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A basic yet elusive question.. - 1/4/2011 3:04:21 PM

subboytravis1980

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Ok, this has probably been beaten to death and not only in Kinkland. If dominant women had to pick what part of the body was the most sexy/attractive to them in a sub what would it be? I am not referring to a good sense of humour, intelligence, or anything intangible. What physical part of a subs body "Man or woman" do you find the most erotic to look at play with etc, and why?

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RE: A basic yet elusive question.. - 1/4/2011 3:22:29 PM

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We are WOMEN, most women don't have that quality most men see to have that they can focus on just one body part, get horny and the rest fades out... We have to have the whole package in most cases... Personally I do like hands and shoulders on the right guy, but it has to be the right guy or the best hands and shoulders won't do anything for me.

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RE: A basic yet elusive question.. - 1/4/2011 4:20:52 PM

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Nose. I like a mans nose.
And also: the very reason I watched the movie 300. The blood and guts, cool camera angles and awesome battle scenes were a bonus!

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RE: A basic yet elusive question.. - 1/4/2011 9:21:35 PM

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We are WOMEN, most women don't have that quality most men see to have that they can focus on just one body part, get horny and the rest fades out... We have to have the whole package in most cases...

What Lady C said. If you have a beautiful body but are a jerk or an idiot, I will enjoy looking at your body for a moment until you open your mouth! Then I will want nothing more to do with you.

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RE: A basic yet elusive question.. - 1/5/2011 7:23:20 PM

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Big, huge, pulsing . . . brain.
Even huger . . . heart.
Expansive and expanding . . . soul.

And if he's got those, and a very long, very lean, very hard, very veiny . . . forearm: SWOON!

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RE: A basic yet elusive question.. - 1/6/2011 3:30:35 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Tantriqu
Big, huge, pulsing . . . brain.
Even huger . . . heart.
Expansive and expanding . . . soul.

These are what I find attractive. I know that doesn't except the intangibles as the OP asks, but the fact that I like a nice butt on a man, means absolutely nothing, if I don't feel he is a decent human being.
Washboard abdomens are nice, but I'm attracted to the person who is more spiritual and humane, than the gym perfect body. M

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RE: A basic yet elusive question.. - 1/6/2011 10:07:49 PM

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Look at that: hearts, minds, souls, first and foremost. Distantly, the physical: hands, noses, six-packs, forearms . . . and even then, all rated 'G', and absolutely no cocks.

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RE: A basic yet elusive question.. - 1/7/2011 12:05:45 AM

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What everyone else said!

OP: women aren't hung up on visuals, like men are. We're just not nearly as visually oriented, or as attracted by physical traits- as men are. I take it that you're young, or otherwise you'd have known this. That's okay. You did well by bringing your question here. Welcome! :o)

To a woman, a man's physical traits are practically insignificant, compared to how he is inside. His character, compassion, spirit- the way he thinks and feels inside, and how he acts. What he does, with the personality traits and temperament he has. His goals and aspirations, and how he goes about reaching them. Kindness, consideration for others, self-awareness and a willingness to work on his issues, and to "carry the water" equally in his relationships so that we women don't end up doing all the emotional work of the relationship. Those are the kinds of things we're attracted to like a moth to the flame- just as strongly as men are attracted to the physical.

Does that explanation help clarify things for you?

On My slaveboy, or any man I love: EVERYTHING IS EQUALLY YUMMY. Because of who he is inside- his loveable, attractive qualities are all about who he is inside. That's what makes his outside yummy and sweet to Me.

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RE: A basic yet elusive question.. - 1/7/2011 12:22:54 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Tantriqu

Big, huge, pulsing . . . brain.
Even huger . . . heart.
Expansive and expanding . . . soul.

And if he's got those, and a very long, very lean, very hard, very veiny . . . forearm: SWOON!

Amen!

I'd like to add to that...eyes. The eyes are the window to the soul and if a man is unable or unwilling to look me in the eyes, I quickly lose interest no matter how big his....brain....is.

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RE: A basic yet elusive question.. - 1/7/2011 10:34:48 AM

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Thank you all for your responses :) It has been enlightening.

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RE: A basic yet elusive question.. - 1/7/2011 11:03:32 AM

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It doesn't matter how good-looking someone is, if I know they are lacking in character or kindness or in general just not a good person. their looks lose all charm.

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