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Why are dominant chicks such bitchy cunts? - 1/31/2011 1:44:14 PM   
AAkasha


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Inspiration from http://www.collarchat.com/m_3549768/tm.htm (I would never use this language, obviously)

I should amend this to say, "Why are straight dominant chicks such bitchy cunts" because I the lesbian dominant chicks I know are pretty good chicks. Plus sub chicks are pretty kickass. But there's something about dominant chicks that makes them mean bitchy cunts and I want to know what it is.

I can't complain. A few of us are awesome chicks and all the overly bitchy egotistical nonsense only makes us stand out more. But is it something in the nature of dominant girls to be this way? Or is it more like there are chicks out there who are irrational, unrealistic, overbearing, selfish jerks and they figure if they can't be rich and famous and glamorous they may as well take it out on all men and become self-proclaimed dominant women?

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Rational version below:

Why are some self-proclaimed dominant women so "heavy handed" in the way they present themselves online? There are many that seem to promote a persona that is unrealistically controlling and condescending at first glance, and it can come off as really egotistical and a bit like a caricature of dominance. Is it because they are trying to project and image that they believe will attract their target audience -- ie, sub men with that ideal of dominant women (based on porn), and hope to portray themselves as a little more "down to earth" later, or do they use this image all the time? Or, is this just a professional approach?

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RE: Why are dominant chicks such bitchy cunts? - 1/31/2011 1:57:14 PM   
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You just had to do it, didn't you?  LOL.

OK, OK, I'll try to take this seriously.

In My case, I'm heavy handed online because I'm heavy handed in the dynamic.  It's just what it is.  The dynamic is based on authority, so that's the perspective that I speak from.  It's the very same as what people see when they meet us in real life. 

Here's the one you didn't ask.  Am I like that with casual acquaintances and friends?  No, I'm not.  They aren't in a dynamic with Me, so I treat them accordingly.

Do I do this to attract My target audience?  No.  I actually don't consider CM My target audience for anything.  My life is pretty full on the submissives/play partner front.  In the last week, I've taken on two new projects that are going to be an additional demand of time.  From a realistic standpoint, I don't think I could add anything else right now even if I wanted to.

Is it a professional approach?  In My case, no.  I'm not a professional in any way, shape, or form.  I'm not here to hock sessions, products, or services.  In other words, I've never made a dime off of anybody through CM and I intend to keep it that way.


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RE: Why are dominant chicks such bitchy cunts? - 1/31/2011 2:02:16 PM   
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Going by how many posts we see from subly male types looking to be degraded, humilated, beaten, used, castrated, whatever, I'd say those bitchy-cunt dommes are just trying to appeal to a target audience.

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RE: Why are dominant chicks such bitchy cunts? - 1/31/2011 2:55:11 PM   
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Its hard for me, being a switch.  I want my men to be sissies and to do the housework.  They have to wear french maid outfits and be able to have giant pineapples shoved up their ass (Yes, I am laughing here).

But then I want a cowboy to help me walk the fences and to push my limits gently...with chocolate

Damn it...this is why its so hard being a switch.


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RE: Why are dominant chicks such bitchy cunts? - 1/31/2011 2:58:31 PM   
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I've got to say, that's the funniest thread title I've seen possibly ever, Akasha.

I'm not happy, though. I think there's far too much humour on these boards, it's ruining sensible discussion and people are leaving in droves as a result.

Nah. Not really. Only joking!

Ed. to add - Frigging hell, I didn't know you had it in you . . . .

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RE: Why are dominant chicks such bitchy cunts? - 1/31/2011 2:59:34 PM   
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I never think of you as heavy handed, LP.

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RE: Why are dominant chicks such bitchy cunts? - 1/31/2011 3:01:35 PM   
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Why don't they have a little checkbox thingie we can tag you with for you bitchy cunts so you don't interfere with our lifestyle?

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RE: Why are dominant chicks such bitchy cunts? - 1/31/2011 3:03:05 PM   
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quote:

Why are some self-proclaimed dominant women so "heavy handed" in the way they present themselves online? There are many that seem to promote a persona that is unrealistically controlling and condescending at first glance, and it can come off as really egotistical and a bit like a caricature of dominance. Is it because they are trying to project and image that they believe will attract their target audience -- ie, sub men with that ideal of dominant women (based on porn), and hope to portray themselves as a little more "down to earth" later, or do they use this image all the time? Or, is this just a professional approach?


This one self proclaimed, heavy handed condescending egotistical, caricature of dominance told me SHE would HAVE me, sooner or later.

Ya right.... in her omniscience, she forgot I know how to exercise more than my yap and clicked block.

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RE: Why are dominant chicks such bitchy cunts? - 1/31/2011 3:03:58 PM   
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First of all let me say it's an awesome tribute that in fewer than 100 posts I have managed to inspire a parody thread from someone who is (I peeked at AAkasha's site) clearly a very gifted writer. Thanks for that :)

As to the gravely serious question posed in the thread, let me just say that, in my experience, Dominant women rarely get quite bitchy enough.

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RE: Why are dominant chicks such bitchy cunts? - 1/31/2011 3:04:08 PM   
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Some people tend to see it that way, Hib.  Oddly enough, I don't know if it's a gender issue or not.

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RE: Why are dominant chicks such bitchy cunts? - 1/31/2011 3:10:41 PM   
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Chill chicks!  Don't be hatin' --it's because of those wussy pussy boys that those gnarly Domme dudettes got to crank the 'tude to eleven.

seriously, dude.  grindage.  totally.

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RE: Why are dominant chicks such bitchy cunts? - 1/31/2011 3:16:53 PM   
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quote:

Chill chicks!  Don't be hatin' --it's because of those wussy pussy boys that those gnarly Domme dudettes got to crank the 'tude to eleven.

seriously, dude.  grindage.  totally.


Bro, don't front like that. All blasting Air Supply from your safe sensible Volvo while the real dudes are blaring CCR from our bitchin Camaros.

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RE: Why are dominant chicks such bitchy cunts? - 1/31/2011 3:26:45 PM   
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HEY!!! I love Air Supply and CCR!

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RE: Why are dominant chicks such bitchy cunts? - 1/31/2011 4:18:30 PM   
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I 'm all out of cunt, what am I without you
I know you were right be-youtching for so long 

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you can quote me.

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RE: Why are dominant chicks such bitchy cunts? - 1/31/2011 4:20:48 PM   
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I prefer Heartless Bitch to bitchy cunt, myself. 

As far as WHY I am that way? 

Heartless Bitchiness is not about talking behind others backs. It's about having a backbone strong enough to stand on your own - proud, confident and unafraid to be the person YOU want to be irrespective of others' bullshit and expectations.

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RE: Why are dominant chicks such bitchy cunts? - 1/31/2011 4:22:24 PM   
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quote:

HEY!!! I love Air Supply and CCR!


I won't hate on you for that. But only one of the two is appropriate to be blared out of cars to attract girls sunning themselves on the corner. Emily Post is very clear on this point.

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RE: Why are dominant chicks such bitchy cunts? - 1/31/2011 5:21:08 PM   
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Why are Dominant chicks such bitchy cunts?

It's the inter turmoil caused by trying to deny your true submissive nature.

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RE: Why are dominant chicks such bitchy cunts? - 1/31/2011 5:25:30 PM   
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Cuz they are evil, bro. Completely evil, Im tellin ya dude

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RE: Why are dominant chicks such bitchy cunts? - 1/31/2011 5:37:52 PM   
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RE: Why are dominant chicks such bitchy cunts? - 1/31/2011 5:40:53 PM   
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Now that's some subtle trolling.

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