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Kind Sirs, what Are Your favorite ways to be served? - 12/2/2010 8:25:11 PM

Xiansjade

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Kindest gentle Sirs, this slave humbly begs You to share Your favorite slave acts. i would like to learn, so that i might greater please my Master, and give to Him more, i have given what i have, and it seems inadequate.

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RE: Kind Sirs, what Are Your favorite ways to be served? - 12/2/2010 8:29:25 PM

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why not just ask your Master? Everyone who responds is going to give a different answer on what they like. The only way you can better serve is to pay attention to your Master, not the ones who answer here. YOu could come to find out your Master doesn't enjoy a single thing that is answered here and all because you couldn't just ask him.

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RE: Kind Sirs, what Are Your favorite ways to be served? - 12/2/2010 8:43:23 PM

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why not just ask your Master? Everyone who responds is going to give a different answer on what they like. The only way you can better serve is to pay attention to your Master, not the ones who answer here. YOu could come to find out your Master doesn't enjoy a single thing that is answered here and all because you couldn't just ask him.

i have asked Master Xian, and He has had me perform every act He and i could think of. He wants me to think of more and surprise Him and has said i may ask for ideas. He may hate all of the ideas, it is true, but how shall W/we know unless ideas are shared? Forgive me if i have done wrong.

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RE: Kind Sirs, what Are Your favorite ways to be served? - 12/2/2010 9:08:49 PM

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ORIGINAL: Xiansjade

Kindest gentle Sirs, this slave humbly begs You to share Your favorite slave acts. i would like to learn, so that i might greater please my Master, and give to Him more, i have given what i have, and it seems inadequate.

What I understand you to be asking is how to be mastered and become the slave you desire to become by way of learning what pleases other men, so you can then offer the desires of other men within your servitude unto your Master because he has told you to think of what pleases him by asking unknown men on the Internet?

The only man capable of truly enslaving you fully or rather making progress toward enslaving you wholly and totally, by way of proceeding slowly and steadily, thus mastering the slave on the inside amidst the internal realms of your subservient heart, is the man you willingly and factually bow your slave self unto.

Take care!

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RE: Kind Sirs, what Are Your favorite ways to be served? - 12/2/2010 9:24:42 PM

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I heard there's this trick a woman can do with a golf ball that men find rather fascinating, although I imagine it takes lots of practice to 'spit' one out at any great distance.

Then there's the ability to deep throat a zuchinni. I'm not advocating this one, I mean, there's the obvious choking hazard, but the concept of being able to gobble the goods is usually well received.

ETA: Sorry, I know you were asking for advice from da men folk...didn't realize I'd strayed into the Ask a Master section.

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RE: Kind Sirs, what Are Your favorite ways to be served? - 12/2/2010 10:15:54 PM

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Master Xian Owns me fully, i was just hoping You could offer tips on what other actions please You, so i might see if He will enjoy them too. i had considered it like asking for P/people to share their favorite recipes. W/we might hate, say, raw oysters with green onion oil, but You might love it. W/we might love it too, but how will W/we know if W/we don't know it exists?

i don't wish to cause trouble, so please forgive this ignorant slut and consider this thread closed. i am truly sorry for creating such anger.

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RE: Kind Sirs, what Are Your favorite ways to be served? - 12/2/2010 10:26:36 PM

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Kindest gentle Sirs, this slave humbly begs You to share Your favorite slave acts. i would like to learn, so that i might greater please my Master, and give to Him more, i have given what i have, and it seems inadequate.

Valyraen likes to be given gummi bears randomly.

Maybe you should ask, or beg, him to tell you what his favorite ways are?

ETA - Since it seems he has run out of ideas, have you tried this: Think of how it would turn you on and make you happy to serve him? While this may sound topsy-turvy to a power dynamic, Valyraen loves seeing me aroused and that spark "YAY!" in my eyes. So read some erotica, maybe a bodice ripper or two take a bubble bath and see what gets you going. Can't be any worse than asking random folks on a message board!

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RE: Kind Sirs, what Are Your favorite ways to be served? - 12/2/2010 10:32:37 PM

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The sexiest thing that I can do for Master is total obedience. He even has it on my computer's screen saver: "OBEDIENCE IS SEXY".

Granted I doubt that's the kind of answer you're looking for, since it seems you're good at that and are looking for extra ideas to try.

It could be that he wants "proactive" obedience too - which some Doms/Masters tend to find enticing (like my own) where you try to figure out what he wants before he asks for it, and surprise him by being proactive in your service rather than reactive. (i.e. instead of him asking you to massage his feet, YOU come up to him and ask he if he wants his feet massaged) Surprises with breakfast, gifts of extra little chores being done that you didn't need to do, a little card being given telling him what a good Master he is, asking for play rather than waiting for him to decide when to.
Some Doms will consider these things "topping from the bottom" at times apparently (I'll never wholly understand why, as the only thing I can think of when I do these things is how to please him more), so you may want to talk with him and see if he wants you to become more proactive in your services for him. Though it does sound like he's insinuating that it is what he wants, from what I have read on the thread.

And I don't think you've upset anybody =)

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RE: Kind Sirs, what Are Your favorite ways to be served? - 12/2/2010 10:36:53 PM

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ORIGINAL: Xiansjade
i don't wish to cause trouble, so please forgive this ignorant slut and consider this thread closed. i am truly sorry for creating such anger.

Not angry at all, my sense of humor is just weird, and I should have just kept it to mysellf. I apologize for any impression of anger I might have unwittingly implied.

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RE: Kind Sirs, what Are Your favorite ways to be served? - 12/3/2010 2:18:05 AM

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Wow, y'all shut the poor girl down. Well, if you read this thread again...

Don't be afraid to repeat yourself, OP. Even originality gets old after a while. The best plan is to find a few good tricks and milk them for all they're worth.

One of *my* tricks is something I call a 'roman shower'. Tie the girl to the showerhead and run it hot and cold. Or just position her under the stream, whilst fucking/sucking, and randomly turn the dials. Or hold her there by the hair, etc., etc.... Thing is, I do this to myself voluntarily sometimes, because it's good for the skin. So I'll get under the stream too with 'If I can take it so can you, girl! Show me what you've got!' sometimes.

You would think being freezing cold would dry the subbie up; not so... don't even need to

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RE: Kind Sirs, what Are Your favorite ways to be served? - 12/3/2010 2:46:58 AM

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take a cooking class
learn to give a massage
make him a quilt
write him a story
put together a play c.d. of good music
rent a sexy video and practice various scenes
give a dramatic reading
change the oil in his car
plant and care for a lilac bush
take a pottery class and make him a coffee mug
learn several ways to tie a tie
make home made ice cream
get him tickets to his favorite team - learn about it and accompany him
beat his pants off at poker
prepare and serve a traditional Victorian meal
paint a picture for him
have discreet yet erotic photos of you taken
donate to his favorite charity - time, talent, and money
laugh at his jokes

... just off the top of my head...

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RE: Kind Sirs, what Are Your favorite ways to be served? - 12/3/2010 2:50:14 AM

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On a bed of rice.

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RE: Kind Sirs, what Are Your favorite ways to be served? - 12/3/2010 3:03:04 AM

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hard to say when we dont know what you do now. also what one likes nother may not. i would read as much as you can and see whats out there. my main protocal is probably all you are doing now as its fairly basic.

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RE: Kind Sirs, what Are Your favorite ways to be served? - 12/3/2010 5:52:44 AM

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The very best way to serve me is to NEVER start the subject of my quitting smoking or how bad it is to my health. This is a non negotiable subject and believe me smoking is far less likely to kill me directly or indirectly than me being shot or blown up and I am a much more tolerable and nicer person when I have a Cuban cigar or my pipe in my mouth.

Having said that, I love and train female slaves to serve me refreshments in a manner more suitable to Gorean role play. It pleases me to find my short black coffee cup being filled without my asking and my bare shoulders, neck or back massaged when I is apparent I am stiff or in some form of discomfort. For me service isn't just doing things to please me but is also the way it is done, the demeanor and attitude. Politeness and good manners will always be found pleasing as will unsolicited cock and ball stroking, licking and sucking. Understanding the protocols we have in place is basic training for us..

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RE: Kind Sirs, what Are Your favorite ways to be served? - 12/3/2010 6:22:39 AM

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ORIGINAL: Xiansjade

Master Xian Owns me fully, i was just hoping You could offer tips on what other actions please You, so i might see if He will enjoy them too. i had considered it like asking for P/people to share their favorite recipes. W/we might hate, say, raw oysters with green onion oil, but You might love it. W/we might love it too, but how will W/we know if W/we don't know it exists?

i don't wish to cause trouble, so please forgive this ignorant slut and consider this thread closed. i am truly sorry for creating such anger.

Not your fault. I get the idea, you and your Master are just looking for fresh perspectives and ideas. The problem is that the answer to the question is an intensely personal thing. You would likely be absolutely amazed at how mundane the things people actually do sound when they are written down. A blowjob here, a massage there a little pridicament bondage the other place and you pretty much have run the gauntlet. It isn't, at least, for me it isn't the what so much as it is the emotions and connection that runs betwixt us when we do it. A spanking is more than a spanking. A direction to wear an artricle of clothing or to perform a given act is more than it seems on the surface, rather it is an opportunity to share the relationship dynamic that bonds us together, ie. D/s.

So, I really don't have any more of a "wish-list" of things I do that are likely any different from yours. It is simply a matter, again for me and mine, of perfecting the mental bond that already exists. Of course, in so doing, each thing we do becomes just a little more intense... she draws more domionance from me as I draw yet more obedience from her. Again, it isn't the what... but the how, why and, perhaps, when.

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RE: Kind Sirs, what Are Your favorite ways to be served? - 12/3/2010 6:35:07 AM

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Google the phrase "lingam massage."

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RE: Kind Sirs, what Are Your favorite ways to be served? - 12/3/2010 7:27:53 AM

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Red can make anything naughty sound intellectual. Love that man.

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RE: Kind Sirs, what Are Your favorite ways to be served? - 12/3/2010 8:14:23 AM

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Google the phrase "lingam massage."

My former master loved those. Also, get a book on reflexology and ask to practice on him. Finding a hot rocks kit and learning how to give a great massage were probably the best things I ever learned to do for him. Doesnt hurt that it makes the new girlfriend happy too.

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RE: Kind Sirs, what Are Your favorite ways to be served? - 12/3/2010 8:44:21 AM

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ORIGINAL: DMFParadox
One of *my* tricks is something I call a 'roman shower'. Tie the girl to the showerhead and run it hot and cold. Or just position her under the stream, whilst fucking/sucking, and randomly turn the dials. Or hold her there by the hair, etc., etc.... Thing is, I do this to myself voluntarily sometimes, because it's good for the skin. So I'll get under the stream too with 'If I can take it so can you, girl! Show me what you've got!' sometimes.

Oh, so that's what a roman shower is. I always thought it was some really horrible dirty thing that I had to avoid looking up for fear of being scarred for life

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RE: Kind Sirs, what Are Your favorite ways to be served? - 12/3/2010 11:00:27 AM

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ORIGINAL: jujubeeMB
Oh, so that's what a roman shower is. I always thought it was some really horrible dirty thing that I had to avoid looking up for fear of being scarred for life

A serious attempt at a thread on the topic, necro'ed just for you. http://www.collarchat.com/m_1927041/mpage_1/tm.htm

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