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RE: no limits period - 1/22/2011 6:54:17 PM

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So often, wanting no limits is the fantasy. Realistic limits are the good sense of reality. I doubt anyone ever really plays 'no limits' with anyone they don't first know and trust. And that means you're likely to already know the limits beyond which they would not take you, as they know how far they can push you. At the finish, for all that we sometimes say, its about having fun. It can be exciting to imagine being totally out of your own control; but that's just fantasy, in the safety of our own imagination. Unless we share the fantasy with someone sane and sensible, the reality could be nothing like that. And then were are we?

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RE: no limits period - 1/22/2011 8:11:22 PM

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You have described a "no-limits" sessions that actually has limits, you realize....

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RE: no limits period - 1/22/2011 8:19:14 PM

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True story:
Two of my top friends were talking to a new person to the space. He was a very arrogant, overly loud boy who very proudly donned an orange hanky in his right pocket, and kept insisting "anything goes", which was the equivalent then of "no limits.' So they took him downstairs and about five minutes later, I hear this intense screaming....... followed by orange hanky boy grabbing his coat and leaving the dungeon.

I asked my friends what they could have possibly done to him--the boy who cried anything goes--in such a short amount of time.
Apparently, they tied him down to the medical table, broke out the medical drapes, alcohol, and scalpels (for ritual cuttings).... and told him that my one friend had a very serious amputee fetish, and they were so excited to finally be able to fulfill it.... and they began deciding which finger to remove when he start screaming.

They admitted that they didn't know what they would have done if he had been agreeable to it.....but neither felt bad about scaring the piss out of him.

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RE: no limits period - 1/22/2011 8:42:37 PM

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True story:
Two of my top friends were talking to a new person to the space. He was a very arrogant, overly loud boy who very proudly donned an orange hanky in his right pocket, and kept insisting "anything goes", which was the equivalent then of "no limits.' So they took him downstairs and about five minutes later, I hear this intense screaming....... followed by orange hanky boy grabbing his coat and leaving the dungeon.

I asked my friends what they could have possibly done to him--the boy who cried anything goes--in such a short amount of time.
Apparently, they tied him down to the medical table, broke out the medical drapes, alcohol, and scalpels (for ritual cuttings).... and told him that my one friend had a very serious amputee fetish, and they were so excited to finally be able to fulfill it.... and they began deciding which finger to remove when he start screaming.

They admitted that they didn't know what they would have done if he had been agreeable to it.....but neither felt bad about scaring the piss out of him.

That is absolutely perfect, and making me think evil thoughts, though I'm not a sadist (I don't think

). M

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RE: no limits period - 1/23/2011 5:45:36 AM

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Sounds a bit more like play with time of no safeword rather than no limits.

Yes, technically, this might be more accurately called NSW, No Safe Word, and again, hard to find anybody without the usual limits: scat, kids, and animals - those are pretty universal, and hardly worth making an issue of, and with people you don't know, no permanent damage seems like rational option, whatever you call it.

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RE: no limits period - 1/23/2011 7:57:38 AM

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No limits except, this this and that... and oh, yes, that too..... and what is that toy??? nuh huh.. No way Jose

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RE: no limits period - 1/24/2011 2:26:54 AM

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Sounds a bit more like play with time of no safeword rather than no limits.

Yes, technically, this might be more accurately called NSW, No Safe Word, and again, hard to find anybody without the usual limits: scat, kids, and animals - those are pretty universal, and hardly worth making an issue of, and with people you don't know, no permanent damage seems like rational option, whatever you call it.

I am always simply astonished that people can place scat in the same 'no limits'(

) category along with paedophilia.
How odd.

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RE: no limits period - 1/24/2011 3:47:34 AM

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I hate to tell people, but if you've ever rimmed someone, you've participated in the wonderful world of scat.

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RE: no limits period - 1/24/2011 6:46:41 AM

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Yep. Rimming, kissing after, ass to mouth oral, all falls into the scat category. It isn't always someone taking a poo on you folks.

Christ Aileen now we are going to get the health patrol telling us how risky that is.

. You troublemaker.

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RE: no limits period - 1/24/2011 7:01:22 AM

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Rimming in only scat if the rimmee doesn't know how to wipe.

I find it curious how often "masks" pop up along with pedo and scat in hard limits - other common ones seem to be diapers and enemas.

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RE: no limits period - 1/24/2011 7:43:01 AM

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I hate to tell people, but if you've ever rimmed someone, you've participated in the wonderful world of scat.

Aww... just go further and tell people that if they have had any kind of rough sex they have probably in the high perenctage of having participated too...

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RE: no limits period - 1/27/2011 12:07:32 PM

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No limits? You listed several limits in your OP.

I don't buy "no limits." Everyone has limits. Those submissives who say they have no limits really mean they have a level of trust with their dominant that the dominant knows the submissive so well the unspoken limits will not be crossed. To anyone who says they have no limits, I challenge them to say the same thing when the deep fat fryer is revealed. And to rationalize it by saying "Well, I have no limits other than scat" is silly because "no scat" is a limit. There are plenty of people for whom scat is not a limit.

The phrase "consensual non-consent" includes the word "consensual," and part of consent is being able to withdraw consent at any time, even if "excessive screaming" should occur.

Now of course some people like to play that there are no limits, and that's fine. But that's just play.

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RE: no limits period - 1/27/2011 12:14:42 PM

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No limits? You listed several limits in your OP.

I don't buy "no limits." Everyone has limits. Those submissives who say they have no limits really mean they have a level of trust with their dominant that the dominant knows the submissive so well the unspoken limits will not be crossed. To anyone who says they have no limits, I challenge them to say the same thing when the deep fat fryer is revealed. And to rationalize it by saying "Well, I have no limits other than scat" is silly because "no scat" is a limit. There are plenty of people for whom scat is not a limit.

The phrase "consensual non-consent" includes the word "consensual," and part of consent is being able to withdraw consent at any time, even if "excessive screaming" should occur.

Now of course some people like to play that there are no limits, and that's fine. But that's just play.

Well I best get to the playground then...

...bag's I get the swing.

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RE: no limits period - 1/27/2011 12:18:50 PM

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In my experience people who want a no limits situation are simply engaging in a fantasy. A fantasy that ends when the orgasm does.

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RE: no limits period - 1/27/2011 12:19:39 PM

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I hate to tell people, but if you've ever rimmed someone, you've participated in the wonderful world of scat.

So certain are you? I imagine most people have in mind rather more ... material when then think of the word "scat." You call rimming a subset of "scat," I do not.

So neener, neener.

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RE: no limits period - 1/27/2011 12:20:42 PM

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In my experience people who want a no limits situation are simply engaging in a fantasy. A fantasy that ends when the orgasm does.

And some people make fantasy a reality. Not everyone can but heyhoe...

(.thateverlovingplaygroundfantasy.dark.)

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RE: no limits period - 1/27/2011 12:29:07 PM

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In my experience people who want a no limits situation are simply engaging in a fantasy. A fantasy that ends when the orgasm does.

And some people make fantasy a reality. Not everyone can but heyhoe...

Are you implying you are one of those who has made fantasy a reality, and has no limits? Not buying it any more than Marc2b does. As I stated, everyone has limits. Anyone who tells me otherwise is lying to him- or herself or lying to me.

Don't make me bring out the bucket of pig intestines just to prove my point.

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RE: no limits period - 1/27/2011 12:31:23 PM

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And some people make fantasy a reality. Not everyone can but heyhoe...

If you have managed to make your fantasies a reality then more power to ya but that is not the same thing as a real no limits situation which is risky in all situations and could be horrific in many. People who say they want no limits are engaging in the fantasy of being a real slave but will being locked naked in a cage in a cold basement all night still hold the same appeal after the orgasm?

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RE: no limits period - 1/27/2011 12:34:06 PM

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In my experience people who want a no limits situation are simply engaging in a fantasy. A fantasy that ends when the orgasm does.

And some people make fantasy a reality. Not everyone can but heyhoe...

Are you implying you are one of those who has made fantasy a reality, and has no limits? Not buying it any more than Marc2b does. As I stated, everyone has limits. Anyone who tells me otherwise is lying to him- or herself or lying to me.

Don't make me bring out the bucket of pig intestines just to prove my point.

Pig intestines=hard limit.

Signed, Carrie

(remember, pig blood? prom? killing everyone in the gym?)

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RE: no limits period - 1/27/2011 12:35:04 PM

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People who say they want no limits are engaging in the fantasy of being a real slave but will being locked naked in a cage in a cold basement all night still hold the same appeal after the orgasm?

Probably, as long as they have a bucket of pig intestines to keep them busy.

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