I like you myotherself.... but do you really think that was what he meant by the statement? that he sees all XX Gene Holders as 'girls' and all XY Gene Holders as 'MEN' I find this assumptiuon off putting. I call women girls, chicks, sweethearts, dolls, and ladies, and any other comment that denotes Female in it's direction... I do not do the Gender Superiority thing, I think MANY Women assume Most Men do and well I just don't see it, Even in what you quoted where if I wanted to I could assume that is what he meant.... in the long and thick of it I just don't believe this is how he feels, but I think it is an easy way to discredit him and his opinion. I see this A LOT on CollatChat and in my experience it is done in majority by women. No point to be made it just bothers me. QSM

myotherself -> RE: Dommes Posting in "Ask A Master" (7/11/2010 1:35:46 PM)
Yeah, I'm bored now. Off you trot!

MissCake -> RE: Dommes Posting in "Ask A Master" (7/11/2010 1:36:14 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MistressDarkArt Gentlemen- Seeing frequent posts from Dommes in this category has me wondering...how do you feel about female dominants inserting their opinions in your Ask A Master forum? Best, MDA I can achieve mastery just as well as a man can. That some dominant women choose to exclude themselves from the group of people who can be called master doesn't mean we ALL do.

myotherself -> RE: Dommes Posting in "Ask A Master" (7/11/2010 1:38:36 PM)
Actually QSM, in this case I do. Most of the time I see it as semantics - the whole 'boys and girls' thing and it doesn't bother me in the slightest. I use it myself regularly, mostly because I KNOW I don't have a gender superiority/inferiority issue. But in this particular poster's case, I have seen a LOT of his posts that point towards an ongoing regularly patronising behaviour towards women. Sometimes I let the irrelevance of some people get to me...I guess this was one of those times [:D]

DaddysInkedSlut -> RE: Dommes Posting in "Ask A Master" (7/11/2010 1:39:25 PM)
Musicmystery As it was pointed out by Mod 21 anyone can post any where. Hell even the guidelines do not dictate who can post here IMO or what a master is. If the OP or you only want to read what males write in this regard or any for that matter you can make that happen in your little world by hidding all of the women who post. Yes, it really is that simple. BTW... refering to grown woman as girls is an immature and childish attempt at a put down IMO.

Musicmystery -> RE: Dommes Posting in "Ask A Master" (7/11/2010 1:41:49 PM)
Hello....... I made the same point myself. Before repeating the clichés, read the content. [ETA--button's there for you to click too, girl. Want to be treated as a mature equal? This won't get you there. Just click Hide and be done. Life's too short.]

Musicmystery -> RE: Dommes Posting in "Ask A Master" (7/11/2010 1:43:18 PM)
quote: in this particular poster's case Hide button, sweetie, like the mod said. Lower left corner. See it? Click it. Life will be good again. The flowers will bloom. Stocks will rise. The village will rejoice.

DaddysInkedSlut -> RE: Dommes Posting in "Ask A Master" (7/11/2010 1:46:12 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AQuietSimpleMan This bothers me... you know I like you myotherself.... but do you really think that was what he meant by the statement? that he sees all XX Gene Holders as 'girls' and all XY Gene Holders as 'MEN' I find this assumptiuon off putting. I call women girls, chicks, sweethearts, dolls, and ladies, and any other comment that denotes Female in it's direction... I do not do the Gender Superiority thing, I think MANY Women assume Most Men do and well I just don't see it, Even in what you quoted where if I wanted to I could assume that is what he meant.... in the long and thick of it I just don't believe this is how he feels, but I think it is an easy way to discredit him and his opinion. I see this A LOT on CollatChat and in my experience it is done in majority by women. No point to be made it just bothers me. QSM QSM In THIS case yes, I think the word girl was meant as a put down or a way to put himself above the females who posted in this thread or on this forum period. That doesn't mean that every time someone calls me a girl I take it as an insult. Daddy calls me his girl all the time, but because of the context and relationship its far from an insult. So for me I have to look at who is saying it and the situation and those things determine if it was meant as a sad attempt at an insult or not.

myotherself -> RE: Dommes Posting in "Ask A Master" (7/11/2010 1:48:00 PM)
no way will I hide you sweetie - you're far too entertaining! [:D] Life is good, flowers are growing, housework done. Have a nice life!

Musicmystery -> RE: Dommes Posting in "Ask A Master" (7/11/2010 1:48:34 PM)
All the semantics and personal grudges and twistings aren't going to change one thing: The OP asked X. She got pages of Y. Pointless is precisely the word.

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