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masterdeltafire -> RE: Y/your Opinions Needed Now!!! (4/23/2006 7:04:57 PM)
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You need to read deeper into what I said.
She would rely on him, to keep her safe, starting by making the decisions for her, as it has been in the past with her. Then she would slowly be weened off it, until she has some of her independance. In essense re-training her and de-programming her.
And callous opinions, she got herself into this she gets herself out when she is totally defenseless right now, sadden and anger the holy hell out of me. Whether she asked for the abuse or not that was sone and mental conditioning is a moot point. What she needs is support and compassion, not ones saying, "she got herself into all of this from the beginning let her fend for herself."
I have dealt with ones so afraid of doing things on their own without permission to the point where they were afraid to breathe, pee, swallow, eat etc, on their own without permission and care for themselves.
Renegade on stepping in when he did was the right move whether online or not, and if she is as deep as instinct says she is, she will follow his guidence as though in person, feeling anything and everything he does with her, thinking it is real, a simple kiss, a carress, she will feel as though truely real. And yes, it is very likely she is like this.
SHe needs someone watching her.. What happens when the next fucked up moron does something like "hey little girl, go jump off a cliff, or walk in traffic naked, or in front of a train?" Or am I the only compassionate soul left in tis world who knows all too well she would obey a command like that?
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