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MistressRosalyn -> RE: What do it takes to become a pro domme? (10/21/2010 4:14:52 AM)
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VC, he may believe that he's being an asshole to me, but really, he's still just wanking little boy who wants to get attention. I do apologize to others for making them look at the clueless one against their will, but as you see, I just wished to use nickyboy as an object lesson, and he danced to my tune quite nicely, thank you.
Meanwhile, to get this back on track, GoddessEbony... first, as nickywhingeyboy has been so kind to demonstrate for us, there are countless men out there who have no interest in living a certain lifestyle, but they in their misguided sense of entitlement, want someone to spend their time on them fulfilling all of their fantasies, without having the courtesy to compensate them for that time spent. So after you have spent money on equipment, making a safe play space and buying a wardrobe, and time educating yourself, , etc., the whiners will complain that you insist upon being paid. They simply don't understand that if you wanted to do this for free, you would choose a sub or a slave to interact with on a personal level, not simply a do-me sub who gives nothing of himself.
It is entirely possible that there may be some female out there who would go for such a scenario, after all, there is someone for everyone in this world, or so they say. But if there were enough to go around, then ProDommes would not exist.
So you must be prepared for these attitudes, but in the end, it comes down to the old supply and demand issue. If you can supply something that meets a demand, then you may have a viable business. But it is very important that YOU do the legwork to learn the laws in your area, and protect yourself from accidentally crossing the line...don't depend on other people's information to base your whole venture on.
Educate yourself as far as you can, and when it comes time and you find a mentor who is willing to guide you, remember: her time is worth money too.
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