genvieve
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Joined: 5/14/2005 From: SF Bay Area Status: offline
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Online training is what you get out of it. If you go into it with an open mind... like reading a book, you are able to gain knowledge and wisdom from those who have been in the lifestyle longer than you. However, that being said, you could also gain this knowledge from making friends online who are involved in the lifestyle; or from being involved in discussion boards, like this one here. But don't be afraid to jump into r/t. If you have a local BDSM community...try going to a munch (which is a r/t get-together at a restaurant, or somthing) . Since these are non-sexual environments, or are supposed to be, they can be a wonderful way to make friends and to learn and to sort of scope out the Dominant you have your eye on. Also, keep in mind... at play parties, there are ALWAYS dungeon mods who, if you tell them you are aprehensive and a lil new... would be more than happy to show you the "ropes" so to speak. Just...food for thought. i hope you find what you are looking for.
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