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Lockit -> RE: Masters please help. Training fresh young sub-wannabe (12/14/2010 1:42:10 PM)
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Hello everyone. I am a dom/master man and have been enjoying this life style with sub and slave women for a couple of years. All of them where pretty pre-educated or experienced. It was fun but not long term.
You have been enjoying this lifestyle with a sub/slave women for a couple of years. They were pre-educated or experienced, which meant you didn’t have to ‘educate’ anyone from start to finish and had a couple to a few in a few years. Your term pre-educated is something I related to as you were going on the work of another and setting a stage that another dominant built. You are not a stage builder, but a stage stander, shouting out to the world, you are all these things, your story doesn’t quite back up. Had you any experience in these few years, you would see that your experience brought you to a place where you are still clueless and still depending on other stage builders.
She is 19 and virgin. Never had a boyfriend and openly asked me to show her the way and teach her to be my sub. We agreed to keep our new relationship on online-chatting (and on the phones) until she feels safe and comfortable enough to meet in person (after my permission of course). We have been together for a few weeks now doing Q&As and she is very obedient so far in committing to our chatting on time and answering all my questions.
Now this is where it gets interesting to me. Not that you are waiting to meet and letting her feel comfortable, because each situation is different and sometimes I will take a while before I will meet someone. What I find interesting is the comment you made stating that you would meet (after my permission of course) as if you needed to impress us with the fact that you were all domly and were doing things as you should, to be respected by us with your ability to give permission and call the shots. What you intended to build respect actually took you to the pit of hell of us knowing you don’t know shit and are acting as if you do.
Now I need your help of how to take it a step further (still online and on the phone) in starting giving her Assignments and Tasks to do while incorporating the teaching element in between.
WTH? Assignments and tasks to do while incorporating what? We don’t know either of you and what is this fucking teaching element? You expect us to know how to teach her to cater to her uber online/phone dominant? What dear sir is the benefit of the attitude that training is needed while you incorporate something or other and must create assignments and tasks… as if they are a role playing aspect of something you are trying to be and have no clue about? What is the purpose of training someone when you haven’t a clue as to what to train about? What is training? Where are you getting this stuff? Maybe those more experienced and educated sub/slaves you had something with for a short time would be able to indicate just what the problem was and walked away knowing you didn’t have the experience to deal with them and their experience.
Your help and guidance will be greatly appreciated. Again my friends, it is about starting online Assignments and Tasks until I can say that she is really my obedient sub enough to meet in person. She is very sexual but still at the "careful stage" due to lack of knowledge and training. I'm talking here about ending with a full sub/dom 24/7 commitment.
You are calling a bunch of strangers your friends, assuming some connection that isn’t there and placing yourself in a position you might consider as one of the group that doesn’t exist. We are not your friend and speaking like that is an indicator to many that you have been online far too long and think way retro, disco… we are family. Don’t presume to be anything to strangers that you cannot be.
So you want us, your friends presumably to guide you and help you create things you can use and claim with an ignorant 19 year old or forty something playing you for all it’s worth and again want us to respect you because you are clearly the dom in charge. You will test her with the things others guide you to so that you can claim to be all domly like, that she is really obedient enough to meet you, when you are also claiming to be understanding of her fear and such, and then pull that ever ready dominant card of… it happens when I say it happens. When you got the training info from others or attempted to.
You also state that she is very sexual but at a cautious stage due to the lack of knowledge and training. I would be cautious of you because you think that training and knowledge over-ride truth, because there is no way that training and knowledge can amount to truth when you are showing the examples of your character repeatedly in each post. You call her a wannabe, you talk of true sub/slave, you act as if women are less than men and can’t speak or express themselves as well as men. When you have shown a great example of why that isn’t so!
Now, you had experienced submissives/slaves you were involved with, so I assume they were older than 19 and were not virgins. You don’t say they were more than online, but I do have to wonder. They couldn’t be long term and now at your age you find a 19 year old, inexperienced, sexual but fearful girl and think after a few weeks of chatting online that this amounts to an end goal of 24/7? Again you show your lack of experience as a dominant person and a well balanced thinker in his own right, or shall I say presumptuous or delusional to place so much on a young woman or someone presenting as such, a few weeks chatting and all your domliness that will soon judge her ready or not to meet and obey you.
Dude… seriously… big, fail.
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