LuckyAlbatross
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ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl Women making men chase them doesn't get a long term reaction? Someone once told me that if a guy has to work hard at getting a woman, he sticks around. Maybe they were wrong, who knows? I do plan to start acting like I don't care as much about him though. Will be interesting to see what he does when I barely touch him the next time he comes over lol We're not talking about cheap cliches (and no, none of MY men enjoy the "chase me" game whatsoever), we're talking about this realistic situation between a man who has chosen a very strict and serious set of values for himself and is now conflicted with certain feelings. IMO the best thing to do is a) talk to him directly, ask him what his true feelings and long term ideas are (you're playing hard to get game reeks of high school immaturity) b) NOT push him or tease him or put yourself in a position as the "temptress" whatsoever It would be considered fairly disrespectful to him and his choices. If he wants more and has decided to change his values, he can be a big boy and communicate them, and then act on them as he pleases. Otherwise, *I* sure wouldn't be the person who not only tempts a man away from his values for a night of nookie, AND the one who has to deal with the conflicted mess afterwards. After all, if he can be tempted from such supposedly strong values so easily, what makes you think other values can be seriousl trusted? It would just be a huge drama ethical mess all around.
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