LadyPact -> RE: Dommes Posting in "Ask A Master" (7/9/2010 6:14:18 PM)
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From the thread http://www.collarchat.com/fb.asp?m=2974517&key=dear%2Cdominants quote:
ORIGINAL: LadyPact Let Me go on record here (again) by first saying that I really enjoy CM. I like the layout. I like a good number of the regular posters here. Threads and discussion are pretty darn easy to follow. There aren't endless groups that can be created over and over with only two or three folks belonging to them. However, I tend to think at times that we may have benefited to an extent if some folks didn't take the gender lines quite so seriously when addressing topics to Dominants. Yes, there are some topics that are gender specific. I don't think it's as many as other folks are led to believe. Often when reading a question that gets asked in the Ask A Master or Ask A Mistress section, I have to wonder why the person who posted the question only wants half the answers? After all, they are only addressing half of the Dominants when they are doing so. They can potentially be missing out on some of the answers they could have been provided had they asked all of the Dominants, rather than just those who happen to be male or happen to be female. The cross posting thing is a no-no (which I agree on) so this can be limiting on posting the same question on both boards. I'm not suggesting that CM redesign itself. As I've said there are some topics that are gender specific. What I'm getting at is that there is so much out there related to Dominance that's not gender specific at all. Sadism, humiliation, control, authority, inspiring submission, punishment, on, and on, and on that honestly aren't related to whether or not the Dominant you are asking has a penis or not. In many cases, it's nothing but a benefit to ask both genders of Dominants, as you'll get a wider variety of answers from both perspectives. I'm wondering about how other folks feel about this? Do you find that many of the topics posted to one gender board or another, would have been better suited to the main board where both would more likely be heard? In writing either questions or replies on CM, how seriously do you take the gender guidelines of the Master/Mistress boards?
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