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RE: A "hint" for Doms looking for subs... - 8/20/2007 7:53:19 PM   
MidMichCowboy


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OK, I had a bad day; it was really a Monday at work. I had to go play in the mud to give a bunch of horses some shots. But, this got me laughing and made the day all right.  I love those who take themselves so seriously. I love to lead the on and watch them strut and puff around. Of course, if they would read my profile and journal, they would realize that I’m full of shit. But, I’m safe. They would have to read more than 5 sentences in a paragraph (and a few big words thrown in).

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RE: A "hint" for Doms looking for subs... - 8/21/2007 1:30:02 AM   
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Just finished, up to 21 pages, and what fun!!!  I needed a good laugh this evening/morning. 

One of my pet peeves:  You are a Dominant if you dominate a sub.  Dominant being a noun (person, place, or thing), dominate being a verb (action word).  I don't submit to a dominate.  Actually, I don't talk with them either. 

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RE: A "hint" for Doms looking for subs... - 8/21/2007 3:45:28 AM   
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ORIGINAL: SirDarkside357

Ok, what do ya do when your ugly and not a person anyone would care to know?


You create a clever screen name like DS4DUMMIES and hope no one ever asks for your picture.....

DS4

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RE: A "hint" for Doms looking for subs... - 8/21/2007 5:50:41 AM   
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Read the fecking PROFILE stupid! If it has "Owned by *****" at the top then she isn't looking for a new Master and her actual Master is just going to block your lame ass if she hasn't already done so (Rather depends which checks memos next really).

Also.....

"hi" doesn't constitute a conversation, TXT SPK isn't a language and the 'kneel bitch' routeen only outs you as a gimp who hasn't been allowed to set foot out of your mom's basement without adult supervision!


< Message edited by RavenMuse -- 8/21/2007 5:53:26 AM >


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RE: A "hint" for Doms looking for subs... - 12/9/2007 9:59:00 AM   
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since i've seen and heard this one alot i'll add it.  it is not nessecary to be rude and mean to someone you've never met , to establish the fact that you're a dom.  i know some find it hard to believe but it is actually possible to be polite, caring, and respectfull and be the one in charge

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RE: A "hint" for Doms looking for subs... - 12/9/2007 10:33:38 AM   
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LOL this is a great thread and I am glad to see it bumped up

I think I will be attaching as a reply to some of my emails


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RE: A "hint" for Doms looking for subs... - 12/9/2007 11:47:24 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: MidMichCowboy

. Of course, if they would read my profile and journal, they would realize that I’m full of shit. But, I’m safe. They would have to read more than 5 sentences in a paragraph (and a few big words thrown in).


Personally I love a dom with a sense of humour 8-)



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RE: A "hint" for Doms looking for subs... - 12/9/2007 12:50:45 PM   
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If looking for a sub doesn't work, try looking for a friend.

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RE: A "hint" for Doms looking for subs... - 12/9/2007 1:24:50 PM   
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When a guy contacts me and asks me to tell him more about myself because he wants to 'get to know me', it makes me groan. My journal is jam packed with stuff about me and I really dont feel like repeating myself for some lone random stranger. He can join in with the other random strangers and read it in my journal if he wants to.

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RE: A "hint" for Doms looking for subs... - 12/9/2007 1:34:08 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: heartcream

When a guy contacts me and asks me to tell him more about myself because he wants to 'get to know me', it makes me groan. My journal is jam packed with stuff about me and I really dont feel like repeating myself for some lone random stranger. He can join in with the other random strangers and read it in my journal if he wants to.


Well... this is a different twist.  If you get disgusted with a man for asking you to tell him more about you because he would like to get to know you, then what is it he could say that you would respond to?
 
Most I see on here are looking for exactly what seems to annoy you.  Someone who expresses an interest up front about getting to know them better instead of just demanding "submission".
 
So please tell me.... what would an initial email to you have to consist of to be considered polite and worth responding to?

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RE: A "hint" for Doms looking for subs... - 12/9/2007 1:40:10 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: heartcream

When a guy contacts me and asks me to tell him more about myself because he wants to 'get to know me', it makes me groan. My journal is jam packed with stuff about me and I really dont feel like repeating myself for some lone random stranger. He can join in with the other random strangers and read it in my journal if he wants to.


I know, I understand. Getting to know someone new os sooo hard work. Why bother? They're only strangers after all. Nobody really that important.

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RE: A "hint" for Doms looking for subs... - 12/9/2007 3:30:16 PM   
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ORIGINAL: knotnilla

Don't tell me you are flying down to meet me because I am a bad, bad girl before you even know me.


You are a bad, bad girl.

(Pick me up in front of Terminal 8 at 7:30 p.m. on Tuesday).

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RE: A "hint" for Doms looking for subs... - 12/9/2007 5:58:37 PM   
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A hint for Dommes?

Try NOT being a total fake. Hell what a start that would be.


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RE: A "hint" for Doms looking for subs... - 12/9/2007 6:17:28 PM   
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Considering some of the bizarre and desperate messages I get from male subs on this site, I'm pretty sure I'd get a decent return rate if I started sending out messages to random subs that said: "YOU MAY WORSHIP ME NOW." I could even forget about the grammar and spelling: "ur cute. Cum service ur new mistress."

I'd be rolling in subbie boys. Crazy ones, but hey, as long as they're all covered in jello, it's all good.

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RE: A "hint" for Doms looking for subs... - 12/9/2007 7:48:57 PM   
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dont tell me how much i'll like your male dog..

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RE: A "hint" for Doms looking for subs... - 12/9/2007 8:13:38 PM   
txnights05


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Don't ask me what i am looking for... my profile is rather explicit.
Don't ask me to "touch myself" in an IM... how would you know anyway.
No, i shouldn't be on my knees when chatting with you... don't ask me to do so.
Don't email me with "How r u?... i won't respond.
Don't ask me for nude photos... you won't get any.
Check your ID... I am 51, not looking for someone i could have birthed.

It is late and i am tired or i'm sure i could remember more...

pam



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RE: A "hint" for Doms looking for subs... - 12/9/2007 9:24:15 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: MystressDream

quote:

ORIGINAL: heartcream

When a guy contacts me and asks me to tell him more about myself because he wants to 'get to know me', it makes me groan. My journal is jam packed with stuff about me and I really dont feel like repeating myself for some lone random stranger. He can join in with the other random strangers and read it in my journal if he wants to.


Well... this is a different twist.  If you get disgusted with a man for asking you to tell him more about you because he would like to get to know you, then what is it he could say that you would respond to?
 
Most I see on here are looking for exactly what seems to annoy you.  Someone who expresses an interest up front about getting to know them better instead of just demanding "submission".
 
So please tell me.... what would an initial email to you have to consist of to be considered polite and worth responding to?


Honestly, i totally understand what she's saying.  No disrespect intended to you, MD, but did you view her profile?  She's got PAGES of information should anyone *truly* want to know something about her.  mine is not quite as extensive, but i get the same line all the time:  "Tell me something about you..."  And by the way, this usually comes from someone with absolutely ZERO on their profile.  Why don't they just ask a few *specific* questions if they *really* want to know something?  That way, i can tell within seconds whether they bothered to read my profile or journal, at all.

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RE: A "hint" for Doms looking for subs... - 12/9/2007 9:55:34 PM   
MystressDream


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quote:

ORIGINAL: shellzbythesea

quote:

ORIGINAL: MystressDream

quote:

ORIGINAL: heartcream

When a guy contacts me and asks me to tell him more about myself because he wants to 'get to know me', it makes me groan. My journal is jam packed with stuff about me and I really dont feel like repeating myself for some lone random stranger. He can join in with the other random strangers and read it in my journal if he wants to.


Well... this is a different twist.  If you get disgusted with a man for asking you to tell him more about you because he would like to get to know you, then what is it he could say that you would respond to?
 
Most I see on here are looking for exactly what seems to annoy you.  Someone who expresses an interest up front about getting to know them better instead of just demanding "submission".
 
So please tell me.... what would an initial email to you have to consist of to be considered polite and worth responding to?


Honestly, i totally understand what she's saying.  No disrespect intended to you, MD, but did you view her profile?  She's got PAGES of information should anyone *truly* want to know something about her.  mine is not quite as extensive, but i get the same line all the time:  "Tell me something about you..."  And by the way, this usually comes from someone with absolutely ZERO on their profile.  Why don't they just ask a few *specific* questions if they *really* want to know something?  That way, i can tell within seconds whether they bothered to read my profile or journal, at all.


I read profiles of those who contact me.  However, I will still ask them about themselves if I am interested in pursuing any possibilities with them.  Now, I am being told that is also rude???  How in the hell do you propose someone start a conversation?  Read a book about the person and start debating or discussing things there?  Well, you know what?  If I approach a sub or slave with a friendly greeting, and I get slammed for asking the wrong questions in that greeting, then to hell with them.  It doesn't much matter.  Most who will engage in conversation just flake out without a word anyway.  Am I rather negative about online contacts?  Yes, I am.  I know there are many on these boards who have established beautiful relationships that started on here, and I am very happy for them.  But, the vast majority whine about not finding that special "One", as they proceed to build more and more barriers towards that "One" from even starting a dialog with them.
 
I don't know.  I guess I just give up on figuring out what people on here want or how they want it, or how it should be said, or how it shouldn't be said, or exactly what words to use to not bring down the wrath of the almighty flamers, or how to show respect, or how to show interest, or how to express and opinion without people taking it as a personal attack, or how to believe anything anyone says in emails, or anything else for that matter.  If I have to work that hard just to start an email exchange, then I shudder to think how complicated carrying on a conversation in person would be.
 
Even as a Female Dominant... (and, of course everyone knows we have to beat the high quality subs/slaves away from our door with baseball bats) I give up on how to establish any kind of relationship on here.  Too many conflicting principals.  Too many mixed messages.  Too many game players.  Too many whining about not meeting someone.... yet so deceptive and/or disrespectful that I don't understand how they can expect anything good to come out of this.
 
I will continue to look at the MB just for kicks, and because occasionally there is an interesting thread to read.  But, I give up on the other side of this site, and on trying to understand where some submissive/slaves are coming from.
 
Before the flame war commences, there ARE some really intelligent, mature and knowledgeable people on here... in all age groups and genders.
 
::: climbing off my soapbox and sitting back to watch the flaming begin :::

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RE: A "hint" for Doms looking for subs... - 12/9/2007 11:00:34 PM   
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one for a self called Dom be Master of one self first before trying to control others or you will come out like an idiot 2nd as a Dom/Master you have no rights till a submissive gives you them so keep that in mind, you are nothing until they make you such ^-^ I know this might come as a surprise to you so take a breather LoL if all you want is to take quit looking for a submissive and go gorean LOL^-^ Age means nothing, wisdom means everything, you don't have to be old to have great wisdom but you can be old and have very little in the way of wisdom. True Doms/Masters are born not made as are True submissive. You can play at either one but it does not mean a thing one way or the other unless you honestly feel it in your soul.  bondage games are fun, but this lifestyle is a choice and not for everyone.  it takes someone special to understand that submission is a gift given freely as is Dommination, it is all a give and take and one that requires a great deal of trust on both sides or it falls apart rather fast.

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RE: A "hint" for Doms looking for subs... - 12/9/2007 11:23:14 PM   
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Dream.... You'll get no flaming from me... I certainly agree with your sentiments on the subject.

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