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my quiz...again - 7/13/2010 4:53:40 PM   
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While on another subject, I was reminded of this quiz I wrote a while back.  What do y'all think?
http://www.helloquizzy.com/tests/are-you-the-dominatrix-of-my-dreams-test


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RE: my quiz...again - 7/16/2010 3:58:01 PM   
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Aside from a few methodological mistakes, which would product inaccurate or confounded data, I think it actually does a pretty good job of explaining your fantasies, Footslut.

I don't know if there's a gender difference, but I got bored after 3 pages. Maybe make it shorter?


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RE: my quiz...again - 7/16/2010 5:29:29 PM   
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slavekal,

Well... the first time I took the test, I answered honestly and with what I considered realism and balance for an actual, workable, BDSM relationship.  I scored low (53%).  The second time I took the test, I answered with the most fully-loaded, fetish/fantasy selections available.  I scored high (84%).  I'm not sure what this test measures, but it seems to produce high results with plenty of BDSM fantasy as the input.  Were I a domme, this test would turn me off because it's all about fetish play with almost no, real life balance to serve as a foundation.  This test definitely gives the impression that domme compatibility equals "a woman who walks around in fetish gear tewnty-four hours a day".

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RE: my quiz...again - 7/17/2010 3:27:25 PM   
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Heaven...what were the flaws?  I would appreciate the constructive criticism. 
Elan, this quiz was engineered to gauge the compatibility of one sub male (me) with a given dominant woman.  It has nothing to do with whether a woman walks around in fetish gear 24/7.  Maybe one question out of forty-five had to do with wardrobe.  Some of the items, if answered yes, would make a woman very compatible with me in that area.  Other yes answers would mean we do not have that in common.  For example, if a woman loves to have a sissy maid, she would be perfect for some slaves...but she and I would probably not be a good match.  Same for tats and piercings.
Lots of folks complain about not being able to find matches.  BDSM checklists are good screeners.  I think individualized quizzes would be even better.


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RE: my quiz...again - 7/17/2010 3:43:49 PM   
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I don't understand this, Kal.  The last time you flashed up your quiz, the Dommes here all showed a lot of interest. 

You should whip them into shape!

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RE: my quiz...again - 7/17/2010 3:54:48 PM   
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Good idea!  Maybe all the interested ones took it already.  I made up another one...totally non sexual items.
http://www.helloquizzy.com/tests/the-nonsexual-compatibility-test


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RE: my quiz...again - 7/17/2010 7:56:49 PM   
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Is this gonna show that we are just pals, like all the others? Because I knew that anyways!!

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RE: my quiz...again - 7/18/2010 7:25:15 AM   
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Probably...but one can never have too many friends.

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RE: my quiz...again - 7/18/2010 10:26:49 AM   
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slavekal,

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Elan, this quiz was engineered to gauge the compatibility of one sub male (me) with a given dominant woman.  It has nothing to do with whether a woman walks around in fetish gear 24/7.  Maybe one question out of forty-five had to do with wardrobe.  Some of the items, if answered yes, would make a woman very compatible with me in that area.  Other yes answers would mean we do not have that in common.  For example, if a woman loves to have a sissy maid, she would be perfect for some slaves...but she and I would probably not be a good match.  Same for tats and piercings.
Lots of folks complain about not being able to find matches.  BDSM checklists are good screeners.  I think individualized quizzes would be even better.


Perhaps I didn't judge your quiz fairly.  I can see the logic (and attraction) in your idea.  However, two things came accross while taking your test.  First, I don't know anything about you so to have a test full of fetishes presents a very single dimensional picture of the partner you're looking for.  This is what I meant by "a woman who walks around in fetish gear twenty-four hours a day".  I did not mean this in the literal sense... though, to those taking your test, that is an impression it gives... kink twenty-four hours a day.  Second, because only you know what you're looking for and the nature of a "quiz" means you cannot reveal this, the whole thing feels underhanded.  How can you grade someone when critical knowledge is withheld?  Also, the resulting score means little to those taking the test because it's difficult to tell what answers/attributes caused the score.  In other words, for those attempting to determine compatibility with you, they are only marginally further ahead after taking the test than before.

I did take your second, non-sexual test.  Hmmm.  Interesting.  Still, I had similar problems with it and some new ones.  For example, in many cases the answer options do not reflect my views so I had to choose something that is a false answer.  Another problem is that often you combine more than one attribute in an answer and the presets given do not encompass all permutations available.  For example, when you introduced white versus black ethnicity prescribed to a particular view, the answer that best described me was only available for those of black ethnicity and thus I could not choose it.

Elan.

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RE: my quiz...again - 7/18/2010 10:56:34 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: ElanSubdued

slavekal,

quote:

Elan, this quiz was engineered to gauge the compatibility of one sub male (me) with a given dominant woman.  It has nothing to do with whether a woman walks around in fetish gear 24/7.  Maybe one question out of forty-five had to do with wardrobe.  Some of the items, if answered yes, would make a woman very compatible with me in that area.  Other yes answers would mean we do not have that in common.  For example, if a woman loves to have a sissy maid, she would be perfect for some slaves...but she and I would probably not be a good match.  Same for tats and piercings.
Lots of folks complain about not being able to find matches.  BDSM checklists are good screeners.  I think individualized quizzes would be even better.


Perhaps I didn't judge your quiz fairly.  I can see the logic (and attraction) in your idea.  However, two things came accross while taking your test.  First, I don't know anything about you so to have a test full of fetishes presents a very single dimensional picture of the partner you're looking for.  This is what I meant by "a woman who walks around in fetish gear twenty-four hours a day".  I did not mean this in the literal sense... though, to those taking your test, that is an impression it gives... kink twenty-four hours a day.  Second, because only you know what you're looking for and the nature of a "quiz" means you cannot reveal this, the whole thing feels underhanded.  How can you grade someone when critical knowledge is withheld?  Also, the resulting score means little to those taking the test because it's difficult to tell what answers/attributes caused the score.  In other words, for those attempting to determine compatibility with you, they are only marginally further ahead after taking the test than before.

I did take your second, non-sexual test.  Hmmm.  Interesting.  Still, I had similar problems with it and some new ones.  For example, in many cases the answer options do not reflect my views so I had to choose something that is a false answer.  Another problem is that often you combine more than one attribute in an answer and the presets given do not encompass all permutations available.  For example, when you introduced white versus black ethnicity prescribed to a particular view, the answer that best described me was only available for those of black ethnicity and thus I could not choose it.

Elan.



Elan,

There's a reason the first one is called the "are the dominatrix of my dreams" quiz. It's specifically geared, on purpose, to slaveKal's sexual desires. For this, because I needed a chuckle, I took and scored *REALLY* low. Ma'am scored in the 70% range. What I wanna know is what MsM's score was lol

In the non-sexual compatibility quiz for slaveKal (I think he and I discussed this on another thread), I scored higher than MsM and Ma'am and MsM had almost identical scores. I had something like a 93% non-sexual compatibility according to the quiz.

Now, cuz slaveKal and I know each other, we were both like "go figure".

Here's the links to the original posts so you can see the conversations...maybe it'll give you some insight.

http://www.collarchat.com/m_2695728/mpage_1/key_quiz/tm.htm#2695728

http://www.collarchat.com/m_2688178/mpage_1/tm.htm

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RE: my quiz...again - 7/18/2010 12:44:17 PM   
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Elan, the whole point was to judge compatibility in this realm as opposed to other aspects of life.  I realize that you can't know exactly what scores gave what results, but that is how quizzes like this are designed.  They have to be.  The quiz taker has to answer blindly for results to be valid.  If someone really wanted to know, they could just ask the writer of the quiz.  It would be best to find that stuff out after you took it so that results would not be compromised.
I have to agree about the one black/white question on the second quiz.  That actually occurred to me, but I did not go back and fix the question.  I will.  Overall, though, I thought the multiple choices on the rest of the items covered all bases.  Can you give me an example of a time where your view was not represented?
Jen, as far as philosophy goes, you and I are very close.  I can actually get a little annoyed at Ms. M at times for not having a consistent philosophical framework.  Either people have personal freedoms or they don't.  You can't go case by case based on how you feel about a particular issue.


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RE: my quiz...again - 7/18/2010 2:24:43 PM   
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ORIGINAL: slavekal

Good idea!  Maybe all the interested ones took it already.  I made up another one...totally non sexual items.
http://www.helloquizzy.com/tests/the-nonsexual-compatibility-test


I did take the other one last year.  I went back and looked at the link boijen provide to remind Myself of My previous score.  On the new quiz, I hit 70%, which fits right in-between My prior scores.  In other words, still probably able to have some interesting conversations, but we may not want to talk about politics. 


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RE: my quiz...again - 7/18/2010 2:33:14 PM   
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Hello Kal,

I will nitpick in my evaluation, but only in the name of science.

In self reporting, it is important to allow the test taker to feel comfortable with their answer. Many of your questions have three options. Alpha Affirmative, Beta Affirmative and Alpha Negative.

While the volunteers taking your quiz are probably self aware enough to overcome the biased questions (biased because having two questions with varying degrees of "yes" and a very firm "no" suggest the "right" answer). The pictures also support a kink enabled choice, which could prime decisions. More notably, since the questions do not have a balanced scale of response, one cannot accurately reflect how much (or how little) one cares about any specific element. A standardized set of "Highly agree, agree, no opinion, disagree, highly disagree" would fix that problem. (Interesting note, if you don't want your test takers to give a neutral response, use an even number of responses).

To encourage honest responses, it should be made very clear that the test is anonymous and only for their knowledge (unless you actually receive data). Also, not allowing the test taker to change their answer increases accuracy of response. When I read a series of footplay questions, I may be tempted to change a previous one to be less (or more) energetic.

By reading the questions I know more about the interviewer than I should. Distancing yourself from the exam cleans up the data (but also makes the test dry and boring).

Remember, inaccurate information does not serve you and being unable to accurately answer questions does not serve them. I would add a comment section to each question (if the software supports that), to gather missing qualitative data.



And most importantly... You seem to be an anti-Batman sympathizer, which is unacceptable in any slave boy.




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RE: my quiz...again - 7/18/2010 3:07:56 PM   
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Heavan, you have not seen MsMlicious in her Catwoman outfit, have you?

It's a life changing experience.

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RE: my quiz...again - 7/18/2010 5:13:03 PM   
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Heavan, you have not seen MsMlicious in her Catwoman outfit, have you?

It's a life changing experience.


At least she's not Harley Quinn..

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RE: my quiz...again - 7/18/2010 5:36:09 PM   
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RE: my quiz...again - 7/18/2010 7:28:29 PM   
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quote:

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Hello Kal,

I will nitpick in my evaluation, but only in the name of science.

In self reporting, it is important to allow the test taker to feel comfortable with their answer. Many of your questions have three options. Alpha Affirmative, Beta Affirmative and Alpha Negative.

While the volunteers taking your quiz are probably self aware enough to overcome the biased questions (biased because having two questions with varying degrees of "yes" and a very firm "no" suggest the "right" answer). The pictures also support a kink enabled choice, which could prime decisions. More notably, since the questions do not have a balanced scale of response, one cannot accurately reflect how much (or how little) one cares about any specific element. A standardized set of "Highly agree, agree, no opinion, disagree, highly disagree" would fix that problem. (Interesting note, if you don't want your test takers to give a neutral response, use an even number of responses).

To encourage honest responses, it should be made very clear that the test is anonymous and only for their knowledge (unless you actually receive data). Also, not allowing the test taker to change their answer increases accuracy of response. When I read a series of footplay questions, I may be tempted to change a previous one to be less (or more) energetic.

By reading the questions I know more about the interviewer than I should. Distancing yourself from the exam cleans up the data (but also makes the test dry and boring).

Remember, inaccurate information does not serve you and being unable to accurately answer questions does not serve them. I would add a comment section to each question (if the software supports that), to gather missing qualitative data.



And most importantly... You seem to be an anti-Batman sympathizer, which is unacceptable in any slave boy.




People should know that these things are anonymous...you don't use your real name.
What makes you think that you can tell what I like and dislike based on the questions? Are you into thus and such? A lot, a little, not al all. You can't tell which response is most compatible with the test writer. Some questions dealt with foot fetish, whipping, cross dressing, public displays. You don't know how much I am into any of those things, if at all. The choices gave no clue.
And I am definitely not anti Batman. I wore the costume at last Comic Con. See what I mean? You can't tell what I like or dislike from the quiz.

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RE: my quiz...again - 7/18/2010 7:35:43 PM   
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I have to add....the alpha positive, beta positive, negative design is not necessarily a flaw. It is quite fitting for a lot of things. Do you like apples? You either like them a lot, you like them a little, or you do not really care for them. It is not necessary to slice every question up into several choices. Sometimes those three are fine. Too hot, too cold, just right.

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RE: my quiz...again - 7/18/2010 9:03:11 PM   
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It's good to see you've got your head on straight about super heroes.

It's overall a very good quiz. I feel it gets good information and allows most people to sufficiently answer the questions, and isn't boring as paste to read. My style is more sterile than yours. I would remind people of their anonymity simply for courtesy, in case it doesn't go without saying.

Because the test takers are all volunteers for this specific task, we don't have to worry about bias. Additionally, the traditional threat of self-censorship is very limited. Normally, people will change their responses to answer what they think wants to be heard. Here, prospective mistresses are unlikely to cheat so they can appease the computer. In this capacity, you don't have to worry about any bias your quiz may carry. As I said, these are methodological flaws from a background in statistics. You don't need that kind of accuracy for this quiz.

In terms of kinks, I just went with stereotypes about male slaves combined with how enthusiastic the alpha positive response was. Was I right? 80+%. Is that a problem? Not at all.

You don't require scientific accuracy, I hope that was clear before I critiqued compared to psychological self report methods.

What do I think could enhance the quiz? (Utilizing the software of the site)

1) Questions regarding more acts, kinks, and other activities you dislike, and more in general. This will lower their compatibility score if they dig on things you don't.
2) Applied life questions, such as living in city or country, smoking, morning person or not, etc.
3) Qualifying questions. If a college education is important, ask a history/grammar/spelling/math/science question that requires the education. This is a "show me" not "tell me" design.

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RE: my quiz...again - 7/18/2010 9:17:44 PM   
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I only have a few serious dislikes. Yeah..I could make them show me, but I'd like to think I can trust my test takers. Thanks for the advices.

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