Invictus754
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ORIGINAL: enthralled I have question/thought/. What would you, as a top/Dominant/Master, do if your bottom/submissive/slave were to make a request that required something of you that you couldn't bring yourself to do? For those that HAVE experienced this, how did you handle it? I like to think that I couldn't bring myself to do something only if I were inexperienced, and it was dangerous to attempt unless one had prior knowledge of the act. I would consider the request as an opportunity to expand my limits. I love to learn, and to learn how to do something new would be a thrill. Just as in my 8 to 5 job, if I don't know the answer to a question, I tell the requester, "I don't know, but I'll find out for you" - and I would tell the sub that the request was something that was not in my skill set yet, but soon would be. The sub would only have to wait until I read up on the practice and then attempted (ever so carefully, depending on the request) to accomplish the request. I was scared of burning subs when I started waxplay, but after one does it for awhile, you get the feel of what is necessary, and just how high you have to be NOT to burn the nipples...heh, heh, heh.
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You never know your limits, until you push them If slavery is a gift, the Africans were pretty fucking generous in the 1700 and 1800s, weren't they?
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