nephandi
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Joined: 9/23/2005 From: Cold and magickal Norway in a town near Bergen! Status: offline
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Greetings Pain is not necessary for submission and I know of many who have D/s relationships which are not based on pain. Yes allot of us kinky folks like a bit of pain, however it is not necessary. Not liking pain do not make you any less of a submissive, it might narrow down your selection of potential Dominants, but there are allot of Dom's that are not into pain, so do not worry, you being submissive that is a part of you, it do not matter if you like pain with you sex or not. quote:
As you say Lady P. I don't know how I'll feel down the road but I'm 50... I don't have 20 years! No you have far more. Allot of people today are active well into their 90's and every year that limit keep being pushed back. You can have another 50 years or even more to be a submissive, and be happy about it. You have plenty of time left. I wish you well
< Message edited by nephandi -- 10/19/2010 4:32:27 AM >
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