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ORIGINAL: littlewonder

If I can't fall in love with my Master he woudl not be my Master. I don't do casual. I don't do friendship type bdsm. I need a long term committed relationship for me to even have any interest whatsoever in bdsm.

We have a loving devoted relationship between a man and a woman where one happens to be a dominant personality and the other a submissve personality who adores him so much she surrenders herself to him and would do whatever it takes to keep him happy and pleased because he is such a man that makes me want to give all I can to him.

I have never understood why love would get in the way or change things. For me personally, love makes it even better. Without love it's just actions for me that really don't mean anything. I simply cannot just submit to someone without it.