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Nipple Scabs - 7/20/2010 8:12:11 AM

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I frequent here more then people think. When I want to know the answer to something I use the search engine first. When I do not find the results I usually post. That being said I have a question. My Dom loves nipple torture. I do to actually, LOL. He has been doing it off and on for the past year. Just recently it has been getting really intense. The threshold is getting pushed. The last time we played was way over a week ago. This is the issue I am having. I have scabs on my nipples. Is this normal. Are they like callases(Sp?). Or could they be literal scabs? I have had them before but they didnt cover the entire nipple like these ones do? Should I discontinue play till they heal or would this make it more tortorous?

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RE: Nipple Scabs - 7/20/2010 8:15:50 AM

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Keep an eye on them.
Personally, I wouldn't play while they are still healing and just make sure that they aren't anything other than scabs. Unexplained marks, scabs or puckering can be a sign of cancer. Not trying to scare you, but just a heads up because it's not all just about lumps and bumps.

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RE: Nipple Scabs - 7/20/2010 8:46:04 AM

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Let them heal. If you continue playing now, they may well turn into scar tissue which will cause permanent problems.
Now as your age isn't listed, you also may need to consider future breastfeeding. You can't do that with scar tissue.

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RE: Nipple Scabs - 7/20/2010 8:54:23 AM

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We are not immortal, and neither are our parts. Except a few choice parts of Dark Steven.

Treat every part of you as if it can be ruined if you're not careful. Because it can.

Exploring more gentle play when your nipples have healed, would be a wise course of action IMHO. Everything doesn't have to be taken to extremes, to be wonderful and fulfilling. If a dom wants to break his toys, the sub doesn't have to let him.

Nipples are sensitive for a reason. You've got nerves attached to them. Fuck up those nerves, and they may not heal right. I am not a doctor, FYI but it seems glaringly obvious to me that if you mess up your nipples permanently because neither you or your dom are wise enough to go easier on them, then you'll probably have the same cavalier approach regarding other parts of your body. You could end up really messed up in multiple places.

Have a conversation with him about backing off on the extremes, and finding other ways to get the same or better feelings. D/s is not an endurance contest. Even if it was, I think you've already shown very well, that you can match his appetite in the area of pain play. So there's nothing left that you should feel like you need to prove, in that department. Examine the reasons behind your actions. What's your motivation? Are you feeling deep-down that maybe you're not wothy of him, so you've got to prove it to him or to yourself, that you are? Just a guess- I may be out in left field.... Maybe you both just want to see what you can take? What are your driving forces, behind your D/s dynamic- and how can you both address your needs, while being careful not to harm you?

I am not a doctor, as I say- but I do have some personal knowledge in this area that you can PM me about if you'd like to know a little more. FFS BE CAREFUL!

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RE: Nipple Scabs - 7/20/2010 9:41:42 AM

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I have to agree with the group...

you need to take alittle break , and let them heal. (apply alittle A&D)or(Neosporin) till they are all better.. maybe there is something else he could torture ... :)

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RE: Nipple Scabs - 7/21/2010 12:30:55 AM

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Thank you all for your answers. I am thinking about it. I will be conversing wtih my Dom on this subject. I dont keep anything from him. It is more me then him though. I dont feel the pain and really didnt know anything was wrong till now.

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RE: Nipple Scabs - 7/29/2010 9:14:24 AM

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i get scabs after heavy play we just let them heal each time before we play again or let them have a rest

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