RedMagic1
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ORIGINAL: DesFIP But why does Mr Awesome want a sub who isn't already as awesome as he is? So because you're a sub you're allowed to be lazy and not focused on being the best you can be? Why does he have to waste his time trying to force you to do the right thing instead of finding someone who is committed to being at her best so she matches him? Thank you, Des. I've seen this attitude quite a bit, and I have come to believe it's held by women who have no understanding of how common being submissive really is. The attitude is basically, "I have all these things wrong with me, but I am a sub/slave, so if you are a strong enough dominant you can fix me and we'll be happy forever after." As if being willing to sub is some sort of golden treasure (or gift) that outshines everything else. Well, frankly, every woman I have ever been serious about, vanilla or otherwise, submitted to me in certain ways. It's not that hard to find women who have their shit together who enjoy a man who is strong. In fact, my single female friends most often complain to me that men tend to be too afraid to take charge when dating, or are assholes. A non-asshole dominant man is a rare find, even in vanilla. Going the other way, men eventually meet that skinny gym chick who is batshit crazy, and the fat girl who is supernice and great in bed. I don't think it takes long for most guys to figure out that they'd rather have a food-loving nympho than a neurotic biatch. Thing is, the OP of this thread has no experience other than reading forum posts. It is physically impossible for you to change her mind, about anything, because it is literally all in her head.
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Not with envy, not with a twisted heart, shall you feel superior, or go about boasting. Rather in goodness by action make true your song and your word. Thus you shall be highly regarded, and able to live in peace with all others. - 15th century Aztec
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