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81song -> You've seen one, you'll seem they all (11/22/2010 9:08:11 AM)

This goes out to the women on the board…. I have heard more then once women saying, ah those cock pictures just does not do it for me or something like that. My question is, do most of you women feel that way? From a man’s point of view if I have seen one women's sweet spot I am curious to see another because they are all very different and yes I enjoy looking at them, playing with them and so on, it . So again ladies your thoughts.




anniezz338 -> RE: You've seen one, you'll seem they all (11/22/2010 9:22:42 AM)

I like them. Some men have beautiful cocks. Some I look at for the wow factor...lol

But, if I'm reading a profile, with pics, I'm hoping for other pics besides just that. But I don't mind a dick pic in the mix.




petmonkey -> RE: You've seen one, you'll seem they all (11/22/2010 9:24:31 AM)

It isn't so much a matter of "seen one, seen 'em all" or total disinterest in viewing genitalia. For me, it's a matter of simply not feeling particularly curious about what's inside the pants or under the skirt until after i've gotten to know a bit about what's inside their head or under their chest (in their heart).  If i want genitalia first and foremost, i look for a purely porn site rather than one designed to make human connections, is all.




wandersalone -> RE: You've seen one, you'll seem they all (11/22/2010 9:25:02 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: 81song

My question is, do most of you women feel that way?

I do




LadyRian -> RE: You've seen one, you'll seem they all (11/22/2010 9:25:26 AM)

I don't like them sent to me unsolicited.

But I do enjoy looking at the ones I choose to look at, when I choose to look at them.






LadyHibiscus -> RE: You've seen one, you'll seem they all (11/22/2010 9:32:40 AM)

I have no interest in the genitalia of strangers. I really don't care to see my friends', unless we have that sort of relationship--and not until then, thanks.

I appreciate physical beauty, but disconnected body parts? No.




LadyPact -> RE: You've seen one, you'll seem they all (11/22/2010 9:45:34 AM)

Yes, I feel that way.  I don't have any interest in looking at some random guy's cock. 

For a long time, I used to put this joke up in regard to the situation:

I really don't need to see your cock before I meet you face to face.  It's not like I'm going to walk into a coffee shop to meet you for the first time and start pulling down the pants of everyone in the establishment to try to recognize you.




81song -> RE: You've seen one, you'll seem they all (11/22/2010 9:56:53 AM)

Lady Pact very true and again I somehow found that funny too. Maybe from a guy's point of view we want the world to see... I don't know.
Interesting points of view.




myotherself -> RE: You've seen one, you'll seem they all (11/22/2010 9:59:01 AM)

I am supremely disinterested in seeing a guy's cock unless it's attached to someone I'm planning on shagging.

If a guy sends me a pic of his cock, I'll assume it's the best-looking and most intelligent part of him and pass him by. Seeing them as part of a profile makes me think the person is after sex only, and nothing more than that, so I pass him by.

Cock shots are a great filter! [:D]




LadyPact -> RE: You've seen one, you'll seem they all (11/22/2010 10:01:37 AM)

I'm glad it made you laugh.

The key to this is, the points of view are different.  The other joke that I've been known to tell is that the real motivator for digital picture technology today was some guy who wanted to show off his dick to the world (even though the world didn't want to see it).

The great thing about this is that the site will allow women to report such shots and they aren't permitted to be someone's main profile pic.




81song -> RE: You've seen one, you'll seem they all (11/22/2010 10:39:02 AM)

I was just wondering how from a women s point of view. Like the question that I posted about women watching two men together. I think at times us guys find it hard to step out of ourselves. The thing is at least of the Dommes I have met in real is how they can show me to do that step outside of one's self and letting go.




RedMagic1 -> RE: You've seen one, you'll seem they all (11/22/2010 11:29:02 AM)

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LadyPact -> RE: You've seen one, you'll seem they all (11/22/2010 11:32:59 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: 81song

I was just wondering how from a women s point of view. Like the question that I posted about women watching two men together. I think at times us guys find it hard to step out of ourselves. The thing is at least of the Dommes I have met in real is how they can show me to do that step outside of one's self and letting go.

The scenario that you're talking about above is completely different than a cock pic.  You're talking about people who have agreed to participate/witness a certain set up.  Big difference.




Lockit -> RE: You've seen one, you'll seem they all (11/22/2010 11:39:14 AM)

I want to know his name before I see his cock... but after that... I love seeing a cock that I'm involved with. 




crazyml -> RE: You've seen one, you'll seem they all (11/22/2010 11:56:31 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus
but disconnected body parts? No.


Disconnected? Not as in... severed, surely (gulp)




playfulotter -> RE: You've seen one, you'll seem they all (11/22/2010 12:06:18 PM)

My take on cock shots on profiles is...put as many on your profile as pleases you just don't expect to be taken seriously by most women. I think the men posing as women on here will enjoy those photos the most.




dreamerdreaming -> RE: You've seen one, you'll seem they all (11/22/2010 12:26:31 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: petmonkey

It isn't so much a matter of "seen one, seen 'em all" or total disinterest in viewing genitalia. For me, it's a matter of simply not feeling particularly curious about what's inside the pants or under the skirt until after i've gotten to know a bit about what's inside their head or under their chest (in their heart).  If i want genitalia first and foremost, i look for a purely porn site rather than one designed to make human connections, is all.



THIS!

And what myotherself said.

If I wanted porn, I'd go to a porn site. When I want to talk to someone interesting on here, a cock shot has nothing to do with what I'm interested in discussing, or learning about him. And a cock shot will show me that he has no understanding of this, or that if he does- he doesn't care.

In short: a cock shot from someone I'm not involved with on a deeper level, is innapropriate and unwanted. And his demonstration of his lack of understanding of this fairly common viewpoint among women, is basically the equivalent of him writing "I'm alarmingly clueless" across his forehead- and expecting to attract women that way.





subkatslut -> RE: You've seen one, you'll seem they all (11/22/2010 12:32:52 PM)

I don't mind seeing what a guy is packing...if it's even his is more the question.

As for enjoying looking at them or seeing them. They aren't that pretty to look at in pics or even in real life. It's what you do with them that I like.




Lockit -> RE: You've seen one, you'll seem they all (11/22/2010 12:52:34 PM)

I've seen some beautiful cocks! Some I just love to love, but even beautiful, I don't want to see them until I'm ready to see it.




LadyPact -> RE: You've seen one, you'll seem they all (11/22/2010 1:18:44 PM)

Anybody else having the effect that this thread and the subject of cock shots is just reminding them of the Jo Koy comedy routine?


"Look at My Ting Ting!"




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