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cynfulcynsation -> RE: Money Dommes (8/2/2011 12:05:41 AM)
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To be "on topic,"
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ORIGINAL: onlylocalsneeded
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The true non pro dominant is not a blood sucking leech. She just wants to be compensated for her time and effort, as does the pro domme
stinger, that was a beautiful, beautiful post all the way. I quote that one bit, as that is the bit that no one much ever seems to get. So many allege-slaves and subs think that if you expect anything out of them but for them to submit to exactly what they hope will happen to them, that you are this tyrannical money domme even if no one is actually asking for money.
It's like, "Oh Mistress, thank you for talking to me. I will gladly let you spank me now. I've always dreamed of that and I find you so hot."
"Bitch, no! I spent 6 hours talking to you, helping you work out your angst. Clean my house! "
"Oh, I see how you are, you whore! You just want to use me."
Well, yeah, I want to use them, as in utilize them. That's what they are there for, allegedly. And, sure as shite, they just used me as there therapist! So, either they should do as they are told or remit payment for therapy!
Sorry for going on, but, man, does that get old.
I get accused of being materialistic all the time by people, and a whore, and all sorts of stuff. I steal from men, their hard earned wages. Yep. One of them paid me $100 one time for hours and hours worth of attention, answering his questions. Another one but me a slushy from Sonic, once, when we met.
What a money-mongering whore I am!
EXACTLY!
As a Lifestylist, I'm VERY picky. I only like certain types of kinks, we have to get a long on a vanilla level, and I don't do public play. I'm also not going to go "all out" when I play with you (make-up, fetish gear, etc) if I don't feel like it. You'll take what I'm willing to offer, because otherwise, you're not getting anything.
Which is partially why I have an option number 2: Hire me as a Pro-Domme. I'm less picky. If you show up, pay a fee, I'll play with you. I'll even wear that dress you like. ^_~
"Free House Cleaning" (my ass):
I stopped taking "domestic servitude" guys for free because so many of them are just like the guys who message me about setting up a session and pussy out at the last minute. I don't have time to wait all day for your ass to not even show up. (I could've cleaned it MYSELF in that time, I'm not handicapped.) So now, if you want "chores," you have to pay for them.
"Live in's"
I guess I should blame the economy for the reason why I get so many guys on CM messaging me asking to move in with me for free. Guys don't even pull that shit with me on VANILLA dating sites, but because they'll be my "sub/slave" all of a sudden it's a bargain. Sorry, I don't even know if I WANT to be friends with you, WhyTF would I want you to move in with me?
PS--I don't "go shopping for floggers." I make my own toys, but sometimes I'll buy something and then "personalize/customize" it. Same for furniture too. (Thank the Goddess for Technical Production in college.) And most of my fetish gear. (Though I haven't tried my hand at latex garments yet, though I'm hoping to start soon.)
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