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RE: Hello Everyone... gay boy here. - 1/7/2011 1:42:22 AM

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Well let him see what he wants. I dont stop my world for just one guy.. Sunshine, Ill keep you in my prayers.

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RE: Hello Everyone... gay boy here. - 1/7/2011 1:45:00 AM

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Oh dont get mad cause I said how it is.. If people are going to be smart ass with me you think im going to take it? hell no. Are you going to take it?? hell no you wont.. If you dont like what i have to say here?? Then dont read my posting.. Simple as that..

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Do you have any clue that you're DOING?!?!?!?

First you contact Lance, who knows gay Denver BDSM cold, and mildly irritate him with your email. You then insult sunny in a public forum and piss off BonesFromAsh and I by doing so. Not only will Lance be disinclined to tell you where the scene is because you've insulted sunny, who's a friend to him, but now he'll likely be concerned that you'd walk into some place, announce that he gave you the lead, and then make a boor of yourself there, which would reflect badly on him.

You're limiting your options fast here. You've already been told to learn some manners. Allow me to add my voice to the chorus.

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RE: Hello Everyone... gay boy here. - 1/7/2011 2:00:49 AM

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Well if Lance know the BDSM community really well then good for him.. If people cant take like as something fun, then you guys are taking life way to serious, and that will be bad on your health.. Sunny insulted me, So I backed fired and gave her a little taste back, I dont hate anyone. And i didnt mention his name on the other forum all I said was some guy told me. I know how to respect people privacys.. Why would it even reflect on him? appperntly he has a pretty good name on here. IF people were his real friends on here it wont even matter what came out on typying. They will just be supportive in any condition. Thank G-d I have plenty of real friends who support me and support on how upfront I am... I do have manners but if someone is going to talk to me like im trash, then they are going to hear it from me. I dont tolerate low class trash mouths from anyone, unless its in the bedroom or fun playing with my friends..

If I did limit my option then oh well. Let it be. Why does it matter to you? Anyways ill be the big boy about this and stop all the drama here on out...

All I have to say to all you guys is best of wishish and good-luck..
Dont take like to seriously enjoy it as much as you can.

HUGS TO ALL!

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RE: Hello Everyone... gay boy here. - 1/7/2011 5:12:05 AM

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A wee bit of a temper huh? Sunny is one of the nicest people on here and does NOT deserve the message you sent her. Etiquette is still a big thing here, and you get back what you give. So don't expect the Doms to be falling all over themselves to contact you. They expect more than a 2 word cmail, as do most of us.

If you're going to engage in "mine is better than yours" then you better be prepared. Cuz youngun, most of are are prepared and well-versed in thow this works. Imagine a Dom looking at your profile then coming over to this side to view your profile posts. You won't be the catch you seem to think you are and they'll most likely go right by you.

ETA: Lance is one of the very good friends I've had the chance to make here, he's a sweetie but also won't take crap from anybody, so how about showing him some respect even if you don't know him. Manners are easier than you think.

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RE: Hello Everyone... gay boy here. - 1/7/2011 5:21:09 AM

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Oh for Fucks Sake - lighten up on the dude!
Honestly... sunny doesn't need you all jumping to her rescue. Good grief, this is EXACTLY what is meant by freaking ganging up on someone! She laid into the guy and he laid back. Just because she has a history here and he doesn't - does not mean he has to be the one giving respect!

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Etiquette is still a big thing here, and you get back what you give

If that is true, then sunny got what she deserved... people are too blinded by love or their own favouritism to see it.

So welcome to the forums Koejo... bet you are loving it sofar...

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RE: Hello Everyone... gay boy here. - 1/7/2011 5:23:23 AM

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You goto bed.. You act like a Senior who wants everything free. you shoudl relize the world dont run like that..

I am lucky enough to be one of Sunshine's friends in real life and you should be so lucky to have a friend as wonderful. You also should learn to spell, attain some manners, and grow the fuck up a bit.

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RE: Hello Everyone... gay boy here. - 1/7/2011 5:23:31 AM

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All I have to say that is their choice.. If they don't want to talk to me, it's not like I lost anything.. I Prob could have over reacted a bit, but what she said was pretty mean. I know I said some pretty mean stuff back but thats myself guard. I am their to protect myself, I don't come on site to get harassed by anyone.. I come to enjoy some chats and enjoy people time and of course meet people.. I'm not here to hurt anyones feeling, but all I ask is just be nice to me, I'm a real nice guy myself. I sure don't know sunny at all since I'm so new here. but I sure dont mind getting to know sunny either, I know mean things were said and I dont hold a grudge on anyone I'm a very forgiving person. I let stuff slide by me like hmm whatever, thats how laid back I am. I try to enjoy life and keep things simple. So I do apologize to everyone who I offend and all i ask is be nice please...

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RE: Hello Everyone... gay boy here. - 1/7/2011 5:31:25 AM

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Oh for Fucks Sake - lighten up on the dude!
Honestly... sunny doesn't need you all jumping to her rescue. Good grief, this is EXACTLY what is meant by freaking ganging up on someone! She laid into the guy and he laid back. Just because she has a history here and he doesn't - does not mean he has to be the one giving respect!

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Etiquette is still a big thing here, and you get back what you give

If that is true, then sunny got what she deserved... people are too blinded by love or their own favouritism to see it.

So welcome to the forums Koejo... bet you are loving it sofar...

<arrives late to the party, as freaking usual>

Wow yeah. She did rather lay into him a bit. Seems like a decent enough lad. If people spoke to me like that I'd have launched a rattle too, at his age.

I also thought it was considered bad form to reveal the content of messages sent privately, in public? (the "You could have at least told me what you found in my profile that made you write "ur hot."" line)

Anyway, storm in a teacup, move on, least said soonest mended, it's always darkest before dawn, measure twice cut once, and other platitudes of choice ;)

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RE: Hello Everyone... gay boy here. - 1/7/2011 5:31:52 AM

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Hey koejo,

Have another read of sunshines post to you.

It wasn't mean at all. It was saying it how it is.

She said that you don't currently have a "conversation" going on. Which is kinda true.

She asked if you thought bounding up to a stanger in a club and declaring "UR hot" would work out. Not an unreasonable question really.

She pointed out that at this point (note the "at this pont") she'd have more chance with the lovely Lance than you. Not an unfair point.

Then she gave you some hidden advice - "whacha got to offer?" - She wasn't saying that you don't have anything to offer, just that sending and email saying "you are hot" isn't the best of ways to describe what it is you have to offer.

Does this help?

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RE: Hello Everyone... gay boy here. - 1/7/2011 5:41:10 AM

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She said that you don't currently have a "conversation" going on. Which is kinda true.

She asked if you thought bounding up to a stanger in a club and declaring "UR hot" would work out. Not an unreasonable question really.

She pointed out that at this point (note the "at this pont") she'd have more chance with the lovely Lance than you. Not an unfair point.

Then she gave you some hidden advice - "whacha got to offer?" - She wasn't saying that you don't have anything to offer, just that sending and email saying "you are hot" isn't the best of ways to describe what it is you have to offer.

Does this help?

Ok so we have Lance coming on the forum and publically try and show the OP up by revealing stuff that he sent him in private email. Not cool.

Sunny comes in and joins the show and expects nothing to be said, when the OP made a public apology to Lance - which for the record I don't believe was to be expected.

Steven runs in and get's his man on.

Me - Just telling it like it is.

Does this help?

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RE: Hello Everyone... gay boy here. - 1/7/2011 5:42:16 AM

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Thanks. RCdc and RapierFugue.. Yes Im sure not enjoying this site at all. Not many people from colorado either way.. Yes people are blinded to see what she said but I dont think people get it, Oh well. I least I didnt lose anything. Im glad you guys dont think I was so mean but, I really trying to protect myself after having the whole Site of collarme agasinst me except you 2 thanks. I apperciate that you guys arent attacking me either.. I was even kind enough to say my appologies to everyone to just get this drama out the way. I dont like conflicks at all...

@Crazyml I think you need to read the whole to get it. Just the fact she sent the to me was really towards me.. I know she tried to play sweet by saying "Good Luck" at the end but its not working at all. its more like being a smart ass. but i hope all of this is in the past now cause Im just here to enjoy people entertainment..

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RE: Hello Everyone... gay boy here. - 1/7/2011 5:44:31 AM

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Anyway, storm in a teacup, move on, least said soonest mended, it's always darkest before dawn, measure twice cut once, and other platitudes of choice ;)

Le swoon on the metaphors*

Honestly Mr RF... and you mentioned you hadn't seen me around lately...

But then, you know what get's me posting

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RE: Hello Everyone... gay boy here. - 1/7/2011 5:55:11 AM

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Thanks. RCdc and RapierFugue.. Yes Im sure not enjoying this site at all. Not many people from colorado either way.. Yes people are blinded to see what she said but I dont think people get it, Oh well. I least I didnt lose anything. Im glad you guys dont think I was so mean but, I really trying to protect myself after having the whole Site of collarme agasinst me except you 2 thanks. I apperciate that you guys arent attacking me either.. I was even kind enough to say my appologies to everyone to just get this drama out the way. I dont like conflicks at all...

koejo1

I wouldn't know about your area, but it really depends what you are looking for. CM is good for meeting new people (I know you wouldn't believe it right now) but you do have to be prepared to travel. If you are only here for a gay relationship, I would say the boards are pretty thin on the ground for you, although if you a prepared to participate on the boards to any long term extent, you will find them a bit of an asset.

As for protecting yourself, don't feel as though this is something that you are just going to go through. Had you been here for any length of time, you would have your own back up team to tag with.

Yanno it's funny, people love to spout the whole you get what you give mantra, but aren't digging it when it's in reverse. Try and come hanging out in some of the other forums... politics is always good for fistycuffs... and if want to try off topic, it can be cool. Have a read on the forum guidelines and just do the whole ignoring thingy if people get pissy... unless you are up for the challange

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RE: Hello Everyone... gay boy here. - 1/7/2011 6:16:42 AM

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@RCdc Ok well some traveling wont hurt. I did some traveling on meeting a few guys a year or soo ago flew about 2000 miles and it was great. I sure dont mind meeting people who lives in other states, sounds like a adventure again.. Yeah im not here just for a gay relationship im also open to other things but ill see how that goes when it comes along. Yes I do need to check out the other boards, didnt know they had other stuff about politics and stuff like that. I guess when i joined the other I was just hoping all kinds of people will send me a message but I guess i have to work for it. But thats fine hehe.

Yeah I dont like how people all try to gang up on me as the new guy since the princess has been here for many years. But like you said, I could just my own little gang who will be there for me hehehe.. Yes people dont like when it comes back to them.. I was just thought in my house hold, if someone is talking smack about you! you better be ready to fire back at them and put them in their place. My mom always told me dont let know think that they are better then you cause they are not. Hehehe. But I do try my best to keep things cool sometiems it just dont work cause people are mentally challange or something, They are always the ones who say they dont like drama but they sure do get involve with it, like its a high to them.. They are usually the worst one's. The ones who love causing drama and say they dont like it.. quite a bit of shame.

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RE: Hello Everyone... gay boy here. - 1/7/2011 6:21:50 AM

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Hello Joe -

SO you wrote to Lance (yes, he is hot - even the lesbians know that!)...

always reminds me on a Cop in a German TV serie.

Welcome Joe and good luck

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RE: Hello Everyone... gay boy here. - 1/7/2011 6:24:04 AM

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I guess when i joined the other I was just hoping all kinds of people will send me a message but I guess i have to work for it. But thats fine hehe.

There are soooo many peeps on here now, and (having perved ya profile) with your specifics of being a submissive,gay and male... you are already near the bottom of the ladder unfortunately. Were you female, straight and submissive or female, dominant and any sexual orientation, you could pretty much sit back and let the letters flood in.

We are a straight, monogmous Master/slave couple. We come just below you

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RE: Hello Everyone... gay boy here. - 1/7/2011 6:24:13 AM

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Phoenixpower Thanks.. Love your kitties and cats they are so cute. The simies one is adorable. aww

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RE: Hello Everyone... gay boy here. - 1/7/2011 6:25:46 AM

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Oh dont get mad cause I said how it is.. If people are going to be smart ass with me you think im going to take it? hell no. Are you going to take it?? hell no you wont.. If you dont like what i have to say here?? Then dont read my posting.. Simple as that..

Best of Luck
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Do you have any clue that you're DOING?!?!?!?

First you contact Lance, who knows gay Denver BDSM cold, and mildly irritate him with your email. You then insult sunny in a public forum and piss off BonesFromAsh and I by doing so. Not only will Lance be disinclined to tell you where the scene is because you've insulted sunny, who's a friend to him, but now he'll likely be concerned that you'd walk into some place, announce that he gave you the lead, and then make a boor of yourself there, which would reflect badly on him.

You're limiting your options fast here. You've already been told to learn some manners. Allow me to add my voice to the chorus.

Thats what I would name "well summarised"

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RE: Hello Everyone... gay boy here. - 1/7/2011 6:26:14 AM

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Hmm, Im going to change it up a bit. I sure dont mind being domimant with a other male hehe... Why would you come below me? wouldnt people want a couple?

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RE: Hello Everyone... gay boy here. - 1/7/2011 6:30:14 AM

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Hmm, Im going to change it up a bit. I sure dont mind being domimant with a other male hehe... Why would you come below me? wouldnt people want a couple?

Probably, but we aren't poly... on the whole the only mail we get on the very rare occasion is a male submissive who thinks I (dark) is a female mistress because they do not read the profile correctly. But it's usually all cool when Master points out their misunderstanding.

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