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CaringandReal -> RE: What does a Master want? (1/18/2011 6:28:11 PM)


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ORIGINAL: LillyBoPeep

CaringandReal -- no i'm talking about this thread. you see boatloads of "submissive wants" and "what makes a good (insert dominant phrase here)" threads, but not many aimed at the D/M perspective. That's interesting to me. i think sometimes subs/slaves make assumptions about what Ds/Ms want, so it's nice to hear things from the horse's mouth. =p




Oh, I see what you mean now. And yeah, i'm in agreement.



osf -> RE: What does a Master want? (1/18/2011 7:58:57 PM)

in the military there is a phrase " don't anticipate the command" meaning wait till the full command is given before acting

as much as this will pain most subbies, I'd rather they do what I say and not what they may think I want

I will speak when I want something

the exception is the routine they have been taught, like preparing meals and getting my coffee



poise -> RE: What does a Master want? (1/18/2011 8:03:21 PM)


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ORIGINAL: osf

as much as this will pain most subbies,

*nods*



GreedyTop -> RE: What does a Master want? (1/18/2011 8:06:07 PM)

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ORIGINAL: osf

in the military there is a phrase " don't anticipate the command" meaning wait till the full command is given before acting

as much as this will pain most subbies, I'd rather they do what I say and not what they may think I want

I will speak when I want something

the exception is the routine they have been taught, like preparing meals and getting my coffee


this makes total sense to me.



RapierFugue -> RE: What does a Master want? (1/18/2011 8:17:52 PM)


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ORIGINAL: osf

I will speak when I want something

the exception is the routine they have been taught, like preparing meals and getting my coffee


I agree 100%. That's definitely my way. Protocol I have laid out previously, plus whatever else I decide I want as time passes.



plasticshark -> RE: What does a Master want? (1/18/2011 8:20:44 PM)

Amusingly, this is what has always been a complaint leveled against me with my relationships: that if I want something or someone's help, I'll ask for it, otherwise I get really irritated when significant others just throw crap at the wall trying to see what's sticky. I don't have a problem expressing wants and desires, so why try to guess what I'm not thinking?



BKSir -> RE: What does a Master want? (1/18/2011 8:47:24 PM)

I think that the small speech from Jareth, very near the end of the movie "Labyrinth" sums me up very well as a D-type.

"Look what I'm offering you--your dreams. I ask for so little. Just let me rule you and you can have everything that you want. Do as I say, and I will be your slave."

I spoil my pets, as long as they know their place, or at least that's what I've been accused of. And I tend to agree with that assessment.



GreedyTop -> RE: What does a Master want? (1/18/2011 8:55:34 PM)

oooh.. Jareth.. *drooool*



IsaNova -> RE: What does a Master want? (1/19/2011 12:54:19 AM)

UmRich,

very nicely worded if I may say so.

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as for the rest... cookies and German or Australian beer, check! --_^



Whiplashsmile4 -> RE: What does a Master want? (1/19/2011 3:16:43 AM)

I want to be blown away by York Peppermint Patty while feeling the sensation of a warm wet tounge obediently swirling around my hot nasty cock. (hey I'm a pervert)

Seriously, Obediance is on my list of things, but unless there's hot kinky sex also involved... (just sayin)



CaringandReal -> RE: What does a Master want? (1/19/2011 4:36:21 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Whiplashsmile4

I want to be blown away by York Peppermint Patty while feeling the sensation of a warm wet tounge obediently swirling around my hot nasty cock. (hey I'm a pervert)

Seriously, Obediance is on my list of things, but unless there's hot kinky sex also involved... (just sayin)


I am confused, or perhaps I'm being naive again. If you have the Obedience (particularly the sort with the capital O), doesn't the hot kinky sex naturally follow?



CaringandReal -> RE: What does a Master want? (1/19/2011 4:41:15 AM)


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ORIGINAL: BKSir
"Look what I'm offering you--your dreams. I ask for so little. Just let me rule you and you can have everything that you want. Do as I say, and I will be your slave."


I watched that movie recently. I remember really liking that line too...except for the last five words. The part that follows them does not, in my mind, negate those words. I would rather he have said, "Do as I say, and I will not hurt you too badly...well, probably."

I guess that's just a difference in styles. though. ;)



Whiplashsmile4 -> RE: What does a Master want? (1/19/2011 5:31:47 AM)

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ORIGINAL: CaringandReal
I am confused, or perhaps I'm being naive again. If you have the Obedience (particularly the sort with the capital O), doesn't the hot kinky sex naturally follow?


Not always the case... and yes, it might seem puzzling.



Icarys -> RE: What does a Master want? (1/19/2011 8:11:38 AM)

Pie is better than cookies [8D]..cookies are so stereotypical.

Gummiebears are great too! Definitely out-o-box thinking there.



osf -> RE: What does a Master want? (1/19/2011 8:55:26 AM)

A woman that wants to surrender all responsibility for her actions and behavior

A woman that in return for this sees service as an obligation and not a list of fetishes as a barter.

To me her folding socks can be as erotic as any deviant sexual act, not that I don't enjoy deviant sex.



Einder -> RE: What does a Master want? (1/19/2011 9:10:35 AM)

Not sure if I quite fall on the same page as everyone else who posted in reply to this, because I honest skipped over their posts.

However, what I want is a slave that gets off on pleasing me. If your willing to serve me, and are doing things for me willingly as I tell you to do them, there's nothing better than that. That's one of the things that makes it hard for some of us to find a slave/sub. We prefer to be served by someone willing to serve us, which means taking the time to get to know us first.



Musicmystery -> RE: What does a Master want? (1/19/2011 10:30:25 AM)

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what do You guys want?


A girl I can trust would be a nice start.

Dare to dream.



kalikshama -> RE: What does a Master want? (1/19/2011 5:15:22 PM)

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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

oooh.. Jareth.. *drooool*



For all y'all who scoff at the Dom chair concept, please note the top right corner:

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CaringandReal -> RE: What does a Master want? (1/19/2011 8:01:41 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Whiplashsmile4

quote:

ORIGINAL: CaringandReal
I am confused, or perhaps I'm being naive again. If you have the Obedience (particularly the sort with the capital O), doesn't the hot kinky sex naturally follow?


Not always the case... and yes, it might seem puzzling.


Indeed.

Do you mean by this you have the RL meeting and she isn't hot enough to fuck? That's the only scenario I can think of.



RapierFugue -> RE: What does a Master want? (1/20/2011 12:44:50 AM)


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ORIGINAL: CaringandReal

Do you mean by this you have the RL meeting and she isn't hot enough to fuck? That's the only scenario I can think of.


Strange as it may seem, it's perfectly possible for some of us to meet someone plenty "hot enough to fuck", and who is Obedient, but with whom we don’t click, or where there's no spark.

It sounds even weirder now I see it written, but there you are :)




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