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ORIGINAL: oceanwynds2 a111 I might not totally be understanding what you are saying, so if I miss the mark please excuse me. What I saw by your posts is that you easily go back to the natural headset you have with your mom. This is common amongst children and their parents. If you refer to it as being submissive, than it is how you will see it. With the other factor of not being in a submissive mind/nor dominant mind when in your own crowd of people, and it feels natural to you, if I remember reading that correctly, that too is part of you. I believe my own core is submissive, but i can also regulate how much of that comes out in my world. I have a bit of a fire energy in me, blessed ARies, and some see me being very dominant, but I am not. It just the way I carry myself. I not sure if I am making sense. What I am saying is yes there are different people and situations that my submissiveness comes out more than other times. There are times, for instance, running my own business that I will show more of a authoritve personality. Clue though is i am an expert in some areas, which does not distract from my own submissiveness. thaks, i guess ive not against submissive people, although i dont think being overly submissive is natural behaviour, certainly not for a man but i dont want to get in argument about that, but i genuinely dont think its my natural personality, i feel like ive been moulded that way and forced to be that way, so i guess its frustrating for me.
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