CynthiaWVirginia -> RE: Vaccines (10/25/2010 3:49:39 AM)
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ORIGINAL: DesFIP It isn't just children that are at risk. You know anybody whose undergone chemo in the last five years? Their odds of contracting a fatal illness is on a par with babies under three and over three months. Anybody with an immune system disorder who may be on immune system suppressants or large amounts of steroids? But you wouldn't know that they had it because the meds would be suppressing symptoms. You will discover this when it's your unvaccinated child that gives them pertussis. I think that killing someone by not letting your kid be vaccinated and still letting them wander around the community without telling parents in their class or playmates' parents would earn a major payoff from most juries. I am not against vaccines, they have their place. I don't agree with there being so many that must be given to young children whose immune system isn't even fully developed yet. My son had a reaction to the shots...fever, swelling up, and screaming for days. About the chemo. When I was having mine I had to fight with the RN at my oncologist's office...she was trying to put me beside someone with bronchitis and I refused. She insisted that it would be good for me and keep my immune system strong. I disagreed and dug my heels in and insisted on being given my chemo in another room, even the ruddy hallway. When I went out into public, I wore a germ mask and used hand sanitizer copiously, and didn't get into places like elevators with someone who was obviously ill. It is my responsibility to take care of myself. If I hadn't had my shots, before starting chemo I could have had them...regardless, there are still a lot of germs that can make someone ill that we will never have shots for. My neighbor went to dialysis for years and finally decided to go on the list to get a new kidney. The doctor explained to her in advance that she would have to be on immune suppressant drugs for the rest of her life so her body wouldn't reject the organ. This was when she should have had all of her shots, before getting the transplant, if she hadn't had them already. I am only talking about adults taking responsibility for their own actions, and not blaming unvaccinated children for everything. If either my son or I am ill, I do not visit with my neighbors, except over the phone, and I tell them why. I keep my germs to myself and expect friends to do the same. If a friend has the flu or bronchitis and visits me without my informed consent, then I will rip them a new ass. If I am aware of it but they need me to take them to the grocery store, they had better not be deceptive, then I will wear a germ mask if they are too selfconscious to wear one. I have taken my mother to the doctor or grocery shopping when she has been ill, but I also hand her one of my germ masks and hand sanitizer. When my son has been sick, I made him stay home and didn't let him wander around the community. Kids in public schools are germ factories...before my son was homeschooled we caught something once or twice per month. All the kids in school were vaccinated...and it's funny, but a girl in my class when I was in junior high...she had been vaccinated...but caught scarlet fever. I had had a teacher at college who had eaten that sugar cube with the polio vaccine...but somehow he had caught polio. Sometimes there are bad batches of shots, or else something just gets snafu'd and we don't know why. If an adult does not get vaccinated and catches the disease...I cannot see how logical it is to sue an unvaccinated child; if the adult had been vaccinated then whether or not the child had a disease would have made no difference. This talk reminded me to see that my son gets his tetanus booster...and yes, I agree about some of the vaccines like diptheria, tetanus, and polio. Some I think should be optional up to a certain age, like mumps. I would definitely have wanted my son to have this before puberty as it could leave him sterile if he caught mumps afterward. It's funny, but in my parent's time, if a kid got sick with some disease like mumps or chicken pox, other kids were brought to visit to infect them and get it over with. The immunity lasted for a lifetime, guaranteed. I was one of those kids herded into see a friend with chicken pox. I dearly wanted to catch it so I could get out of school for a few weeks. Btw, I was not living at home at that time, but in an institution. This was not some crazy parent trying to give me chicken pox...anyway, for some reason I didn't catch it...but I caught a mild version of it (smaller bubbles) when I was 28. When I lived in California and was staying at some shelter, someone had Measles, so the health department came roaring in and rounded up everyone and forced us all to have rubella shots. I didn't have my old shot record so I had to get them again. I'm okay with that. I just wish someone had told me it could give my baby autism if I got pregnant within weeks afterward. It wasn't fair for the school kids to get shots because they had to have shots to be in public school. Btw, our family moved almost every year and my records usually were lost...I cannot tell you how many blessed times I had to have my "school shots" again and again. And it gets better...I was in a long line of children and one year the guy used the same "gun" on all of us. Same needle for all of us and it was not sterilized in between. Ick. ************** Now to comment on anjelica's post. :) quote:
However, to be fair to the caregivers, it may be possible that since they were adults their doctors dropped the ball on determining their vaccination status and didn't discuss it with them. How many of us have been told by our physicians that a diptheria booster is a good idea? When I worked as a home health-care giver I had to argue with my physician to give me an MMR booster when there had been a massive college outbreak of measles among previously vaccinated kids. As it turned out the vaccine they were given was at fault. I was working with children periodically and did not want to take that risk. angelica, I heard rumors from other adults that they had known people who caught diseases they had shots for, and so when my son had to go to special ed, early intervention, I asked my doctor for booster shots for me. I didn't want to catch anything from all that contact with children. He laughed in my face and refused, saying this immunity lasted for a lifetime. I was bent out of shape at him, because this is my body that I am responsible for, and if I want to feel secure that my vaccinations took then I should be able to pay for it myself if my insurance wouldn't cover it. As long as taking them again wouldn't somehow damage my health...and unlike my son, I have never had a bad reaction to shots. I still haven't had any new shots except for tetanus and that rubella shot I had to have at the shelter. None of my doctors here have ever mentioned that it's a good idea to get a diptheria booster, but I will ask. I also wonder about that new shot they are giving only to young women, to prevent them from getting cervical cancer. A friend of mine had that disease and got cancer from it and I had to help her through her chemo and radiation. If they "think" most of us in our thirties and fourties have been exposed to it and already have a nautral immunity, why not let us be tested and get the shot if we have no immunity? I don't know the right words to use to a doctor to bring this up, and I sometimes get weary of being patted on the head like I am some child and then told no. Nobody offered me that chicken pox vaccine either...I had hitched a ride to WIC and the woman and her daughter, but she commented that normally there would be no room in the car, except her younger children were at home with chicken pox. Do you know how ridiculous it was to be 28 and have chicken pox when I couldn't catch it when I was in second grade no matter how hard I tried? LOL. ************* Now I'm talking just to throw in my two cents, not to anyone in particular. One of the times when I had to start chemo, I went to my family doctor and demanded a flu shot and a pneumonia shot before starting my treatments...and she gave them to me. I took responsibility for my health. I am in remission these past few years and I do not take flu shots anymore...my immune system is okay and I get sick only once every year or two in spite of my son's best friend who goes to public school and is a germ facory. If a woman is pregnant and hasn't had any rubella shots, then she needs to avoid children and wear a germ mask when she cannot. If someone is a health care worker or in the armed forces, then I believe in vaccinations to help keep them safe. At the same time, I think most of the shots for little kids can be put off until they start daycare or start attending school. This is just my own opinion and it doesn't bother me if others disagree or try to call me an idiot. [:D]
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