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24/7 TPE Masters: What Do You Do With Your Slave? - 1/10/2011 7:35:19 PM

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Firstly, I'd like to say "hello" to everyone here, as it seems a rather great community, from what I've seen in my "lurking" around before signing-up.

My question is one to which I'd love some longer, in-depth answers/descriptions, for those so-inclined to respond.

It's a way to learn from the creativity of others, and also just out of curiosity... to learn "the day of a 24/7 TPE Master and His slave", sort of thing.

I'm sure there have been similar posts, but I'm looking for a bit more in-depth responses and descriptions, for those willing to give such.

So, to all 24/7 TPE Masters (or slaves, for that matter, as the input would be the same): what do you do with/have your slave do, and how, throughout a day?

I know some answers will be a little "general", as much of the M/s relationship is as much mental/emotional as physical, but even general descriptions about how you keep your slave obedient or "off-balance" in order to maintain control etc., would always be a welcomed response. Of course, what you have them do/do with them physically as well.

Looking forward to hearing some great, in-depth responses from Masters (and even slaves, describing what their Masters do).

Cheers!

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RE: 24/7 TPE Masters: What Do You Do With Your Slave? - 1/10/2011 7:43:49 PM

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I serve him. We don't really have a routine or any rituals or anything like that. Sometimes that involves me going to work, sometimes it's making dinner, sometimes it's cleaning, sometimes it is napping.

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RE: 24/7 TPE Masters: What Do You Do With Your Slave? - 1/10/2011 8:22:45 PM

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nothing really. We just live a normal day...work, eat, sleep, come home, give him a massage, do whatever he needs done, etc....no need to keep me off balance to know who's in control and damn glad for that.

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RE: 24/7 TPE Masters: What Do You Do With Your Slave? - 1/10/2011 9:20:01 PM

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OP, the search feature is your friend. There have been oodles of threads on this here, and oodles of in-depth responses.

For Myself and My slave: we live our authentic lives. We're not Care Bears, or My Little Ponies. We're people, just trying to help each other out with the daily tasks of living, and trying to help each other accomplish our short and long-term goals, and get mutual pleasure and fulfillment. We're about self-realization. Living the lives that we were born for.

I don't feel like typing out a bunch of other stuff for your amusement, if you're too lazy to use the search feature. Heck- even the part about self-realization may not apply to you. Maybe you were born to sit on the sofa and eat Cheetos. Apparently that IS self-realization (or self-actualization) for some people.

Edited to add: WELCOME!

Explore, and have FUN!

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RE: 24/7 TPE Masters: What Do You Do With Your Slave? - 1/10/2011 10:58:29 PM

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what do you do with/have your slave do, and how, throughout a day?

Whatever whimsy dictates.

What you're really asking is what sort of personality each participant of an M/s relationship has, as that will dictate what activities come up most often.

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RE: 24/7 TPE Masters: What Do You Do With Your Slave? - 1/11/2011 4:05:39 AM

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I don't have a slave. But if I did, I'd do with her what I want. Kinda defines TPE.

Everything would be for
My gratification
Her development
What I consider realistic.

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RE: 24/7 TPE Masters: What Do You Do With Your Slave? - 1/11/2011 4:49:24 AM

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this reminds me of the classic line.... "what will you do to me after you tie me up?" ..... "whatever I want"

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RE: 24/7 TPE Masters: What Do You Do With Your Slave? - 1/11/2011 6:35:01 AM

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Why would he need to keep me off balance, uncomfortable, unsure, upset, and afraid? We love each other. He asks me for stuff and I do it if I can. If I can't, I explain what the problem is and he solves it if he can. Yesterday I made lunch, did his banking, did some laundry, gave him a blow job, reminded him the bowl game was on and so on. Oh yeah, we also went to the grocery store and the post office. We live our lives, loving each other as much as we can.

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RE: 24/7 TPE Masters: What Do You Do With Your Slave? - 1/11/2011 7:29:06 AM

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Well let's see:

He gets up at 5:45am and wakes me up at 6:30am when he leaves for work. I feed the dog, make myself coffee, watch the news and get ready for work. I leave at 8:00am.

I work until 5:30pm and get home at 6pm. This time of year, I'll start a fire in family room, start dinner, feed the dog, do a load of laundry or dishes do some general clean up and play on the computer until he gets home at 6:45pm.

Then I finish making dinner, we eat and then cuddle up on the couch to watch TV. Usually about 10pm we head to the bedroom.

Not nearly as exciting as you'd thought it would be, is it?

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RE: 24/7 TPE Masters: What Do You Do With Your Slave? - 1/11/2011 7:32:49 AM

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Well let's see:

He gets up at 5:45am and wakes me up at 6:30am when he leaves for work. I feed the dog, make myself coffee, watch the news and get ready for work. I leave at 8:00am.

I work until 5:30pm and get home at 6pm. This time of year, I'll start a fire in family room, start dinner, feed the dog, do a load of laundry or dishes do some general clean up and play on the computer until he gets home at 6:45pm.

Then I finish making dinner, we eat and then cuddle up on the couch to watch TV. Usually about 10pm we head to the bedroom.

Not nearly as exciting as you'd thought it would be, is it?

OsideGirl, I think he was more interested in what happens AFTER 10 pm.

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RE: 24/7 TPE Masters: What Do You Do With Your Slave? - 1/11/2011 8:13:43 AM

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I am neither a master or a slave.. but based on what I know of my RT friends who have that sort of dynamic, I would say that what they do is they live their lives as humans that have lives to live that are NOT all about "living the porn fantasy".

They have jobs, kids, house payments, etc.

what they DO gets sandwiched into that.. and when they CAN get the time to "do" the m/s thing, it is entirely about whatever their personal dynamic involves.

(sorry..cold meds again.. forgive me if that was less than coherent)

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RE: 24/7 TPE Masters: What Do You Do With Your Slave? - 1/11/2011 8:20:24 AM

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I know some answers will be a little "general", as much of the M/s relationship is as much mental/emotional as physical, but even general descriptions about how you keep your slave obedient or "off-balance" in order to maintain control etc., would always be a welcomed response. Of course, what you have them do/do with them physically as well.

Looking forward to hearing some great, in-depth responses from Masters (and even slaves, describing what their Masters do).

Cheers!

if he kept me off balance then he would loose trust. he doenst need to do anything for me to be obiedient as you put it. i submit and am obideint to him willingly and who he is jsut makes me want to be owned by him. as for the day we get up eat sleep i do housework etc, we do shopping etc. ok i have protocals a word i odn tlike but its aan easy word to use. if i leave the room i ask if i go out an dhes at work i text. we have a 5 min rule if i don thear in 5 mins then its a yes. i serve his meals first. take his boots off massage him etc. ask to g to bed and to sleep. but most of the day is jsut life

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RE: 24/7 TPE Masters: What Do You Do With Your Slave? - 1/11/2011 9:13:05 AM

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Using fast reply...

No slave here atm but my part of the deal is to try and maintain balance, not the opposite.

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RE: 24/7 TPE Masters: What Do You Do With Your Slave? - 1/11/2011 9:48:11 AM

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Why on God's green earth would I want him off balance? I don't see what kind of sense that makes. Don't you realize that he serves better when he is focused?

No, you probably don't. I have the striking suspicion that the reason that you are here asking for 'the creativity of others' is the fact that you haven't yet been a reflection of that screen name that you've chosen for yourself and have not yet had the experience of a 24/7 dynamic.

Which, in and of itself, is ok. Where the problem lies is that you seem to think this is some kind of fantasy thing that is vastly different from how other people live their lives, which it isn't. It's not some kind of constant scene where people skip all of those everyday things that other people do.

How do I keep him obedient? It's a requirement of the dynamic. Period. It has nothing to do with screwing with his head or any other thing.

Instead of Me wasting My breath (typing strokes) here, My suggestion to you is to actually establish the beginnings of a dynamic with a submissive. See for yourself that it's not what you think it is, which I very much think is based on your inexperience. Once you've got some reality going, come back and ask your question again.

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RE: 24/7 TPE Masters: What Do You Do With Your Slave? - 1/11/2011 10:34:34 AM

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RE: 24/7 TPE Masters: What Do You Do With Your Slave? - 1/11/2011 11:06:41 AM

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I just love people who have no clue about what they are doing ask for details about what others do.

How about trying things on your own to see what YOU and a partner would like?

As for keeping someone off balance, this shows me the OP really is in a dream world.

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RE: 24/7 TPE Masters: What Do You Do With Your Slave? - 1/11/2011 11:41:33 AM

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Did the mind-fuck fetish suddenly disappear from CM since I've been gone?

I read the OP's "off balance" as relatively synonymous with "keeping them on their toes", which (even in the least generous interpretations) is a interactive style I've seen plenty of people mentioning liking. It doesn't strike me much different in its apparent incongruity from the "strong submissive" fad that's so prevalent nowadays.

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RE: 24/7 TPE Masters: What Do You Do With Your Slave? - 1/11/2011 11:49:56 AM

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The fetish went no where.

The ability to clearly communicate on the other hand....

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RE: 24/7 TPE Masters: What Do You Do With Your Slave? - 1/11/2011 11:56:52 AM

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Did the mind-fuck fetish suddenly disappear from CM since I've been gone?

I read the OP's "off balance" as relatively synonymous with "keeping them on their toes", which (even in the least generous interpretations) is a interactive style I've seen plenty of people mentioning liking. It doesn't strike me much different in its apparent incongruity from the "strong submissive" fad that's so prevalent nowadays.

There's a difference between a scene and day to day life, NZ.

Enough said.

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RE: 24/7 TPE Masters: What Do You Do With Your Slave? - 1/11/2011 11:59:25 AM

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Who? The OP? He wrote a friendly OP curious about how people who are in M/s relationships live their lives.

Then, for asking the amicable question, the fallacious anti-fantasy rhetoric got thrown in because it's one of the popular WIITWD myths these days (the only reason "fantasy" gets ridden against so hard is because of people's monetary inability to pursue a lifestyle of that nature; otherwise it would just be a simple issue of YKINMKBYKIOK).

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