DarklySubtle
Posts: 36
Joined: 7/19/2010 Status: offline
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I've been involved in online D/s, playing as a dominant, for several years. Not too long ago, another dominant more or less challenged me to take my playing offline, and the more I thought about it, the more I felt that he had a point and that that was what I wanted. So here I am, just starting to feel my way into real life D/s. But I have to admit that I'm wondering, just alittle. I certainly don't fit the theatrical stereotype of a growling, leather-clad, whip wielding sadist (no offense to the growling, leather-clad, whip wielding sadists on the board). I'm smart, kind, funny and generally soft-spoken, even in the midst of scenes. Also, I'm not into giving alot of pain. I'm really about psychological tension and control: taking my girls and making them... indecent. Think of the theater scene in "Interview With the Vampire", obviously minus the part where the girl becomes a snack. :) Obviously, the real answer to my question will be found in putting myself out there and meeting people. But I'm curious to get some experienced perspectives on how common, or not, this sort of take on D/s is. Do non-sadists get taken seriously? By the way, I've noticed that replies to threads like this often include critiques of the OP's profile. I'm certainly open to sincere comments about mine, either here or via PM.
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