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RE: You're looking a boyfriend, not a Dom. - 7/11/2010 3:23:57 AM

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ORIGINAL: crazyml

I hear you brother.

I am so angry, I could crush a grape.

Yeah.....it's disappointing...and the ones who are game just aren't sensible about it.....they turn up having used a marker to define where exactly they'd like to be carved up.....had to turn a few away on the grounds of lacking reason.

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RE: You're looking a boyfriend, not a Dom. - 7/11/2010 3:25:56 AM

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ORIGINAL: Gromgor

An annoying trend I've come to notice among the general population using the site (Maybe not the Forums but the site in general), and perhaps it's a regional occurrence, is the plainly obvious profiles of subs/slaves/switches/whatever be they male, female or something in-between saying they're looking for that one person who only wants them and blah blah blah. You're looking a boyfriend, not BDSM. You might like BDSM. You might like getting your hair pulled during sex. But you're not here to meet people to chat with and learn about the lifestyle. You're looking for a boyfriend. Stop putting in your profile that you're open to this or that when later on in your post you state that you only want this one specific kind of relationship.

Fine. You want a boyfriend/girlfriend/whatever, that's perfectly fine. But stop insulting my intelligence. You're desperation for a committed relationship is just bursting out of your profiles and it's rude to believe that we're too dumb to realize it.

Your kink is not my kink, and I will do whatever I wish without having to apologise or consult you about it. Are we clear on this?

I don't feel any need to answer to you, I'm only saying this to educate you some that your way isn't the only way. Years ago, when I came here, I was looking for my One. I wanted everything, including love.

Now, I returned just for friends and for brushing up on things I might have forgotten about and to maybe learn some new things as well and...surprise surprise, I may have found a boyfriend/sub.

(On the other hand, if it weren't for people *desperate* for relationships...there would be a lot less people at this site.)

If you are offering only BDSM and nothing emotional, then I wish you good luck in your search. You'll probably need it. If this is not for you, don't write to subs/slaves who "are desperate for a committed relationship" but seek out others whose needs match your own.

Someone clearly stating their own needs has...nothing...to do with insulting your intelligence. I've been here a good 5 years and I never even heard your username until today...no decision I ever made had anything to do with you.

I fail to see how it's rude to state what one is looking for. If you avoid being someone's boyfriend because it's impossible for you to stay Dom with her, then that's your own issue to deal with and you must realize that not everybody has that probem.

I worried for a while that my Domme feelings would go POOF if I got too sappy over someone...until I realized when he said something that made me go all warm and fuzzy that I also suddenly wanted to hurt him. The more I hurt him, the closer I feel and the more I want to boss him around.

See? Not everyone is like you.

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RE: You're looking a boyfriend, not a Dom. - 7/11/2010 3:26:24 AM

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Wouldn't want ya any other way

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RE: You're looking a boyfriend, not a Dom. - 7/11/2010 3:26:25 AM

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That is interesting. An annoying trend I have come to notice is people coming to CM with a preconceived idea of how others should act and what they should be looking for here. Then when they find out that not everyone is here for the same reason, they start a thread whinging and crying about it. Why do you suppose this happens?

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RE: You're looking a boyfriend, not a Dom. - 7/11/2010 3:27:53 AM

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I knew I was going wrong somewhere...... I've been with my Sir for longer than a week... It's not a kinky one night stand *sob*

Shame on me, shame shame shame....

(I would want to pet the bunny but i feel far to ashamed of myself and know that one such as I who actually likes committed long term relationships could never be worthy of such an honor as after all - according to the one true way I should only want rough kinky sex without the other stuff)

It's ok. Just admit that you have a problem and stroke the bunny.

Also, while I do not provide blowjobs in movie theaters, I have been known to give them in church parking lots. Does that redeem me?

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RE: You're looking a boyfriend, not a Dom. - 7/11/2010 3:28:24 AM

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Quality response.

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RE: You're looking a boyfriend, not a Dom. - 7/11/2010 3:31:37 AM

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Oh man, you get that too? Maybe the OP has a point, I'm as sick and tired as you of people who begin by promising full on body mod, then confess to really "just wanting someone to go to the cinema with".

It's fucking outrageous ;-)

Outrageous?! I'm fuckin' livid here. I'm breaking my back trying to transcend sadism and move into the sphere of cannibalism......only for some half-arsed woman to turn up enquiring about a place where she can be strapped to the table and have random kitchen utensils forced into every orifice at varying angles. This ain't BDSM....it ain't even The Jam Making Women's Institute of Somerset and Frome.

Eve'n Gov'ner.....you don't half make me swoon....you had me at Cannibalism.

I don't mind a bit of a nibble in the Morning.

Then what are we waiting for......let's make this shipwreck happen.....get over here as fast as your legs will carry you.......you bring the wine....I'll bring the garden shears.

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RE: You're looking a boyfriend, not a Dom. - 7/11/2010 3:35:18 AM

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ORIGINAL: crazyml

Oh man, you get that too? Maybe the OP has a point, I'm as sick and tired as you of people who begin by promising full on body mod, then confess to really "just wanting someone to go to the cinema with".

It's fucking outrageous ;-)

Outrageous?! I'm fuckin' livid here. I'm breaking my back trying to transcend sadism and move into the sphere of cannibalism......only for some half-arsed woman to turn up enquiring about a place where she can be strapped to the table and have random kitchen utensils forced into every orifice at varying angles. This ain't BDSM....it ain't even The Jam Making Women's Institute of Somerset and Frome.

Eve'n Gov'ner.....you don't half make me swoon....you had me at Cannibalism.

I don't mind a bit of a nibble in the Morning.

Then what are we waiting for......let's make this shipwreck happen.....get over here as fast as your legs will carry you.......you bring the wine....I'll bring the garden shears.

So long as you promise to do the whole "kitchen utensils shoved into every orifice at varying angles" thing as well cause that got me feeling right randy.

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RE: You're looking a boyfriend, not a Dom. - 7/11/2010 3:40:58 AM

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Yeah, I spose I could park up - hack off a limb, pop a torniquet on the stump and head on over to watch the movie.

I suppose I'd have to hold your pick-n-mix bag though.

Oh ML! That was hilarious - you've cut off her limb, so she only has one hand to scoop the sweeties with and can't hold he bag herself .... shame no-one else appreciated quite how droll that comment was!

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RE: You're looking a boyfriend, not a Dom. - 7/11/2010 3:41:26 AM

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So long as you promise to do the whole "kitchen utensils shoved into every orifice at varying angles" thing as well cause that got me feeling right randy.

We're on.......I've been saving the cheese grater for this particular occasion.......you'll feel something of a tickle.....but you'll thank for me for it when it's all over. That song about 'having the time of our lives' is busy reverberating round my head.

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RE: You're looking a boyfriend, not a Dom. - 7/11/2010 3:43:58 AM

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So long as you promise to do the whole "kitchen utensils shoved into every orifice at varying angles" thing as well cause that got me feeling right randy.

We're on.......I've been saving the cheese grater for this particular occasion.......you'll feel something of a tickle.....but you'll thank for me for it when it's all over. That song about 'having the time of our lives' is busy reverberating round my head.

Do think you could pull off a Jamie Oliver accent while working me over?
He's smashing is our Jamie.

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RE: You're looking a boyfriend, not a Dom. - 7/11/2010 3:46:06 AM

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Yeah, I spose I could park up - hack off a limb, pop a torniquet on the stump and head on over to watch the movie.

I suppose I'd have to hold your pick-n-mix bag though.

Oh ML! That was hilarious - you've cut off her limb, so she only has one hand to scoop the sweeties with and can't hold he bag herself .... shame no-one else appreciated quite how droll that comment was!

You rendered us into awed silence.....well them and not me cuz I'm chatty.

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RE: You're looking a boyfriend, not a Dom. - 7/11/2010 3:47:50 AM

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Thank-you!

And everyone else - remember it's not just the gags that make you laugh out loud that count, the ones that simply make you feel happy inside have value too.

{sniff}

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RE: You're looking a boyfriend, not a Dom. - 7/11/2010 3:48:21 AM

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(Just now finishes reading every post in this thread)

Thanks, crazyml. You and some others really had me going there for a moment on the body mod, until the cannibalism came up, lol. I am just too punch drunk tired to be posting tonight if I'm that slow to catch on.

<waves to everyone> Night all, I hope I remember to come back to this thread after I've slept. It might be fun to see what happens if the OP ever returns.

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RE: You're looking a boyfriend, not a Dom. - 7/11/2010 3:48:31 AM

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So long as you promise to do the whole "kitchen utensils shoved into every orifice at varying angles" thing as well cause that got me feeling right randy.

We're on.......I've been saving the cheese grater for this particular occasion.......you'll feel something of a tickle.....but you'll thank for me for it when it's all over. That song about 'having the time of our lives' is busy reverberating round my head.

Do think you could pull off a Jamie Oliver accent while working me over?
He's smashing is our Jamie.

I could stretch to a: "pukka".....in a North East accent.....not quite what you're looking for.....but some sort of effort all the same....

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RE: You're looking a boyfriend, not a Dom. - 7/11/2010 3:54:43 AM

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Did the OP go away?

Awwwww!

Where's the fun in that?

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RE: You're looking a boyfriend, not a Dom. - 7/11/2010 3:59:54 AM

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It's ok. Just admit that you have a problem and stroke the bunny.

Also, while I do not provide blowjobs in movie theaters, I have been known to give them in church parking lots. Does that redeem me?

And you dare call yourself a cock sucker for world peace. Hand in your card, little lady!

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RE: You're looking a boyfriend, not a Dom. - 7/11/2010 4:01:31 AM

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Yeah, I spose I could park up - hack off a limb, pop a torniquet on the stump and head on over to watch the movie.

I suppose I'd have to hold your pick-n-mix bag though.

Oh ML! That was hilarious - you've cut off her limb, so she only has one hand to scoop the sweeties with and can't hold he bag herself .... shame no-one else appreciated quite how droll that comment was!

Oh heck... there we are... cutting off the nose to spite one's face... mea culpa, mea cara...

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RE: You're looking a boyfriend, not a Dom. - 7/11/2010 4:14:33 AM

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OP, you come to this site and realize that a large percentage of the profiles you encounter are looking for something other than what you seek. That much I follow.

But why do you then assume that what you want is the norm, when so few profiles seek it?

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RE: You're looking a boyfriend, not a Dom. - 7/11/2010 4:20:12 AM

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Steven, are you here to show what a good and desirable dom looks like? Hmmmm?

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