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Domination in the 1980's... - 9/22/2010 3:19:26 AM   
DommeKeliDallas


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Status: offline 		The days of the Hellfire Club, Club O, Belle De Jour, and many more...
Old Dommes who REALLY knew their stuff...
Like...
QUEEN ADRENA,CA
Wanda O'Brien, MO
Ann Murray, OK
Countess Ann, NV
Mistress Hildegard, NY
Mistress Vickie, GA

Do any of you OLD SCHOOL male submissives remember the Old GRANDE DOMMES and the good old days?

I would really like to know.
Thank you.
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RE: Domination in the 1980's... - 9/22/2010 10:37:57 AM   
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RE: Domination in the 1980's... - 9/22/2010 10:39:27 AM   
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RE: Domination in the 1980's... - 9/22/2010 10:43:03 AM   
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RE: Domination in the 1980's... - 9/22/2010 12:56:55 PM   
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RE: Domination in the 1980's... - 9/22/2010 1:57:13 PM   
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Oh my gosh, Ms Anne Murray! What a wonderful lady!


Ann is a friend of mine to this day.
You're right!
She is am amazing woman and I am blessed to have her as my friend for all of these many years.

(We are definitely NOT talking about the singer.)

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RE: Domination in the 1980's... - 9/22/2010 7:45:30 PM   
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ORIGINAL: DommeKeliDallas


quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Oh my gosh, Ms Anne Murray! What a wonderful lady!


Ann is a friend of mine to this day.
You're right!
She is am amazing woman and I am blessed to have her as my friend for all of these many years.

(We are definitely NOT talking about the singer.)


Phew! was worried there for a min....:)

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RE: Domination in the 1980's... - 9/22/2010 8:32:13 PM   
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Status: offline 		It is truly a shame you do not get the same quality of people today as you did back then who were genuine seekers of more from humanity. Now you get wankers, abusers, users, social outcasts and those looking to just have kinky sex. Thank you internet for all that wonderful connectivity you brought us.

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RE: Domination in the 1980's... - 9/22/2010 9:29:39 PM   
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I remember Mistress Pleasure, Liberty, Chrsytal and that wild extremist Destiny and her slave 'desire' with whip scars on her cunt.  A wild crowd in Detroit's Hellfire West and the Loft.  I loved the stage at Hellfire.  Not quite the NYC scene you listed but it was a pretty large and lively crowd nonetheless.  


Hellfire Club in NYC was the only S&M club I ever liked. I did not go often to clubs back in the day, but Hellfire was the first one I felt comfortable in and the vibe was the great. The original one though, not the subsequent one.

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RE: Domination in the 1980's... - 9/22/2010 9:32:00 PM   
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It is truly a shame you do not get the same quality of people today as you did back then who were genuine seekers of more from humanity. Now you get wankers, abusers, users, social outcasts and those looking to just have kinky sex. Thank you internet for all that wonderful connectivity you brought us.


I always wonder what people mean when they state this. Do you honestly think humanity has changed just because of the internet? People are people, have been the same since Adam and Eve.

It is just easier now for people to express their ruder sides online as the anonymity shields them from view.

But don't kid yourself about the good old days....the one essential thing that never changes is the nature of people.

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RE: Domination in the 1980's... - 9/22/2010 11:10:17 PM   
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ORIGINAL: DeusEx1

It is truly a shame you do not get the same quality of people today as you did back then who were genuine seekers of more from humanity. Now you get wankers, abusers, users, social outcasts and those looking to just have kinky sex. Thank you internet for all that wonderful connectivity you brought us.


True. The scene stopped being cool after Gianni Versace was killed, in 1997. In the Gautier and Versace era, there was a close tie between high fashion and kink. That was fun while it lasted, but it's over.

The SF scene today, frankly, is loser city.

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RE: Domination in the 1980's... - 9/22/2010 11:15:03 PM   
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ORIGINAL: DeusEx1

It is truly a shame you do not get the same quality of people today as you did back then who were genuine seekers of more from humanity. Now you get wankers, abusers, users, social outcasts and those looking to just have kinky sex. Thank you internet for all that wonderful connectivity you brought us.


I always wonder what people mean when they state this. Do you honestly think humanity has changed just because of the internet? People are people, have been the same since Adam and Eve.

It is just easier now for people to express their ruder sides online as the anonymity shields them from view.

But don't kid yourself about the good old days....the one essential thing that never changes is the nature of people.


Selective memory is like selective hearing, except way more comforting.

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RE: Domination in the 1980's... - 9/23/2010 12:00:40 AM   
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I totally LOVED Hellfire!  *sad* that it isnt in the same space....

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RE: Domination in the 1980's... - 9/23/2010 5:11:16 AM   
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ORIGINAL: DommeKeliDallas

The days of the Hellfire Club, Club O, Belle De Jour, and many more...
Old Dommes who REALLY knew their stuff...
Like...
QUEEN ADRENA,CA
Wanda O'Brien, MO
Ann Murray, OK
Countess Ann, NV
Mistress Hildegard, NY
Mistress Vickie, GA

Do any of you OLD SCHOOL male submissives remember the Old GRANDE DOMMES and the good old days?

I would really like to know.
Thank you.


I sincerely appreciate your input.

There was more HUMAN contact "back in the day".

If you wanted to meeet for kink, you had to ACTUALLY SIT DOWN AND WRITE A LETTER...imagine that!

You had to put an ad in one of the "underground" papers and hope someone who was kinky would pay the $2.00 "forwarding fee" and find you.
They were more sincere, because there weren't millions and millions of people wanting to "explore."

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RE: Domination in the 1980's... - 9/23/2010 5:33:17 AM   
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ORIGINAL: DeusEx1

It is truly a shame you do not get the same quality of people today as you did back then who were genuine seekers of more from humanity. Now you get wankers, abusers, users, social outcasts and those looking to just have kinky sex. Thank you internet for all that wonderful connectivity you brought us.


Ah, the good old days, when pro-dommes charged a nickel for spankings and a quarter for a whipping.

And you walked five miles to and from the dungeon, uphill each way, in the snow.

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RE: Domination in the 1980's... - 9/23/2010 6:32:17 AM   
DeusEx1


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Status: offline 		Shhhh!! DommeKeliDallas!! You don't want to say that too loudly or you will offend the latest generation of kinksters like rulemylife who cannot comprehend what it is you are talking about! But can you imagine though? You had to actually *gasp* put some effort into meeting someone! People had more respect for one another and were actually willing to learn and you didn't get anywhere near the same level of abusers that you have today. I know, I know! Such hardships and you did not have to deal with nearly as many idiots because they quickly got screened out at the door! Yes, it was more difficult to connect with clubs, parties and other people but in such hardship was the fact that only those who were genuinely serious would find their way to where they needed to be.

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RE: Domination in the 1980's... - 9/23/2010 9:16:41 AM   
DommeKeliDallas


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ORIGINAL: DeusEx1

Shhhh!! DommeKeliDallas!! You don't want to say that too loudly or you will offend the latest generation of kinksters like rulemylife who cannot comprehend what it is you are talking about! But can you imagine though? You had to actually *gasp* put some effort into meeting someone! People had more respect for one another and were actually willing to learn and you didn't get anywhere near the same level of abusers that you have today. I know, I know! Such hardships and you did not have to deal with nearly as many idiots because they quickly got screened out at the door! Yes, it was more difficult to connect with clubs, parties and other people but in such hardship was the fact that only those who were genuinely serious would find their way to where they needed to be.


Thank you sincerely.
I long for those times...I really do.
It was all about being respectful,and respected, and enjoying someone who was willing to expose his core to you...without pretense.

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RE: Domination in the 1980's... - 9/23/2010 9:56:37 AM   
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Shhhh!! DommeKeliDallas!! You don't want to say that too loudly or you will offend the latest generation of kinksters like rulemylife who cannot comprehend what it is you are talking about! But can you imagine though? You had to actually *gasp* put some effort into meeting someone! People had more respect for one another and were actually willing to learn and you didn't get anywhere near the same level of abusers that you have today. I know, I know! Such hardships and you did not have to deal with nearly as many idiots because they quickly got screened out at the door! Yes, it was more difficult to connect with clubs, parties and other people but in such hardship was the fact that only those who were genuinely serious would find their way to where they needed to be.


LOL... sure... right. Back in the day we didn't have any of those things! ROFL! Many single men weren't allowed in because they were.. um single and it was the women that were in shorter supply, so we had to get rid of them. Then those who were let in were lecherous men with gold chains around their neck and a bit of hair hanging out of their opened shirts that thought they were gods gift to women with three strokes and your out kind of sex, who thought all women should spread um wide for some little cock.

No.. we didn't have any of the abusers... of course not!

We have as many puffed up hornies around then as we do now, its is just easier for them all to make their presence known because of computers. Yes we did have to write letters and arrange for calls... or go to parties... but there were as many creepy creeps then as there are now comparatively speaking. It is just easier for more to join in for a lot of reasons, not just online service, that doesn't mean there is more or less quality in those that are around. We also have more women who are as special as the forerunners of dominant women. Some women did break open ground for those that followed... but they aren't less just because they were not first. I wouldn't say I was one of them... but I sure know some who are as worthy. I also wouldn't claim to be something of their like just because one was a friend or I remembered them, especially if I came to the cheapened online source of CM and asked some of the stupidest questions that some have.

The quality hasn't changed, just the numbers.


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RE: Domination in the 1980's... - 9/23/2010 1:58:10 PM   
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Status: offline 		This thread is like saying that food tasted better when you were young. ....... of course it did - your taste buds were younger!

The good old days are never as good as remembered - there seems to be a lot of rewriting of history going on.  I remember the 80's - not in a bdsm way - and there were a lot of nights spent in a bar or pub, wanting to meet someone with no success. For me the internet has provided a marvelous way of meeting men wanting to date, and i've taken full advantage of it. The two men who are and have been my dominants were  men i would never have met in pre-internet days, and what a shame that would have been.

For that matter, the internet is how i discovered bdsm and threw myself into it, and i don't think that makes me a poser, a wanker or a wannabe.  It makes me real and lucky, and really lucky that the internet has allowed so many to connect with so little effort. Just because i can get my milk from a jug doesn't mean i don't appreciate it as much as if i had to milk the cow! Actually, it makes me appreciate the convenience more.

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RE: Domination in the 1980's... - 9/23/2010 7:22:23 PM   
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